Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

Did you intentionally "stick" it to him or did life just do it for you?

2007-12-26 04:09:29 · 44 answers · asked by Sondra 6 in Marriage & Divorce

A couple of weeks ago, he got angry & punched me & threatened to call the cops on me for not letting him use my computer. (I'm very overprotective of my computer) Then, this past week, he went out of town & he got into an altercation with my twin sister, & he claims she stabbed him, but he didn't call the cops because he "didn't want her kids to be taken away from their mommy". He also claimed she tried to tazer & fry him & blind him with bleach. But he'd rather take my life away over something petty-since he can't take my college degree away. When I confronted him & asked him about punching me & trying to call the cops on me, his response was, "That wasn't me. That was a different person inside my body." Me & my twin sister are 24, & he's 28. Yes, I do understand his frustration about my lesbian twin sister stealing his girlfriend & bragging about it, but don't take it out on me. I'm heterosexual. My twin sister put on a facade of marriage & kids to hide her homosexuality.

2007-12-26 04:06:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The child(17) just wakes up - and is told go to two different stores to run two errands for his father. The child unenthusiastically agrees and gets ready to go. The father then blows up and starts cursing and yelling because he does not like the way the child answers. He then leaves to do them himself. The mother thinks the father is right to be angry because he did not like the way the child answers. Who is at fault?

2007-12-26 04:01:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm starting a business as a wedding and party co-ordinator and want to know, in your opinion, if you were to hire a wedding planner, how would you like to see them dressed? I need a new wardrobe and want to know general opinions.

2007-12-26 03:53:40 · 22 answers · asked by paper_lily 1 in Weddings

yesterday on Christmas my best friend Silvia told me about a fight her parent had. Michelle, her mom got into a fight with her husband which is george. George was choking Michelle like 7 times and michelle got out a knife and almost killed him. He was trying to calm her down by outting his weight on her and michelle is very thin and hes very obeses or hes a fattie.
True Story.
Im scared for Silvvia and shes only 14

2007-12-26 03:51:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to see what married people might think about my situation, I'm asking this again cause I'm thinking of changing my phone number ...

ok so i want to see what people on here think about my ex.. I caught her with a married guy about 3 years ago and haven't spoken to her in about 2 years... So the dude got her pregnant and walked out on her out of fear that his wife will find out...

so now she's calling me for money cause he's having a tough time with the baby and lost her job for coming in f*cked up all the time from partying the night before.. I say F*ck her but one of my friends says i have to think about the child involved, especially since the baby's father's 'profession' pretty much indicates the support amount the court sets will be next to nothing

btw.. on christmas eve i saw her on caller ID again!! I didn't pick up cause one of my friends is trying to convince me to help her... and since it was christmas I was considering it

2007-12-26 03:51:31 · 28 answers · asked by Undead 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It does not make sense, you hear of women that go after and stay with men that mis-treat them, beat them, cheat on them, and deprive of them over financial stability?

Women only please!!!!

2007-12-26 03:50:50 · 11 answers · asked by azz hole 2 in Singles & Dating

Every Christmas, we follow the exact same routine. Christmas Eve, everybody has to arrive at the exact same time... the same annual neighbors and friends stop by and that ends exactly at the same time every year, my mother actually has small sleigh bells that she rings to signal people that it's time to leave. We sit around and sing the same carols and take turns reading that X-mas poem before going to bed. Then the next morning, at the exact time as always, we open gifts in the same order, then later eat the same food we do every year at 3:00, and my father tells the same stories about the "old days" every year, even though we all know them by heart by now.

I recently got engaged and my fiancee's family celebrates X-mas Eve more than X-mas Day. I told my mother that we would like to spend next X-mas Eve at her parents and drive up the next day, she freaked out and said I'm going to "throw everything off" and possibly "ruin it for everyone". How can I get her to accept small changes?

2007-12-26 03:49:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I flirted with an old friend, never had sex with her. We flirted for a short period of time. My wife's had it and now wants to leave me. Any suggestions on what i need to do to earn her trust?

2007-12-26 03:47:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I worked with this person for over a year and was initially attracted to her physically, but recently we took a business trip together and I have since developed strong feelings for her. I have not told her anything, and have no idea how she feels towards me, although I have a sense that she feels somewhat the same towards me. Obviously, this is causing problems in my marriage, and I really want to have never met this person. My wife and I are married for 2 years and I have been faithful to her but I am finding it impossible to ignore these feelings towards my coworker. I need help.

2007-12-26 03:38:46 · 24 answers · asked by Jason R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and i have fallen preganant. When i was tidying my boyfriends side table in our room today i found a small photo booth picture of his ex girlfriend. I asked him about it and he said he didnt know how it got in there. But this was a fairly new cupboard and he had only recently put his things in there so i think he obviously lying to me. He mentions his ex quite alot aparently they split up about 2 yrs ago because she chated on him with his best friend. And she also called him not long ago asking him to go round hers for a drink without me. He declined but i heard her ask about the picture and he said he still had it and wasnt going to throw it away.

Ok the questions are can i really trust him and does it seem like he cant get over his ex? What should i do.

Thanks alot
Ducky
x

2007-12-26 03:35:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your f in law torments you with his problems with his own son?
I can't take it anymore, seems to me I'm married to the 2 of them.

2007-12-26 03:33:33 · 12 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Marriage & Divorce

she keeps asking stupid questions all the time!?!?!
she onced asked "if a boy twin and a girl twin marry what will happen?" THEY WILL DIEEEE?! obviously not!!
okay maybe that was out of her weird curiousity but there are tons of stupid dumb questions like "is whip cream fattening?"
wth man! its made of sugar and friggin cow's milk and bear in mind that its OBVIOUSLY COMMON SENSE. thats is not the worst question. i don't know where the questions keep comming from. me and my other friend got so irritatied that we kept asking her not to ask idiotic questions and yet she continues to do it without knowing. i seriously do not understand what is going on in that brain of hers. she seriously do not know basic stuff a 10-year old knows. it's driving me up the wall!!!!!!!

2007-12-26 03:32:22 · 1 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Friends

or was like now where everyone knows its kind of a joke and everyone cheats and its only bad if you get caught and everone goes to their dad's on the weekends

2007-12-26 03:32:09 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-boyfriend recently split up with his girlfriend and he texts me out of the blue. Told me all about his problems and I became his shoulder to cry on. We now been flirting on text messages, also having sexual text fun, I don't know if he really likes me, as he not saying anything yet, he knows I like him, all he says 'that for me to know and for you to know etc' is he playin hard to get?

2007-12-26 03:32:09 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you believe that this type of love only happens once in our lives and as much as we live, no matter the time, the age we are, nothing, will prevent us from thinking about this person from time to time? Please, do answer me with honesty.

2007-12-26 03:28:30 · 7 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

Ex love of my life went back to old ex girlfriend 2 months ago. they are both 59. I am 44 and since accidentally seeing him out he has emailed me and txted me over 80 messages and professes his love for me. he states that his girlfriend..he loves as a person but could never be in love with anyone but me. My son loves him too he is 11. My question is...why won't he make up his mind about us. NOW. Says he doesn't want to hurt his old new girlfriend. I have waited and cried for the last 6 weeks. I am a very strong woman who thought I knew what to do. Am getting tired of waiting on the side lines. Have never been this in love in all my life, but it's killing me. HELP please????how much time should he be given to chose???

2007-12-26 03:24:54 · 13 answers · asked by sharpneedleinahaystack 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanted to send an e-mail to my ex-husband and his mother asking them to spend less time on the phone with my daughter.

She is 15 and came her to live with me about 5 months ago. However, she is not as focused on her studies as she should be and spends time on the phone with her Dad and grandmother.

Now her grandmother has a cell phone and this is another attraction for her since she can call her for free. (mobile to mobile minutes)

My mom, her and I went shopping on Monday for things for our apartment, etc. My daughter did not take any interest in the shopping and instead went to the front of the store and talked to her Dad and grandmother on the phone.

When we came back from shopping, she also spend about 1/2 hour on the phone with her Dad. They both live in another state.

I want to send an e-mail saying - "Please limit the time you spend on the phone with our daughter. She should focus on school and the ACT exam."

I don't want to offend them.

2007-12-26 03:24:09 · 9 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

I saw that my ex-husband has advertised again on a matrimonial website. He is logging in each day to respond to any interest that he receives.

We have been divorced for a few years now, but I still feel sad about the thought of him moving on. How can I keep from feeling this way?

I don't know for sure if he will get remarried soon, but he does have time off in January so he may be trying to get resettled. If he has time off, he can meet people in different states, etc.

2007-12-26 03:20:12 · 15 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What dating tips would you recommend to a woman going back to the single scene after 15 years of marriage????

2007-12-26 03:18:02 · 6 answers · asked by DG 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a black girl who has never date a black guy. all my boyfirends have been white or spanish, it's not really my fault i like white guys. they just look so hot, my family has already told me that they don't aprove me to date any one out of my race. and my brother has made it clear that he would disown me from our family if i date, or marry any one out of my race. i can never find a nice black man, they are cute but looks aren't everything. i would like to date a black man but i can never find any. so i stopped looking for them, now i just date white guys. is this bad or does it not matter

2007-12-26 03:15:39 · 9 answers · asked by sexy girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my friend has 2 children. She wants to leave, but doesn't know where else to go besides to a different state. She can find a job and support her children in the new state. Her husband is a bit (more than a bit) of a jerk. He doesn't give a crud about the kids, yells at the 4 year old all the time, and is mean and controlling of her. He hasn't physically been abusive, but emotionally and verbally he has. Now, I guess the question here is where can we find information that will help her make the choice to leave. She is scared that if she moves out of state that she will be kidnapping the children. And also how long before she can file for divorce once she moves to Colorado. Any help with this will be appreciated!

2007-12-26 03:15:20 · 14 answers · asked by mlpsq1996 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 03:15:05 · 2 answers · asked by Rana 7 in Singles & Dating

My grandmother passed away this Christmas. My mom bought my son a sensor-detecting parrot as a Christmas present. He was wrapped under the tree. He kept going off at 2:00 a.m. as if someone was passing by him the next night after my grandmother's passing. Then my mom's digital clock kept going off to and flashing 12:00. And at Christmas Eve, as guests were arriving and leaving at my mom's the doors would be opening and closing on their own. Then that night when I was back home with my and my boyfriend's packages (we live together) again at 2:00 a.m. I heard someone riffling thru the bag and playing with and crumpling up Christmas paper. My boyfriend and I looked at each other. We were still awake and in the living room. When he went into the kitchen, it stopped. Then the kitchen light dimmed and then resumed it's full power (which I heard is a spirit sign when the power goes on and off or the electricity dims) and then the paper riffling stopped too. Thoughts?

2007-12-26 03:13:54 · 2 answers · asked by nonameblonde 6 in Family

And by skinny
I mean a boys shape
Like Kate moss for example
up and down shapes

or does the prettyness of the girls face attract you more?
xxxx
Luv you all
Katy

2007-12-26 03:09:58 · 30 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 in Singles & Dating

My relatives who I'm all close too keep getting married, and keep getting divorced, then keep getting married, etc.

Each wedding is a time for "gifts", but I'm getting kinda burned out doing this.

How do you tell your relatives that you just want to get them gifts on their first wedding?

2007-12-26 03:08:21 · 9 answers · asked by It's the hair 5 in Weddings

we want to get back 2gether but he says he's scared it will work out cuz he dosen't know how to keep it goin. He either lets the girl drop him or he finds a reason. At first he said that we woyld get back together before x-mas then he said january but now he wants to be single for at least a month. And knowing him that won't last. Then he told me that he wants to get back at like the 15th of Febuary and until then he wants to be COMMITTED friends with benifits. Then Febuary 15th he wants to become committed.......does he really want to get back with me or is he just stringing me along.....we went out 3 times already....and made out 1 when we weren't goin out and when i saw him last he just grabbed me and then kissed me without me asking for one.....LOL what does this mean?thnx

2007-12-26 03:07:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Two kids, 14 and 5. What to do with them for new years.

2007-12-26 03:06:51 · 7 answers · asked by FMC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

As a parent, what are the legal rights in LIMITING/TERMINATING VISTATION RIGHTS by a STEP-Grandparent??

We have a case where the recently married maternal STEP-Grandparent is a MEDDLER, trying to negatively interfere in our family's life.

He is only related to us by Marriage, not Blood.

The Maternal Grandmother is ok, if neurotic and bearable. She submits to her new husband's domination, and expects us to do the same.

The Maternal Grandfather is perfectly fine, has a large supportive extended family, and is genuinely supportive of our family. He does not get along with the Step-Grandfather either, naturally.

Our issue is with the recently married Step-Grandfather, and how can we legally remove him from visiting/influencing our children?

We have no probs with the Grandmother visiting, just want her to do so with out her newly married husband, who is no blood relation to either family.

Thank you.

2007-12-26 03:04:33 · 9 answers · asked by soulravah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have a baby together, and I have twins from a previous marriage, and he has a son also. We are living with his parents, and he absolutely will make no sacrifices so that we can get a place of our own. He will not stop smoking or drinking beer. It costs a lot of money! If he were to make these sacrifices, money would still be tight, but we could make it out on our own. I tool the debit card from him, and he said "the first morning I don't have money you can pack your bags and get out". The card has my name on it. I wouldn't forget to do things for him if he treated me a little better. I never spend any money except for gas and diapers, and maybe a little baby tylenol. I never even have a full tank of gas. He says it's my fault we're in the negative, but this is impossible, because I never spend anything but 50 bucks or so. He says it's because I write checks without telling him and he doesn't know what's in the bank. I can't see how it would matter because I spend so

2007-12-26 03:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by scottishbeauty 2 in Marriage & Divorce