Im 21. Ive been seeing a girl for almost three months. She has serious trust issues b/c she has been hurt in the past. I got her a hoodie for christmas. She texted me tonight saying that she was cuddling up in the hoodie i got her. I reponded a half hour later b/c my phone was upstairs and I was downstairs and i didnt get the text for a half hour. She got very angry and asked what took so long to respond. She hasnt talked to me in days because i took a half hour to respond to her text. Is she overreacting. Do all girls act like this??
2007-12-28 15:59:15 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow is she overreacting! Tell her to get over it or move on. You shouldn't have to deal with her issues.
Most girls do not act like that so maybe you need to find yourself a little more in touch with reality.
2007-12-28 16:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by מימי 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i will help a guy out!! i am a gigrl so i know how it feels. my boyfriend doesnt even text back sometimes an i dont text him back either cause we both have lives and we get busy so to answer youur question,YES she is overreacting OMG ur bf doesnt answer 1 message the is the end of the freaking world!!! just ignore her and ivenually she will get over it or at least i would if the guy was really worthy it. maybe this is her way of breakin up. there i've left you with somethin to think bout i can see my job here is done lol. a hope i helped
2007-12-28 16:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not all girls act this way, or at least not that I know of. She's definatly overreacting. You need to talk to her, and tell her that it's not fair that you pay for something that someone else has done to her. Tell her how you feel about her, and tell her that she can trust you and she don't have to worry about you going behind her back, and also a good thing to ask her is What can I do to make you trust me?
2007-12-28 16:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Phoebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow im a 20 y/o girl and i say she is over reacting. it was only 30 mins not like it was 3 hours or 3 days i understand her having trust issues but that seems a little extrem you should tell her trust is something that is needed in a relationship and also ask her if she has any reasons not to trust you or believe you would cheat one her, me personally i think she is overreacting
hope that helps
2007-12-28 16:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ninja_princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, yes, she is SO overreacting...I mean, yeah, I get the whole trust issue thing, but I mean, a half hour of no reply, and then not talking to you for days? A little dramatic. And no, all girls do not act like that.
2007-12-28 16:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's overreacting.
Tell her as much, it's a HOODIE, you've been dating 3 MONTHS.
I've been dating my bf for over a year, and he goes out with his buddies for days at a time, if he doesn't answer his phone, well, likely it's still in the car when he's inside. I'm not gonna freak out, because he'll call me when he see's I've called.
2007-12-28 16:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ravenberri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is only the beginning. She is very insecure. She cannot control her feelings. If you do not do what she expects she feels like your relationship is out of control. She is battling to get control by not speaking. Soon she will talk to you and you will make up. Your relationship will be good for a while. Time will pass you will do somthing she does not expect or approve of and the process will repeat. The good times will be great but she will punish you somehow every time you do not meet her expectations. It is a tuff way to live but it is your life! Do you have time for this?
2007-12-28 16:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by t-bhaer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, sounds like she is over reacting which can be a real problem further down the line, maybe its a sign to move on.
ive known a few friends at work (girls) who are like this and i just think wow your a future stalker..
shes being immature about it she could have said something and knowing your phone wasnt with you just excepted it and chilled out.
time to find another i think.
2007-12-28 16:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Angie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not all girls
but she sounds like she likes attention not in a bad way
u have 2 tell her y u didnt answer
and u said she had trust issues were they b/c the boy was cheatin on her??
she might still b getting over that
BEst of luck
z
2007-12-28 16:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by zoegirl021996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is overreacting. I can't imagine not talking to someone for a few days cause they didn't text back fast enough. I wouldn't have any friends if I did that.
2007-12-28 16:02:21 · answer #10 · answered by Heather Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋