When I turned 18. my moms best friend called me and said she had a gift for me, I wnet over she was wearing a teddy, and she seduced me this was my first time having sex should I tell my mom?
2007-12-28 17:37:20 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She told me not to tell, and this was a one time thing... Told me what to do to please another young lady!!!
2007-12-28 17:48:09 · update #1
I was scared because I wore no protection, she told me I needed none, she could not have kids>>
2007-12-28 17:50:35 · update #2
Yeah, I am sure she will want to write her a thank you note for the very thoughtful gift.
2007-12-28 17:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The political answer is not always best to hear first so I beg you to read the answer in full. You should tell your mom from the aspect that someone reaching that far down in the "age pool" may have some issues, however you do not need to act on her decision you are an adult.
Just know in the back of your head that you are eighteen and while able to make your own decisions just don't let this older woman become a drag that doesn't let you miss all the cool girls out there your age.
2007-12-28 17:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that no matter the consequences, you should always take responsibility for your actions, and especially in your case, because she is your mother's friend, I think that the best way to face the situation is to take the bull by the horns and tell your mother. Not only will it be the right thing to do, it will be the best way for you to handle this; you don't want this sort of thing to snowball into a huge secret that weighs on your mind and conscience.
I'm sure you'll make the decision that is best for you and your family; just trust yourself and do what you think is going to be right.
2007-12-28 17:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by jp917 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 42 and I cant imagine being with an 18 yr old! Yuck! Get a life.
2007-12-28 17:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you tell your mom everything? You got seduced by a cougar.. Would you tell your mom that you had sex with a younger woman? Sounds like a hell of a birthday present
2007-12-28 17:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough call, but I think you should man up and tell her. Kind of put the blame on the woman that seduced you though. You should tell her.
2007-12-28 17:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Michael V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, why in the world do you want to tell your mom? What business is it of hers who your "doin".
If this lady is hot & gets ya goin, then why not milk it for all its worth. Call & ask where your Christmas gift is at. LOL
2007-12-28 17:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzywiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really your choice since you are 18 but your mom is going to freak if she finds out!!! You should probably find someone a little closer to your age to do that with... or at least someone who isn't friends with your mom!!
2007-12-28 17:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're man enough to do it; then be man enough to figure out your own problems. But so to speak...when I was eighteen I looked at myself as a man. That term "telling my mom" was used from 5th grade on down.
2007-12-28 17:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't.
you are an adult now and free to make your own sexual decisions. you may regret having sex with her but...i think we can all remember a person or two we regret having sex with!
i would only tell mom if you were making a relationship or habit of it....
otherwise...a one time thing...id just keep it quiet.
2007-12-28 17:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋