Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

2007-12-26 03:01:09 · 9 answers · asked by EVA J 4 in Singles & Dating

Ive been seeing this guy for 2 months. While we were out having drinks the other night, a girl friend of his was there so he introduced us. I immediately stuck out my hand and gave a big NICE TO MEET YOU! She looked at me and said, hey and turned to talk to another friend. The enitre night her body language made me feel like there was a past between them or she had feelings for him beyond just friendship. He said they'd kissed like two years ago and that was it- there's nothing there. After we got home she texted him saying that she might have an extra ticket to an upcoming event that my boyfriend is dying to go to and the tickets are sold out. He was thrilled at the possibility. Last night she called him well after 2am but he ignored it and was like "wonder what she wants?". This a.m. I looked at his phone to see that shecalled him twice in the past two days and hes called her 3-4. I really think hes calling her about the ticket but that shes got something for him.Should I be worried?

2007-12-26 03:00:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had my husband arrested last night after he slapped my daughter so hard in the face he left welts. He's never slapped her or anyone else before, but once was enough for me. I'm done with him. I'm getting a divorce.

But everyone seems to think I "jumped the gun" and should have just talked to him about it before calling the cops and "tearing up the family."

I don't know what to think.

2007-12-26 02:56:09 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Those old dining chairs of ours need to be repainted. My wife said she will take the old paint off, but I want to watch her strip the wood to make sure she is doing it right.

2007-12-26 02:54:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love a girl but we're just friends(have told her more than a year ago but she said just wanna be friends, but she has changed toward me). She teases me often anddo funny things, like pointing out her tongue to tease me and doodling on my paper. She seems to treat me differently by teasing me a lot and pretending to be mean to me. But she's kind to me and helps a lot. We're in a lot of same school stuff. There are actually funny memorable things that she did. A few times I asked her to join me in school clubs and she agreed.

But there's this other guy who likes her too and sometimes they talk although the conversations reduce over time (they talk more a few months ago), but she seems to be interested in talking to him, though she doesn't make attempts to see him and be with him and don't joke around with him.

I got the news that that other boy is planning a hanging out with my class (me and that girl in same class). From his class only a few join. I heard from a friend that the girls in my class are joining and I assume that he asked her first. I hang out with her in groups quite often though... It was cancelled though but I'm afraid he will ask again! And we also text more - though some is about school activities...

2007-12-26 02:54:19 · 1 answers · asked by Tanya Kenapa 1 in Singles & Dating

im 14 years old and i've had sex once.
it was the biggest mistake of my life and i know how stupid and immature i was to do it. There is no way for me to become a 'virgin' again i know.
But as i am catholic i'd like to think to myself that i am a virgin. I'm not going to have sex until im married and to be honest i couldn't care less what boys say if they find out. I was wondering... i've asked for forgiveness and went to confession about having sex underage and not being married but do you think i can count myself as a 'virgin' again and wait until marrige to have sex?
xx

2007-12-26 02:53:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for over a year now... he just told me last night that he feels that he feels that I am just obsessed with him and not in love with him and that I need to get a hobbie or something becasue he doesnt think that this is healthy to make him "my world." Ya, I dont really have many friends and I dont get out much but I go to work at 3 in the morning and get off at 11. This kills my day because I go home, take a nap, make us dinner, than I have to go to bed....could he be right... Should I have more in my life to do/worry about then him? Am I too obsessed?

2007-12-26 02:51:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 02:51:23 · 9 answers · asked by goodness 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter in law is bi-polar and screams and cusses worse than any sailor at my grandkids,4 and 6 and it is getting worse. If she does this when I am around..it makes me wonder what she does when I am not. My son is at his wits end trying to help her stop being this way. Medication doesn't help. My son is now filing for sole custody of the kids but will have to prove her unfit, but she acts so sweet and innocent when she is around other people. But she is a monster at home, literally. I am sick thinking what this is doing to my grandchildren. I have tried to stay out of it and mind my own business...Please tell me what to do!!

2007-12-26 02:51:16 · 4 answers · asked by tidbit 5 in Family

Well somehow this movie affected my relationship. I'm sleeping with this guy who is married. From the first time I saw him I knew he was the one. He is feeling guilty from seeing this movie. I 'm not going to stop seeing him ever. Take him being married out of the equation ok I need help getting my man back ?

2007-12-26 02:48:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfirends Ex calls and texts out of nowhere still. Not often, but enough. He has picked up the phone in frontof me and has told her in no uncertain terms to STOP contacting him, hes moved on, and is in a healthy happy relationship. a month later she texts "merry xmas" Mind u this is the same woman who he left his wife for...so i have reason to be a tad suspicious. She has since married , yet still txts my bf...should i call her back, text her back or let it go. BF says he doesnt care what i do, he will do whatever i feel better about.

2007-12-26 02:47:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Regarding relationships being in one or not being in one. I know timing is everything but how much time does a person need to know what they want,who they want, and where they are going in life? How would you know what could be and what is destined for you and what can happen if don't take that leap of faith and just try? Are we afraid of failure or are we afraid of the thought of lossing apart of ourselves and our freedom to be with whoever, whenever, and not having to hear anyones mouth.

2007-12-26 02:46:37 · 7 answers · asked by Sweetface24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok normally i dont ask this but why do people judge me so fast they always think im a B#$%# but really im not
im very open minded with the people i meet
here help me decide
im a country girl i like country music
like to go muddin im a hard worker
i work on a farm country girl born and raised the whole nine yards
you know it amazes me how quick people are to judge
anyways heres my picture .... do i look like a B#$%$.... i dont understand oh by the way my friend put the little caption on the picture ...... trust i wish i was that confident lol


well heres my pic


http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=228810551


be brutaly honest

2007-12-26 02:44:46 · 2 answers · asked by ill shoot an arow thru ur heart! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am leaving my wife a life-time diary to the farmhouse and she will have the option to sell if she needs to for medical reasons. After that, it is going to ALL the kids (including the step-kids). I am not giving the kids an option to sell as long as they have kids. Three of the kids don't have a problem with that. My oldest son is mad as a hornet about it. He doesn't even want my wife to be allowed back there if something happens to me. But, I am now wondering about cutting his share of the property because he is messing in drugs pretty bad and has a huge anger problem. He has pulled guns on people and I think he has stole some things but I can't be sure about that. He doesn't want anything to do with us unless it invovles giving him money or gifts. I had always planned on everything among the kids being equal but I'm not sure anymore. He is just mean now. My wife suggested if he wants his share that he has to pass surprise drug tests. What do you think?

2007-12-26 02:43:41 · 7 answers · asked by Love_to_Fish 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, I just found out a guy has posted an online dating personal here on Yahoo Personals, and he claims he is divorced when he really isn't. Should I call his wife and let her know that he is out and about cheating on her? And, if you think I should call her, should I give her directions on how to bring up his personals ad? The idiot even has his and his daughter's picture on there, too! If nothing else, I think she would be furious at him for exploiting her daughter like that!

2007-12-26 02:42:36 · 11 answers · asked by CuriousCat 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 02:40:26 · 21 answers · asked by New York Chic 6 in Singles & Dating

( I am not going to use real names)

John like Julie a lot. (which is me) But Julie doesn't like John. Julie like Luc. But luc pretend to like julie because he don't wanna hurt Julie's feelings. Julie met Andres 5 days ago, Andres like Julie and Julie like andres a little bit. John love Julie very much. What should Julie do? Please help.

2007-12-26 02:31:42 · 26 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

This must be a hot topic, as there are over 18,000 questions here pertaining to it.

Put aside your notions of what is "correct" for just a moment, what is dictated as "bad" by society, what is acceptable to others and consider the following...

If we can love two children, perhaps differently as they are different, but surely treat them fairly and it be REAL love...

If we can love both parents, again tho we might enjoy a different relationship with each...

If we can have more than one close friend, and enjoy different things in common...

Then why is it so impossible to imagine that one might have a romatic love for more than one person at the same time? Is love a finite resourse?

Have you ever loved more than one person and felt you DID not have to choose? Especially if single and you had no reason to? Why do people find this so impossible? So offensive? Such an emotional topic?

Sure, chatter among yourselves... I just want to listen in...

2007-12-26 02:30:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 02:29:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex partner has never seen his daughter i am wanting him off her birth cert and i want to cancel child support so he doesnt have to pay and he will have no rights to her i am happily with my current partner and we want to get married and he wants to adopt my daughter does anyone know about this process and how hard is it to do this when i dont know where my ex lives????? plz help

2007-12-26 02:28:33 · 2 answers · asked by Lauren S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 02:25:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 02:25:00 · 15 answers · asked by ram22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and isn't it a dangerous thing to know?

2007-12-26 02:21:37 · 8 answers · asked by Psychological Moment 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm the only one in mine.

2007-12-26 02:20:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband was working late at his second job (at a restaurant), when his mom, dad and sister came by after it was closed. I was there too to pick him up and I heard the whole thing. Well, first off he hates his little sister because he thinks she's a spoiled brat (she's 19). That night she asked him if they had any mashed potatoes left and my husband said "No, I threw them out already." But, he said it kind of mean (because he hates her) so she didn't really believe him so she asked the manager (who is a family friend) if they had any left. The manager was like "oh yeah, I'm sure we do." She kind of followed him saying that if it was too much trouble to not worry about it but he was on his way. Sure enough, there wasn't any so he made NEW potatoes which my husband saw... and would have to clean up... so while his sister was walking out he said "Thanks for keeping me here twenty more minutes". Well, she was so hurt by it that she was crying about it later to their parents...

2007-12-26 02:19:49 · 9 answers · asked by Avelyn 4 in Family

This was our first xMas spending time together. He was very affectionate, to the point I almost cried. He felt right and genuine. Before xMas, he seemed to know what to get me, but I had to ask him what he want. He gave me a list. On Christmas, we read our cards, but he insisted that I should open my gift when I left. I got home, open the gift - that's an expensive gift, but it is from one of the items in his gift list! Not sure how to feel about it. We're still new, but we are seriously talking about building our life together. Well, if we are together, my gift will be his favorite toy instead of mine. Not sure how should I feel about it.

2007-12-26 02:17:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancee has memberships with several on-lind dating services (i.e. Adult Friend Finder, and Hornymatches.com). He says that friends signed him up as a joke while they were deployed, but I can tell by the language on them that he wrote the stuff in his profiles. I guess my question is..is he cheating? I feel he is, because if he didn't have anything to hide, why lie about it?

2007-12-26 02:16:53 · 9 answers · asked by Candi 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 2 years and agreed no strip clubs or porn unless we are togther. For his bacholor party, he went to a top notch totally nude strip club and doesnt remember how many lap dances he got! After that, I have found out that he looked at porn because his underwear is by the computer or a porn site pops up when I start typing. Why does he do this to me? I gave him nude photos of me but he chose porn videos online instead. We got in a huge fight and he said that he loves me and the way I look. It must be a lie if he has to look at others. How can I get him to like me more instead of other woman? Why does he do this?

2007-12-26 02:16:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night, I had my husband arrested. He has never been violent in the past, but yesterday he slapped our 4 year old hard enough to leave welts on her face. It took me completely by surprise and I called the cops immediately. I can't let anyone get away with treating my kids in such a way.

He was arrested for child abuse and now here I am without him. I've been a stay at home mom. I need to find a job so I can support my kids. I need to figure out how I'm going to get my rent together this month. I'm overwhelmed and on top of everything else I keep grieving the man that my husband used to be. I found out he didn't pass his drug test at the jail last night, which explains why his mood was so strange. But I could never trust him around my kids again, so we're done for good now. I'm just heartbroken and sick that it had to end because I truly do love him- but not enough to keep my kids at risk of his behavior.

I can't afford any counseling right now. I just need some friendly advice..

2007-12-26 02:12:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was at my frnds place for a sleepover.and i returned few hours back.i just came to know that my frnds bro had kept his digital cam in the bathroom,behind the window.
he shot the whole thing.me being naked and taking a shower, while singing some nonsense..
he says he did this to get revenge.i was the cause of his breakup wid his gf.trust me, he is not a good guy, and this is the one reason i asked my frnd to break up with this freak
but now i am in total ****! he says hes gna give to the ppl at school and even email the link to the video to all his contacts..! wht shud i do?! how do i stop him?!

2007-12-26 02:11:19 · 23 answers · asked by Jess J 1 in Friends