This morning, my dad said to me,"Good morning angel." And my mom said,"How can you call that girl 'angel'?! She's 15 and can't say a pleasant sentence to anybody!" My dad replied,"That's not true, you're the uptight one around here, leave her alone!" And my mom just glared at me and walked away. She says I'm a very hateful person. I'm always afraid to talk to her. Please help!
2007-12-28 02:17:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think the incidence mentioned by you is not enough proof to make an opinion that you mom hates you.
Your mom says that you are a hateful person / You can't say a pleasant sentence to anybody.
What is a the truth? You hate people or you love people?
If you believe what she thinks is wrong, then you should not be worried about her observation.
But why does she thinks so?
Do you love her? Have you been kind to her all the time?
Love her, be kind to her and see if she can change her opinion.
Now, if you start hating her, that may lead to more hatred .. So best option for you is to love her ( irrespective of what she tells and think of you ) and hopefully you should see better relationship in the long run.
Why does your mom want you to say pleasant sentences to people, not to be hateful?
Because these are good habits and will help YOU in building and living a happy and meaningful life. You benefit from them not your mom.
If your mom is dealing with you with these intentions then she wants something good for you, she wants to prepare you for a happy life, she cares for you. This is love.
One of the answerers, 'Captain S' has shared an important observation regarding the age and relationship. Consider that aspect too.
Best Luck!
2007-12-28 03:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Live2Love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only you know what your mom is referring to.she probably has some basis to her comments.your 15 i doubt your perfect.did you previously get in an argument with her or someone else in your house.your mom's around you more and sees more than your dad.prove your mom wrong.do what you can to be a good person.sometimes it's hard.tell your mom you love her and give her a hug.that will help melt the heart.and change doesn't happen over night.but keep trying your efforts will be rewarded.
2007-12-28 02:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mac 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think this is typical of where you are in your life right now. Mother/daughter relationships seem to go through a rough patch during the teen years but stabilize later on as you reach adult challenges that only your mother can help you negotiate. It'll ultimately be fine, and no, your mother does NOT hate you.
2007-12-28 02:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her! She is probably holding a grudge of something that happened. You need to talk it out with both of your parents and see what the problem is, even if you might be afraid. Good Luck!
2007-12-28 02:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Smartypants 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well from what you just told us you didnt say anything hateful at all and your dad was right on target. Why is your mom so ugly?
2007-12-28 02:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Yeppers! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww hunny, my heart just brakes for you... Your dad should be putting her in her place. She has no reason to treat you like that. I would confined in your father and let him know how you feel. It is very important that he know you don't feel loved and cared for by your mum. It's his job to let her know that her behavior towards you in not okay.. I can honestly say if my husband ever treated out kids like that I kick him out. Kids come first
2007-12-28 02:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As teenegers we sometimes feel that our parents don't like us, but they never hate us.
I would maybe talk to your Dad and see if he can get yall talking, or maybe he can talk to your Mom for you. Good luck!
2007-12-28 04:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Animal Lover ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl I feel for you my mom too treats me like crp, but at least ur dad represent you, whtas wrong with some mothers these days, aren't the suppose 2 b our best friends damn..
2007-12-28 02:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your mum DOESN'T HATE you. believe me. cos my um hates and I know how it looks like. your mum is just probably hurt by something you said or did to her. she probably won't talk to you about it, so I suggest U think what has your relationship been lately and if you think of something you did wrong, apologize. She doesn't hate you. Just try.
2007-12-28 02:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by anitomic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
must have that time of the month
2007-12-28 02:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋