to much tongue in kissing!?

Question

ok...my Bf and i are bout' to go out to the movies and last time we went we kissed...but he used way to much tongue for my taste! How can I tell him w/o saying anything to not use to much....plz help me! thnx

Answer 1

Just kind of pull away from the makeout session briefly, look at him as if you were taking over, and start out slowly and gently...then work your way up to what you want...it should work.

Answer 2

It happened to me too, my BF used too much tongue for my taste and I had to tell him. But I DIDN'T tell him "hey I don't like the tongue"... no, that'll just get him upset and he'll think u think he kisses bad.

Tell him "hey, you know I love it when you kiss me, but I really ove it when you kiss me ____" tell him another way for him to kiss you, instead of telling him I don't like the tongue.

Or say, "I love how you kiss me softly with the lips more than with the tongue... im just letting you know what I like."

Answer 3

Just come right out and say it. "I don't want too much tongue" or "Hey, watch it with that tongue." or you could compliment him when he kisses you the way you like. Just whisper in his ear "ooo, I like it when you kiss me that way".

If you don't want to say anything at all, just close your lips or turn your head.

Answer 4

In a nice way, you need to tell him you like kissing with less tongue involvement. Unless you let him know what you enjoy, he won't and none of us know what another likes unless we express ourselves.

Answer 5

Bite his tounge! hahha jk no well I think you should just pull away wen he does that kinda show him you don’t like it with out telling him but with moving away alittle… you know? :P

Answer 6

lol