My fiancee has memberships with several on-lind dating services (i.e. Adult Friend Finder, and Hornymatches.com). He says that friends signed him up as a joke while they were deployed, but I can tell by the language on them that he wrote the stuff in his profiles. I guess my question is..is he cheating? I feel he is, because if he didn't have anything to hide, why lie about it?
2007-12-26 02:16:53 · 9 answers · asked by Candi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Candi - Let me see if I understand this right... You guys are ENGAGED to be MARRIED, and he has up to date user profiles that he wrote on several on-line dating services. Maybe he doesn't quite grasp what engaged means. You obviously love him very much, but you need to step back from this situation and look at it logically. Why the heck is he doing this? What is it that he wants? When he gets online to check his profile or perhaps compare other girls compatibility with himself, would he let you look over his shoulder while he's checking out the other girls? Would this bother you?
'Engaged' to each other is completely different than 'Dating'. You should make sure (in words) that he understands this now. If he says he loves you, but keeps up this behavior, you really need to think about what he might do after you say your vows.
2007-12-26 02:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by prbfc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok wait how are any of you going to say he is cheating. So because he has a membership to some stupid match making site his suddenly doing it. Chances are they did sign him up and if I know the military, which I do. They probably did and he filled it out later on so they can see what kind of losers are out there looking to get some. My friends did the same thing to me when I was in Iraq and some of the people that responded are stupid. If its really that pressing, create a fake account and see if he responds to your fake personality. Try to catch him in a lie, otherwise let it go.
2007-12-26 02:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by David P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this question but its probably kind of hard to accept the reality of knowing that answer. I guess if he were sincere he would make it all disappear since it's from his past and focus on you in his future. If he's hesitating or hemming and hawing, time to drop him..
2007-12-26 02:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by gamerunner2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's living in his fantasy world. You have to decide if it's a showstopper or not? He might have a problem with you posting questions to Yahoo Answers
2007-12-26 02:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by Prophet 1102 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
join in with him! You only live once. Spice up the sex life. It's fun!
2007-12-26 02:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by craig d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is cheating, and seems to have things to hide
2007-12-26 02:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this can be classified as cheating.
2007-12-26 02:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep
2007-12-26 02:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by jasmine d 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN WHILE YOU CAN!!!!
trust me on this!!
2007-12-26 02:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by lollygaggle2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋