Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

If a guy has a girlfriend and he wants to visit a girl he is friendly with in another country..like take vacation to see her..does he have feelings for her? Lets say they have had something intimate in the past..like kissed & flirted (before his present girlfriend), doesnt that mean that he still probably has feelings for her and that the girl he is going out with is not his 'true love'? Opinions please. Another thing, this guy loves travelling. (Im a girl by the way..ignore the avatar):)

2007-12-26 01:18:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke my truck, cheated on me, stole from me, treated me like crap and when I asked him to change his ways, he left me and tried to steal my snowmobile....and almost got away with it. I thought of posting his picture in erotic services on craigslist and giving the phone # to where he is staying....or sending embarrasing pictures of him to everyone he knows....what can I do to hurt him, like he did to me? Please no sarcasm....I usually appreciate good sarcasm, but I'm really not in the mood today. Thanks!

2007-12-26 01:17:12 · 10 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I separated back in June... I just found out he was seeing someone else since the summer of last year. My husband and I were still intimate, and things were civil between us, I'd ask him if he was seeing someone and he always told me no.... until I found airlines tickets to Turks and Cacious with her and his name on it. I confronted him and he finally told me the truth. The GF had no idea he was married so he says when they first started dating, he told her we had been separated for years, he also told her we were not intimate until she forced him to tell her the truth. No when its all out in the open, he says he's confused, I am being treated like the other woman. A part of me keeps saying I can get passed the affair... but I part of me still wants to know why he hasn't filed for divorce if he claims he's so unhappy with me.. He's made excuses like its our anniversary, my birthday all sorts of lies... I am at wits end... and probably afraid of filing too!

2007-12-26 01:16:21 · 22 answers · asked by joyce1470 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok there's this boy at my skool. He and i met threw friends last year. We have tlked on the phone for the last year or so. He has a gf but he likes me. He told me himself that he likes me but just doesnot really know wat to do. I told him that i still liked you but i am not positive if i would ever want to go back out with you. He broke up with his xgf and then he kinda some wat asked me out and i said uhh idk. and then the next day when i said my answer he said oppz soory i am going back out with my gf. I didnot tlk to him for like 3 months. Now we are starting to talk again and he said he is going to break up with his gf and move on. I donot know wat to do?!?!Should i believe him or just move on and be bestest friends with him like we r now?!

2007-12-26 01:15:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner and I are not engaging in intercourse yet, we are however engaging in very heavy petting...though we leave our underwear on, I was wondering...if he has an orgasm and he ejaculates, could the sperm soak through?

2007-12-26 01:14:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are the signs that a man is really over you and has moved on, for instance i havent spoke to my ex in over 3 months, well about 3 weeks ago we seen each other and yes we had sex, well i he told me he didnt have time for games, i told him i didnt have time for games and i told him i didnt want to be his friend anymore cause its taking to much effort and he should go and work things out with his new lady friend and to leave me alone i wasn tried of being used for sex and i will send his ring back he bought me. Well after that i havent heard from him until the 24th he sent me an email christmas card and signed it Love Chris. If someone tells you to leave them alone and they dont want to be your friend anymore why did he send me that email card, Does he want to be my friend still or what? What does it mean when a man says they dont have time for games? Im alittle confused.

2007-12-26 01:11:44 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

is it cuz of my ego?
i can't get girls to fall in love with me, what am i doing wrong?

2007-12-26 01:09:00 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm aware of a young girl (early '20's) who for several years was attracted to much older (up to 35 years older) married men. She ended up marrying a divorced guy 30 years older than her.

The girl was attractive and seemed to be mature for her age. Never could understand why she'd allow herself to fall in love with married guys older than her dad. They weren't rich, so it wasn't a gold digger thing. In fact, even though she's married, she still contacts one of the former BF's and still seems to have strong feelings for him.

Any ideas of why she would behave this way?

2007-12-26 01:07:55 · 11 answers · asked by Tiger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend of over a year split up 2 weeks ago, and was really upset with each other for stupid reason, we both made our mistakes that both made things difficult for us (no cheating) and we recently started talking again and made the agreement if we cleared up what was said about each other we can start talking about getting back together...well that part is done and now we are going to start talking about getting back together (i think) im kind of sketchy about this because i dont know if things will ever be the same...a part of me says no move on but the other part of me would do anything for her or to protect her...we have completley different friends...(I stay out of trouble because im going to be a cop) and she hangs out with drink and smoke every weekend kind of people...i have the feeling issues could arrise even after we work this out

What should i do?!

2007-12-26 01:07:51 · 1 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Singles & Dating

My spouse and me had marital problems earlier this year, but worked them out through marriage counseling. Unfortunately, he got his family involved before he even discussed the issues with me. My inlaws were invited for Christmas Eve dinner at our home but decided to decline and snub me because they feel I own them an apology. Am I missing something because I think they should have known to stay out of our marriage prblems? I am not even sure what kind of an apology they are expecting? Should I say "I am sorry you stuck you noses in our business.?" I am baffled by this recent development.

2007-12-26 01:04:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So last night, Christmas, my husband didn't buy me any gift at all first off. He hardly talked to me at the family get together and then took off in the evening. He didn't come home until after midnight. I was in bed and I came out when I heard a noise. He said "Get the "F" back into bed *****". "You are the last person I want to see." I was like ????. He proceeded to say "I could have done a lot better than you." Now a little history. He is a drunk and I suspect him of drug abuse and possible cheating. He is never home, EVER. NOt even Christmas eve or day for petes sake for his child! I am getting depressed. That comment though..who would say that on Christmas? What would you recommend I say to him next? I am on my way to work now and he has left without uttering a word to me again. Should I call him at work and say WTF did you mean by that? Should I wait until he comes home..he might be drunk again though! I am serious about this story. I needed some input from others. Thanks...

2007-12-26 01:01:24 · 69 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my last email to him is this two weeks aleady and still not get a rply to him. So is this means that we are no chances anymore to reconcile......?

2007-12-26 00:59:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I come from a well to do family and I have my own business and am good with managing my money. He has kidney failure and keeping his head above water with his now 2yr old kidney transplant. He professes to love me a great deal and has worked on trying to get us a house and be a provider but things haven't been going as planned. His suggestion is that we marry soon, he loves me and we've been together a long time and have been inserparable nontheless. The thing standing in our way is no expenses for a wedding or a ring. On the otherhand he doesn't want me to feel like I'm settling. The things I would preper, he is not able to provide. A lot contributed to his sickness. We have our share of problems. I was concerned of what others would think of me. Just 2 days ago, he ended our relationship. He said he understood that right now he just couldn't provide what I would be comfortable with and he also wants God's approval on his lifestyle and 2yr of this have past. I am so hurt

2007-12-26 00:56:59 · 24 answers · asked by k mICHELLLE 1 in Weddings

2007-12-26 00:49:06 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yesterday for Christmas, my 9 yr old daughter bought me the movie Resevoir Dogs, but she got me the edition with Michael Madsen on the front. I specifically asked for the one with Steve Buscemi on it. I got mad and decided to ground her for a fortnight. Her giftgiving ability is usually pretty good, but this year I was dissapointed. She gave me some lame excuse saying "daddy, I don't know the difference between the two guys". WHo can't tell the difference between Michael Madsen and Steve Buscemi?????? Should I ground her longer for lying??

2007-12-26 00:46:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-26 00:45:22 · 21 answers · asked by ? 7 in Marriage & Divorce

guys continually say that in this day and age the women should ask out men too...but just admit that when a girl does ask you out you think its too easy...

2007-12-26 00:42:39 · 13 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 in Singles & Dating

speaking on his cell when i called him, not knowing his friend hung up, he said referring to us " we broke up, i looked around but now we are working it out and back together". i suddenly spoke and he was terrified. then he swore to God that he has never looked around while we were married..ever. he siad his friend is considering a divorce and he was trying to console him. i will say this, i once caught him on eharmony,which he said he left on so that i could get upset. i am 9 months pregnant and was so happy thinking we were finally working things out and now look. any advice, could he have just made up that story to his friend to comfort him.

2007-12-26 00:38:34 · 12 answers · asked by bluez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One woman finally woke up to what every one was telling her 2 years ago but still didnt have the guts to break up until four days before christmas
She then said that normally hes there with parents and family
. After showing presents, they all went to sleep.
She said she felt bored without the boyfriend there on Christmas night Is this normal
Do you think she was really bored?
Shes an adult in her early twenties
Some women feel guilty after a breakup
Other women feel free at last
Many women feel lost without a boyfriend
They say first theeir father told them what to do and then their husbands.
Many women feel they cant get anybody else
Do they need anybody else
I say be happy and begin your life anew
Find out what you are all about before seeking a new boyfriend.
How did you react on that first New Years night afyter the breakup?

2007-12-26 00:34:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 00:30:18 · 13 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 3 in Singles & Dating

okay... this girl used to be my friend... yahhh... we were close... then on my b-day i kinda liked her... but i didn't tell it 2 her yet bcoz i plan to tell it 2 her in about a week or 2.. in which i expect us to be close friends... yahhh she likes me too... then 2 days we had sum solo tym... and that nyt her friend asked me if i like her and i said no (i disliked her that nyt)... the nxt day she said she confesd that she lykd me... a week later i confessed too... but the nxt week she hated me lyk hell... and her reason is 'you made me....' ... but i always giv her complements... but now she wont tok 2 me... and her whole section hates me... aww help... i just wanna b friends w/ her again... this is an SOS

2007-12-26 00:28:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi everyone how do i feel sexy as i have a tomboyishness. My walk is very strong, i can do girly but that's not my nature . I want to feel free. And does anyone have any tips on what to do when your friends are getting chatted up and not you. I feel like when i'm with other people it's more about real things like poetry and music and business ideas and entrepreneurship, that's what i'm into but when i meet up with my close friends it's like 99.9 percent of our conversation is about guys. I feel like guys arent obsessing over us, so why should we over them at times. I definitely talk about man drama as well, but i miss youth when life was about being active and free, and society didn't tell us we need men to validate ourselves. I would like to feel sexy not necessarily so every guy sees me and says god she's amazing, more so i can feel like i'm distilling a myth. Tomboys are still women, and the concept of a lady shouldnt be based on making a man feel superior as a man.More my comfort

2007-12-26 00:26:11 · 19 answers · asked by lotus flower 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 00:18:31 · 3 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking 25. How would you expedite things if you are nearing this age and don't have a girlfriend, fiance or wife?

2007-12-26 00:15:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 00:15:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a live in bf and after discovering he continued to look at prostitutes and personals from craigslist.com I asked him to move out. I miss him and hope I did the right thing. He also had a very bad addiction to porn. Please tell me that this was not normal and I did the right thing.

2007-12-26 00:13:52 · 11 answers · asked by twina246 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 00:13:41 · 10 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 in Singles & Dating

Firstly,i have chosen the wrong combination to my studies.Nw,my studies is in a 'disaster'.Almost all my subjects are failing.I regret not heeding my mum's advice to choose that combination she asked me to as i just followed my friend.Due to this,my parents are evry angry as well as upset.Nw,they decided not to care about me,they even ignore me when i tok to them.My father will always go against me and when i am using the computer playing,guess what he did.He go close my door because he told me he do not want to look at me.I HATE HIM.Whenever i am using the computer,my parents are not pleased with me and will find things to pick on me.I CANT COPE WITH MY STUDIES AND I AHVE TO TOLERATE ALL THAT STUPID NONENSE.I HAVE ENOUGH OF IT!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-26 00:12:31 · 6 answers · asked by chiobu 1 in Family

In the past few months we have been off and on with breaking up. He does not want to let go, but i did. Mostly because of him talking on his cell to other women to include his ex and he kept lieing to me saying he wasn't. Some how i always give in and get back with him. He even asked me to marry him a few weeks ago.But i know he has done that in the past with others just to mess there minds up, he told me so a long time ago. We spent most of the weekend together and x-mas with his family yesterday. He did not get me even a ring 2 show he was serious or something for christmas.I figured if he loved me so much he would at least try and buy me a gift with the hopes of seeing me so he could give it to me. he says i have confused him and did not want to see him so thats why he did not buy me anything. even though i do know the true meaning of christmas, do you think i should have gotten something from him since he has been expressing soo much, he loves me and does not want 2 let me go?

2007-12-26 00:11:59 · 25 answers · asked by My two cents 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 00:11:54 · 46 answers · asked by Totaram M 5 in Marriage & Divorce