I met this girl during a company orientation in Sept. She and I work for the same company but totally different areas so us possibly dating is not a big deal in our company. Anyways our jobs both have us travel a lot during the week so we really don't get to see each other or hang out that BUT we stay in touch with each other via e-mail or company IM...mostly IM. We rarely call each other...I know..I know ...not good.
So anyways I would like to hang out with her more often with just the two us.......
How do you guys recommend that I do this without being so obvious? Or is obvious good? ....She might think this is weird after 4-5 months of knowing her
Thanks
2007-12-28 16:06:05 · 5 answers · asked by lenz0223 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think its weird at all after 5 months of knowing her if you ask her out. just ask her out. dont think just do it.i think its a little romantic.office love
2007-12-28 16:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Marissa R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obvious is good. don't come on too strong..that can be overwhelming and she might feel like she can't say no without feeling guilty...
just throw the idea out there, "hey next time we cross paths let's do dinner or something...i'd like to talk with you face to face for once"...something lighthearted like that..
good luck :)
2007-12-29 00:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by lisee11087 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with being obvious ?
What you see as being a 'turn off' she may interpret as being bold. Gosh, what if she likes bold guys and not wimpy ones ?
2007-12-29 00:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Brad B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong at making it obvious that you are attracted to her.
2007-12-29 00:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by MoreOfMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come out and tell her how you feel, if she ask why so long
say you are shy. let her know politely you want to hang
out with her more often.
2007-12-29 00:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋