I remember when I was14, I had this fantasy and I've always had it. I imagined being married and sharing my wife physically with other men. Watching a woman have sex and be extremely into getting/giving pleasure is so arousing for me. I'm 24 now, and I am happily married. I love her to death, and vice versa. Foot massages in front of the tv after work, little surprises, passionate sex. Seeing the only woman in my life so turned on and into giving/receiving pleasure with me and even other men is insanely arousing, I can't stop thinking about watching her have sex with someone else.
It's not that I don't want to have sex with her, she's the greatest and our love live is tops, but it's just disappointing that my #1 desire isn't being fulfilled. I don't want any other women.
Women, if you were in a relationship that was wonderful for 4 years and counting, and your man shared this fantasy(although not asking you to do anything), how would you respond?
2007-12-28 18:51:05 · 6 answers · asked by Chris S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Note: I know exactly what I want. To anybody that thinks I'm confused with my desires and simply doesn't understand, please do not respond.
If you understand that your man loves you, it isn't that he doesn't respect you, and know that he wouldn't be with other women and that it would make him happy, would you have the desire, or would you be completely against it, still?
I would add, if my wife had the same fantasy, I would sleep with other women to make her happy(although I'd enjoy it somewhat too, but that's besides the point).
2007-12-28 18:53:38 · update #1
Oh my that sounds GOOD... I like the idea of things being RISKY... It does add some excitement to the usually sex... I say slowly bring her into it by asking her what she thinks about someone watching you all, and if she says it would turn her on to have someone watch then you know she's just one step away from you being the watcher.
Mann, have fun for me... I'm jealous
2007-12-28 19:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by HoTTTcarmel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, give it a shot, tell her what you're thinking about and explain it to her exactly as you've explained it here. Tell to go out with the girls and find a guy. Let her know you want the full details when she gets back.
2007-12-28 21:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by drarkane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly believe that acting out this fantasy is fraught with danger. Your marriage would never be the same again. You may lose her to another man or you may not fully grasp the impact it would have on your feelings for your wife.
Sounds like dangerous fun.
2007-12-28 18:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have the same but wife says she only wants me...lucky for you if she goes for it. Just be careful
2016-06-15 09:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend:
i know u have asked this question from other women but i think i can help you.
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your only friend would be the Mirror
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one time that u are both having sex try to do it infront of the mirror that ur back is to the mirror and her face is in front of it, so by this way she only sees ur back while u are having sex it is like another guy having sex with her if she got exited in the middle of sex it means she likes the idea but if you see there is an opposite reaction try not to think about asking her.
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Good Luck
little john
2007-12-28 20:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by LittlE JohN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a foursome with some friends and just "swap" women! :) It's fun.
2007-12-29 12:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by kendrafer25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋