Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now, and he use to call me everyday. Now, i have to call him every other day and i think it's because we have nothing to talk about on the phone.
please help me with some conversation starters cus i dont want to be known as the boring girlfriend.
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2007-12-28 16:12:59 · 20 answers · asked by Laura(<3=]) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-12-28 16:17:18 · update #1
All relationships lose that new feeling after a while and what made for good conversation when you first met may now be old news..Guys generally get bored real fast when we girls try to talk to them about girly things like shopping, clothes, makeup, and gossiping about other girls. try to talk to him about HIS interests and REALLY LISTEN to what he has to say with out interrupting..Many guys also become less chatty when they get comfortable with you..it's just a guy thing..And unless you really keep up with his favorite sports team, video game,, music etc, you may end up talking more often with your girlfriends on the phone than him..Just remember being interested in many things and people ,makes you interesting and someone fun to talk to.. don't be so focused on him that you lose all interest in the people and activities around you..
2007-12-28 16:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be that you and your boyfriend were getting to know each other before, so you were talking about your past, learning about each others' personalities, etc. which you already know now. There's nothing wrong with calling your boyfriend every other day instead of every day. Just talk about interesting things that happened to you during the day, things you heard about in the news, what you're planning to do in the future, etc.
2007-12-29 00:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you know him enough to know his hobbies, likes and dislikes, or political affiliations? Where does he stand on the issue of abortion, illegal aliens, the age to buy alcohol, etc... Just think of any topic you think he might be passionate about.
If he use to call you everyday, has something changed to attract his attention more?? Is he spending more time on video games ? the internet ? hanging out with his guy friends ? or is there another girl in his life ??
2007-12-29 00:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Corporate America !! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Don't call him. He's probably gotten used to your calling. Let him call you. When he calls, just talk for ten minutes and say, "I'm sorry, I've got a million things to do." When he calls, always be just on your way out.
Also, develop some new hobby that gets you out. You can try swing dancing, running, walking, hiking, going to a book club, it doesn't matter, it should be something that exposes you to new things, so you have something new to talk about that he doesn't know about.
2007-12-29 00:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am not much of a phone person. I would be the first to suggest lets get together and play tennis, go for a bike ride.
2007-12-29 00:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i could give you a few things to talk about with your boyfriend but im not. And no im not trying to be mean but if its not there then its just not there. It might be time to move on.
2007-12-29 00:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by braidstarr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've noticed (I'm 52) that when guys get together with each other they get together to do things. When girls get together with each other it's to talk. It leads me to think that to be more interesting to him you should do things together. Then you can talk about what you do together and other things to get the girl part you want.
2007-12-29 00:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. WD 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk about why he likes you or why you like him
try hanging out in person
then
after the phone wont seem like a bore
and convos pop up everywhere
2007-12-29 00:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by meg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best conversation is silence
so maybe its good you guys have nothing to talk about because you can just reflect in each others beauty in silence
2007-12-29 00:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what he is most interested in and then bring it up and he should do the rest and all u have to do is just agree with him and listen. then when your done w/ that conv. say anyways what have you been up to lately. Another thing is to dirty talk w/ him then he'll start calling u b/c he's more interested.
2007-12-29 00:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by Tass 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋