I'm a 15 year old sophomore. I breakdance, i tag graffiti (don't even try to tell me why i break the law), i love music, i get good grades and everything...But anyway, my mom doesn't seem to like my friends. She says its because i always hang out with them up until a bit before curfew. And she says just because how they look. But she can't understand that they're the ones who can really understand me. My mom is like 60+ (yes i was a very late child) and she use to go straight home from school when she was my age so i don't think she'd understand the concept of cruising. But she doesn't want me to hang out with them anymore, but they are the ones who i can always turn to and i'll be damned if i have to get new friends. What do i do?
2007-12-28 16:05:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My mom has seen my friend and everything, they call her aunty and respect her (i live in hawaii so yah...the whole aunty thing). I just can't understand why she doesn't like them
2007-12-28 16:12:02 · update #1
eh, I understand where you're coming from. Your friends are like your family. They understand you and comfort you when your family can't. But you need to remember that your mom loves you and cares about you. You only have 1 mother and since she is getting old, you may want to do right by her. Try to just stay home 1 day a week, help her around the house or something. Maybe you can get your friends involved too so she can get to know them better. She just misses you and probably has a hard time saying it.
2007-12-28 17:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by chelow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 15. You need to listen to you mom. I felt the same way when I was that age but when I went to jail who was there... My mom not my so called friends. Do right by your mother because she will always be there for you.
2007-12-29 00:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Spring M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for a mother to not like her son's friends if she doesn't know them. Ask them to hang out at your house, ask your mom to fix dinner for them. My daughters friends did that and they still call me mom. I love all of them cause they were good kids and are good young adults. Its on you to prove to your mother that your friends are worthy.
2007-12-29 00:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so wuts ur question?
2007-12-29 00:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋