i love a guy n he has comitted to marry me.
now he wants to have sex with me n that is the type of love he wants from me.i also want to have it but i wanna wait until we get married.. how do i covince him... he is becoming uncontrollable day by day...
2007-12-28 02:08:14 · 8 answers · asked by kittu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to wait, and be firm about it. If he really loves and is committed to you, he'll wait. If he gets pissed and starts bemoaning about needs, "you don't love me" and all that crap, then his true colors may be showing.
I think it's great that you want to wait until marriage before having sex.
2007-12-28 02:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by CatNip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say if you want to marry me you have to respect my actions and how i feel-- and that means that i want to wait untill i get married...
Or you could just walk out when he gets to uncontrollable..
2007-12-28 10:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the point in waiting till you're married? Its bad enough you have already committed to only having sex with one person in your entire life, why compound that by waiting even longer when you both want it?
what going to change when youre married?
2007-12-28 10:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait until you get married. If he can't wait, he doesn't respect your feelings and is not worth it!
2007-12-28 10:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he refuses to accept your decision, then he is not worth marrying. You don't want to be stuck with a husband that will not respect you.
2007-12-28 10:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him if he can not respect your wishes of waiting till marraige then you dont know if this will work!!
GOOD LUCK
2007-12-28 10:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
kittu-i like your attitude.tell him straight and req him not to indulge in it before marriage
2007-12-28 10:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hunn , if all he wants is sex forget him ... you dont need him if ALL he wants is SEX forget him .....
2007-12-28 10:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by kori!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋