Family & Relationships - 28 December 2007

2007-12-28 02:26:39 · 18 answers · asked by Ann T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...to go into the washroom at work and play spank the monkey while thinking of a hot woman I know?

2007-12-28 02:23:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so what would you think if you accidently saw a text message on your boyfriends cell and it said i'm so horny? he claims shes just a friend to talk to cause he can't talk to me...funny cause i had know idea we were having those kind of problems. he admitted knowing her from a chat room a while back and that he did have sex with her a long time ago, but can't remember her name.....so, if it acts and smells like a dog, is he a dog?

2007-12-28 02:22:07 · 24 answers · asked by littlebit 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband for 15 years is asking for divorce stating that i am not not at his mental level and he can not spend quality time with me. I have two kids. i am a house wife dependent on him.

I have found that He is having an affair with a girl 11 years younger to him and because of this he wants me to set him free. what are my options & On what grounds can he ask for a divorce from me. What are the legal procedures in this regard.

2007-12-28 02:21:12 · 13 answers · asked by ks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I have been together about 7 months, and everything is fantastic. But his birthday is coming up, and he asked me for a menage a trois. I'm a little leery, bc I know friends whose relationship has been ruined by trying it. I talked to him and voiced my fears. He said he's more interested in seeing me be intimate with another woman, then he is in having sex with anyone else. He also said he's tried it before with an ex-gf (like, 7 years ago), and that it was a lot of fun but it didn't change things between them and it wasn't something he wanted all the time. It would be a one-night-only thing. He tells me I'm the only one he wants to be with, and I believe him. He almost has me convinced.

What do you think? Should I indulge his fantasy? Or will he look at me differently/lose respect for me? Will I feel differently about him?

(I'm 26 and he's 29, if that matters).

2007-12-28 02:20:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All people say "let it go" but what thats mean.Is that mean to stop talking to the person,to delete his/ her numbers,pictures,memories?And how to" let it go "if that person keep contacting with you and pursue you,and whats from you to be a friends and to see you, and you feel so hurt by what he is done to you?It is sounds so easy when you say it but when it is come to realise it then its hard.

2007-12-28 02:19:58 · 5 answers · asked by Natalie B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 02:17:32 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This morning, my dad said to me,"Good morning angel." And my mom said,"How can you call that girl 'angel'?! She's 15 and can't say a pleasant sentence to anybody!" My dad replied,"That's not true, you're the uptight one around here, leave her alone!" And my mom just glared at me and walked away. She says I'm a very hateful person. I'm always afraid to talk to her. Please help!

2007-12-28 02:17:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When I was 15 and my boyfriend was 18, we "exchanged videos" if you know what I mean. Stupid, I know, especially on my part. I have since deleted all of his videos, but he still has mine on his computer and a DVD disk. I recently brokeup with him and I wanted No Contact whatsoever because he isn't someone I'd want to have contact with. However when I bring that up, he threatens to send the videos to my mom or put them online. I am really scared. He says things like "So I guess your mom is going to get a nice little present" or "If you keep making me mad I'm going to send her the videos" I actually recorded him admitting to having them and saying HOW exactly he would send them to my mom. I want some help. What should I do? He is a very manipulative and threataning person and I know he is using these videos as blackmail so we still remain in contact. Please, any advice?

2007-12-28 02:15:14 · 21 answers · asked by Apple S 2 in Singles & Dating

I have met the love of my life. He is such a great man and I love every moment with him as he does with me. I am 24 and he is 29.

The problem is, he is having a rough time financially for the first time in his life.
-He had a house and now he rents
-He had a great car and now he sold it for a cheaper one to pay of his credit.
-He has a 7 year old daughter that is so sweet and I accept.
-But a 'friend' of his called 6 months ago and said she has had his baby. (This happened before I met him) He is going to go to go take a DNA test soon.
-My parents are not happy about him because he doesn't own a house to offer me. They don't even know about the daughter yet!

I have been his support throughout all this because I know things will get better financially but the thought of the little girl being his kills me. I LOVE HIM, but this situation is harder than I was wanting.

I know my parents will be horrified if they found out about the girl(s).

Advice please?

2007-12-28 02:13:36 · 24 answers · asked by HotJewels 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am confused about something and im really stuck..im in a long distance relation and we do love each other soo much..he was coming to visit me in january coz its been a long time we didnt see each other ( a year and so)...unfortunatley his work cant give him a vacation in january till march..so that night i got a baaad headache coz i got soo mad because i really miss him...so i called him that night and told him i hate you..he said im not in the mood and we will talk the next day..he didnt call and when i called lots of times than he answered,he said that hes going to go to work..i feel that he changed when i told him that..i feel guilty..he must understand how i feel...+i dont know what to do,do i say im sorry ..please help

2007-12-28 02:12:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do either if us need to convert?

2007-12-28 02:11:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to give her a surprise, probably before Valentine...

2007-12-28 02:11:18 · 10 answers · asked by riemannnewton 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok i was eating my cornbread and when i went to my room i saw my dad in my cloths and his toe nails weere painted RED???? whaz do i do

2007-12-28 02:11:09 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-28 02:11:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other night she was washing dishes, yacking on the phone, making my dinner, and wiping the baby's nose. Then she has the nerve to go help our 3 yr old in his room. I sat for like 3 minutes waiting on her to get me the remote cuz my game was on TV. Its hard to get service these days, I swear!

2007-12-28 02:10:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend recently told me that he knows I love him by the look in my eyes. Can you really tell if someone loves you by the look in their eyes? Is this a good thing? We have been together for two years.

2007-12-28 02:10:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you do,you can find all the answers about the opposite sex

2007-12-28 02:09:35 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love a guy n he has comitted to marry me.
now he wants to have sex with me n that is the type of love he wants from me.i also want to have it but i wanna wait until we get married.. how do i covince him... he is becoming uncontrollable day by day...

2007-12-28 02:08:14 · 8 answers · asked by kittu 2 in Singles & Dating

They guy i love proposed to me christmas eve and i was very excited.. i have been a best friend of 5 yrs to the girl that is mad at me and she got engaged on christmas day. And the guy i am with is cousin's with the guy she is with. We got them together.. My guy was going to propose on new yrs eve but changed his mind and did it on christmas eve, bc he knew how excited i would be. she is mad and said we stabbed them in the back and hurt there feelings and were not being true friends bc we should have waited to new yrs to get engaged.. I think she is being very ugly and we got into and are not talking now..She is 24 and i think she is acting childish.. what do yall think? We were very happy for her and her guy..

2007-12-28 02:07:38 · 21 answers · asked by Sweetness33 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 02:06:22 · 6 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not planning to do this but I have heard this suggested many times as a way to cut costs. Are there any disadvantages to it? For example, the vendors getting pissed off when they find out they find out it's really a wedding and then giving you bad service because of it, etc? Do they really think that weddings need to cost so much because of a handful of high-maintenance brides and thus assume that everyone is the same way? From what I have seen, family parties are inexpensive but many wedding vendors charge more for wedding "extras" that a regular party doesn't have which they often won't take off even if the bride doesn't want them "because you can't have a proper wedding without it".

2007-12-28 02:06:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

They guy i love proposed to me christmas eve and i was very excited.. i have been a best friend of 5 yrs to the girl that is mad at me and she got engaged on christmas day. And the guy i am with is cousin's with the guy she is with. We got the together.. My guy was going to propose on new yrs eve but changed his mind and did it on christmas eve, bc he knew how excited i would be. she is mad and said we stabbed them in the back and hurt there feelings and were not being true friends bc we should have waited to new yrs to get engaged.. I think she is being very ugly and we got into and are not talking now..She is 24 and i think she is acting childish.. what do yall think? We were very happy for her and her guy..

2007-12-28 02:04:26 · 6 answers · asked by Sweetness33 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-28 02:04:08 · 5 answers · asked by MrHD 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with a girlfriend who is still in love with her abusive ex...? And says it will take her years to get over him, or that she may never get over him at all. Apparently she thinks that I am "extra-sensitive" because it upsets me. I think my reaction is normal, I told her to get over him, or go back to him... I don't do well with sharing, especially when she treats me like it's all my fault when all I do is try to calm her down and try to make her understand that she deserves better. He treats her like sh!t, and I get her wrath... WTF? Does she want to date a robot?

2007-12-28 02:03:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i seem to like nobody(male nad female) all of a sudden for some reason or another ...
now i dont feel like talkin to anybody .. is there somethin wrong with me or wht is the matter cose i was never like this before ...
i mean i feel like doin lots of stuff like watchin movies and all but i rather not watch than 2 watch with any 1 else ...

2007-12-28 02:00:49 · 5 answers · asked by amazed !!! 4 in Singles & Dating

All my friends tell me I used to be so much fun and how I have changed. My whole persona has changed. I have been married for 12 years and I could walk away today and not miss him. I do love him though so what is wrong with me.

2007-12-28 01:59:55 · 33 answers · asked by twisty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Miss a womans company very much,divorced now for four years.Please send me an email and i will send you a pic of me,then hopefuly take it from there.Very genuine man.Hampshire location.My kindest regards.David. tetik5@yahoo.co.uk

2007-12-28 01:59:45 · 9 answers · asked by tetik5 2 in Singles & Dating

a girl that needs a friend but doesnt want it to be a boy?

2007-12-28 01:58:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Out of no where, the relationship of 9 months with my boyfriend has suddenly kind of stopped in its tracks. I am just wondering, where does the love go?

(and please no perverted answers...)

2007-12-28 01:58:30 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley Ward 3 in Singles & Dating