We have been together a couple of years and we have great sex but she thinks she is still inadequate because she hasn't given me a 3some and my ex-wife did. I am all for them but I am pretty happy in my relationship so I really don't want to indulge but as a guy I would probably do so. She wants to do it with a stranger to and I am not even sure about how to go about that. Any suggestions on what to tell her or where to meet a woman who would help her fulfill this so we can go on with our lives. I know that any guys who read this will not understand but woman please answer.
2007-12-28 08:22:51 · 7 answers · asked by Average joe 93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She would regret it- the fantasy is always better than the reality. Oblige her only if you want the relationship to end.
2007-12-28 08:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it.....doing it will only make her feel like you agree that she is inadequate tell her that what you two do in the bedroom is between the two of you and because its so good for you you dont want anyone else to be a part of it you want her all to your self and you want to focus all your attention only on her......let her know that a treesome does not involve love and that you love her so a treesome is not ever gonna compare to her alone
2007-12-28 16:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by ... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...what do you mean joe?...especially when you say "a guy won't understand this threesome kinda crap"...and especially this threesome crap you're trying to sorta kinda create here with your new partner honestly?
Do you think you're above all stuff really?.... that only a woman could answer this question here really?
I'm thinking you're sort of a mentally controlling kinda guy who simply reminds his new girlfriend that he once had a threesome with his ex and some other silly flussie possibly....and that now planting this controlling little mental seed in her mentally might kinda get HER to sorta kinda get curious about wanting to try a threesome too seemingly?
BRILLIANT my friend!!!.....YIKES!!!!!!!
No wonder you don't want "a guys" response and answer honestly!.......
2007-12-28 16:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem with the concept of threesomes, I just don't think they have any place in a serious relationship. I think that's asking for trouble.
2007-12-28 16:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Tish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds wild! as women, all we hear is how men have fantasys with multipule women, and your girlfriend probably feels like she wants to spice things up, and satisfy you.
2007-12-28 16:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by babii-gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her she is all you need and you don't need or want another woman.
2007-12-28 16:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by Tabby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds gross. And are you willing to subject yourselves to so many forms of vd?
2007-12-28 16:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋