Okay,
There is this girl that I REALLY like, she is in my grade and my school, and school is back in like next week. This girl likes me the same way I like her, but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend right now. I asked her a question like "What would you say to me if I asked you out like right now ?" And then she said what's up there ^^^^ .. And with this added: "But I'd also kinda like to get to know you a little better" .. We knew each other like since school went back from summer but haven't really talked up until this month and we talked A LOT since. What I am asking is, she likes me, I like her, she doesn't want a boyfriend RIGHT NOW, should I ask her out like a few days after school goes back ? Please tell me me what you think. Thank you and have a god day :)
2007-12-28 16:20:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man there are way too many good answers I wish I could put you all as best answer. Thank you so much each and every one of you. I am going to try this and see if I am successful. Again, thanks so much you've all helped me out a lot, guys, and girls. :)
2007-12-29 06:39:20 · update #1
Oh yeah and I think I will have to let the public vote for the best answer when the question closes. I can't pick.
2007-12-29 06:40:01 · update #2
me me like like you you lol
2007-12-28 16:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ aLeXiS bEeZyS ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take some time to know her. If you're sure she likes you and you really like her then just wait a bit. School can be pretty stressful and all. Not only that, but it would prove that she really likes you if she doesn't go with anyone else. Girls are suckers for sweet stuff and romantic stuff, so if you plan to ask her out, make it special. Throw in some cookies, flowers, cards, or a good pick up line. She'll appreciate it more and would probably consider you right away! =D
2007-12-28 16:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol. well um when she says right now, im pretty sure she dosent mean like right this instant. just give it a nother week or two, and keep talking to her.
i've had this same problem, only the other way around. i wanted him to ask me out, but he didnt want a gf. just give it time, and keep talking. she'l tell you when the time is ready.
&&
just a small tip:
when you do ask her out, dont do it over the fone do it in person when you think she'l least expect it. grils like that kinda thing.
2007-12-28 16:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Grasshopper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Didn't bother looking at the other suggested answers so sorry if this is a repeat.
What I suggest is to: not go to fast. By this I mean, not ask her out (as in bf gf) anytime soon. Just go out to see a movie and claim its to, "get to know each other better since we haven't seen each other in a long time."
While your with her just be yourself, try not to make anything weird, blah blah.
If you are going to see a movie be careful what movie you are going to see, I would suggest asking her what she wants to see. (if its romantic you may have gotten lucky as this may be a clue).
Anyways, best of wishes to you.
2007-12-28 16:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by FickelFascination 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kodi you sound so cute! dont rush her cause then she will start getting annoyed by ur question. Just keep talking to her and let her get to know u like she says she wants, then she will give you a hint when she is ready.
2007-12-28 16:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by littlebotas17 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Form a friendship with her. Talk to her IN FRONT OF HER FRIENDS, joke around with her, invite her to play soccer or basketball with you. Just try to become frinds with her first and your love relationship will gradually form and she will become more sure of you as being her boyfriend and be patient. TRUST ME. Good luck!! <3
2007-12-28 16:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
from a girls point of view i think you should definately go for it
ask her out, and if she rejects you, shell obviously say its because she doesnt want a boyfriend right now
but just take the chance and i know shell say yes
but if she does say no, just crush it off and say "oh, ok. i understand. maybe nows just not a good time."
but DEFINATELY go for it. thats so sweet :]
2007-12-28 16:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask her to join you for school lunch daily if possible and start with that. Take care.
2007-12-28 16:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by txdollaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her out about a week after school starts.
2007-12-28 16:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her out a few days after.
2007-12-28 16:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by universal friend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i have the same problem but i am the girl, ask her out!! she wants you to! she is probably dying for you to ask!
2007-12-28 16:23:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋