Ive been seeing this guy for 2 months. While we were out having drinks the other night, a girl friend of his was there so he introduced us. I immediately stuck out my hand and gave a big NICE TO MEET YOU! She looked at me and said, hey and turned to talk to another friend. The enitre night her body language made me feel like there was a past between them or she had feelings for him beyond just friendship. He said they'd kissed like two years ago and that was it- there's nothing there. After we got home she texted him saying that she might have an extra ticket to an upcoming event that my boyfriend is dying to go to and the tickets are sold out. He was thrilled at the possibility. Last night she called him well after 2am but he ignored it and was like "wonder what she wants?". This a.m. I looked at his phone to see that shecalled him twice in the past two days and hes called her 3-4. I really think hes calling her about the ticket but that shes got something for him.Should I be worried?
2007-12-26 03:00:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you are uncomfortable with her. Tell him how you feel and have him explain to you that everything is fine, but warn him that he better tell you if something is going on because you will be a lot more pi**ed if you have to find out from someone else and not from him. I would be concerned if i was in this situation.
2007-12-26 03:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't shake your hand then that is rude and your bf should have definitely said something to her about it. On the other hand, she might have been drunk and people act strange when they've been drinking. As far as the ticket goes, I feel that if your bf really wants to see the show...considering the company he would be having-he should choose to stay with you and not go with this girl, especially because she makes you uncomfortable. As far as the calling back and forth, I would think that a ticket discussion would only need to take place in one phone conversation...not 5 or 6...?!? Good Luck!
2007-12-26 11:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound as though he's sneaking around, if he's introducing you to her & talking about her phonecalls openly in front of you. However, as for the other girl's intentions we can only guess.
How you told the story, it sounds as though there may be interest in your boyfriend. If I were in your situation, I'd probably be worried. I'd talk to my boyfriend about it & just tell him that you are pretty sure this "friend" is interested in more than just being friends, and it makes you uncomfortable how she's always calling you & explain her body language when you guys went out to get drinks. Hopefully you can reach some sort of compromise. Maybe he can tell you when he talks to his "friend" so you know that it's just about the upcoming event. Or maybe he can skip the upcoming event & you guys can do something else fun. But be sure to be flexible yourself. He really wants to go to this event, and you should try to trust him enough to go with her.
2007-12-26 11:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Helen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation before and turns out the guy was a cheater..and it was a guy I was with for about 2 years..what a waste =/
If you have any doubts about the relationship I think you should just end it. Its still pretty early but if its a relationship you really want to work at and you think he'll be honest and that you can trust him then try talking to him..no harm in that. He sounds like hes sneaking though...
2007-12-26 11:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by *La~di~Da* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not doubt that she's after him. It's possible that he's just after the tickets. But, either way, this is not a nice game they're playing. He owes you more respect than that. And you should consider how much fun it's going to be to be with a guy whose cell phone you think you have to check. Trust is a pivotal part of a good relationship.
2007-12-26 11:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that you should be worried about is him "going off" on you for going through his phone without permission. That is a no-no! Now, if you trust him then it's probably nothing. But jealousy on her part is on the rise! Play detective in a RESPECTFUL manner...
2007-12-26 11:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not sneaking around, he is doing it in front of you. you must be living together now huh? dumb why buy the cow when you get the milk for free, since you have no commitment together you have no place to tell him who he can and can't talk to, should have married before setting up house, ooooops too bad, so either live with it him and his other girls, or get your stuff and move on
2007-12-26 11:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id have a talk with the girl and scare her to make sure she knows hes yours the hopefully shell back off or you could kiss him evry time she comes around a big all tounge french kiss
2007-12-26 11:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is going after him and he is not turning her down. You need to have a serious talk with him.
2007-12-26 11:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're with the wrong guy. Bail out now!
2007-12-26 11:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Light W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋