nothing else matters ok?

Question

i thought the job was more important. i weighed my odds, and i honestly thought the job would be more important to my life. i was wrong. i lost her and i've aced everything i've touched since. but i've never been happy since. don't ever go for the money or the job. just stay with the girl and make a family. nothing else matters ok

Answer 1

Okay so you have your kindom and now you want your bride.

Is there anyway of contacting her - why do you say you lost her? Is she now married?

It takes time to find another one - you are going to go through lots of wrong ones before you find the right one. What you need to do is really be honest with yourself, have you now Glorified your past relationship with this lost one? Is so easy to say how great is was or would have been, but it is not reality.

If you have aced so many things you can and you will ace this. Give yourself time and be good to yourself

Answer 2

Love alone will never be gaurenteed, it comes and goes, no matter what! And if you think that your work was the only problem then you are leing to yourself! It is obvious that she had more problems then just you working... But the amount you worked was an easy target to blame.

Love can not put food on the table, buy clothing, pay bills or make you healthy but work can do all these things and when we are involved with someone that can't understand that work is a MUST no matter how much some one does it, then that person is imature and was not your life partner to begin with, so no more saddness, see the bigger picture and stop blaming yourself b/c to leave someone b/c of how much a person works is just an exuse and only part of the story!

Say something medically went wrong and you were living in poverty with no medical insurance b/c you decided that she were more important and medical bills were just pileing up and you couldn't afford to put food on your table, she would have left anyway! B/c of the endless worry and financial struggles along with all the frustrasions the lack of money can casue -trust me!!! So feel good and find someone else that will understand your demanding job and see the long term benefits - it won't be your x that will be sailing around the world or traveling with you when you do retire and it all will be well worth it, but you fail to see the one that it will be, will be the one who will deserve it, that one and only one that understood you better to beging with and that was more trust worthy and loveing, the one women that was ment to be. So saddness no more! Drop the hold she has on you and keep moving- life is good but if you don't drop your saddness that she has caused you and if you don't stop blaming yourself you will not open your heart and the doors for your true soul mate to walk in.... Find someone that works just as much as you and that has common interests you won't go wrong. All is well and happening just the way it should be...Trust with all your heart and you will not be let down.

Answer 3

Your life matters, so move on, learn from the mistake you made. So you made a mistake, it's ok.

Answer 4

First of all: M S - you need to grow up you weirdo.

Secondly, try to get the girl back.

Answer 5

Thank you for teaching from experience. I hope you find your happiness and cherish it when you do find it. Good luck

Answer 6

I just wanted to say, I don't think anyone said it better then Sophia0..(Sorry if I got her name wrong)

Answer 7

At least you recognize your mistake. Sad thing is that I believe Love knocks only once in our lifetimes. Hopefully that was not it for you!

Answer 8

ok

Answer 9

boo hoo, poor me

grow some testicles dude, you sound like a broad

Answer 10

ok