ok, so what would you think if you accidently saw a text message on your boyfriends cell and it said i'm so horny? he claims shes just a friend to talk to cause he can't talk to me...funny cause i had know idea we were having those kind of problems. he admitted knowing her from a chat room a while back and that he did have sex with her a long time ago, but can't remember her name.....so, if it acts and smells like a dog, is he a dog?
2007-12-28 02:22:07 · 24 answers · asked by littlebit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's a dog. kick him to the curb.
2007-12-28 02:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by Duff Man 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he admitted pretty much everything to you or at leastalot for a guy. if he was cheating on you, you could expect a bit more hostility towards questions concerning the text nd stuff or maybe lying. the whole chat room seems a bit iffy but he did tell u that they had sex. personally he sounds like hes lying i mean he sais he doesnt know her name yet she texd him and has her number and he also chats to her and had sex with her. Its not concrete but u should be open to the idea that he's doggen you cos you dont want to assume too much and call him out when he infact isnt cheating
2007-12-28 02:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Che 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's "if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's a duck...". Whatever the saying, I think you're right. Your boyfriend seems to be talking out of both sides of his mouth, maybe in an attempt to get some pity sex from someone who feels sorry for him for having to endure "mean ol' you". Okay, you're not really mean, but that IS the tactic. Maybe you need a new boyfriend; someone you can actually trust.
2007-12-28 02:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yep I guess. Keep a watchful eye (and ear) though now he's been discovered he will most likely become more secretive.. textin in the loo is a usual underhand trick as is "I'm just going to see ... "
Methinks he needs obedience classes, dogs are loyal but they only serve ONE master. Don't place all you have on your future together. Be careful.
2007-12-28 02:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like something is going on. If I where you I would make him give you his phone and (You) text a reply to this girl and tell her that you (him) has a girlfriend and you (Him) do not want to cheat on her.(You) Then, I would keep a close eye on his phone messages. You have to ask yourself if it is all worth it.Once trust is lost it is hard to regain.It is not a quick fix no matter what.It will take time.
2007-12-28 05:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by louisburg_27549 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't be so worried about her past with him as I would her present with him, and the fact that he goes outside the relationship to communicate. Ask him to consider how he would feel if you talked to a guy like that because you couldn't talk to him. If he acts like it wouldn't bother him then leave him and find a guy to talk to that will respect you more.
2007-12-28 02:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by #2 in the oven 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's highly likley. If thier just friends he should have no problem introducing you to eachother. That really dont matter tho because girls will play along. Who has a friend they confide in but cant remember thier neme?
What did his sent messages say
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2007-12-28 02:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by AntG 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
bad news.
first of all, he's with you, why can't he talk to you?????
my boyfriend and i talk about everything. communication is one of the most important things in a relationship.
and even if they are "just talking" that is inappropriate talk and behaviour for someone who is involved.
don't stick around. men never change. lies are never ending.
and you deserve better.
2007-12-28 02:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Look at his reply to her. If he replied in a malicious manner than yeah he's a dip shiit but it he handled it with honor and I hope to God he did then it was the girls doing not his.
2007-12-28 02:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by Adeptus Astartes 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if hes horny and hes not looking to you for help with that then hes a dog. dump him before he makes you look bad
2007-12-28 02:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
YES.. if he's YOUR boyfriend, he should definitely not be texting something like that to someone other than YOU.
2007-12-28 02:25:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋