In the past few months we have been off and on with breaking up. He does not want to let go, but i did. Mostly because of him talking on his cell to other women to include his ex and he kept lieing to me saying he wasn't. Some how i always give in and get back with him. He even asked me to marry him a few weeks ago.But i know he has done that in the past with others just to mess there minds up, he told me so a long time ago. We spent most of the weekend together and x-mas with his family yesterday. He did not get me even a ring 2 show he was serious or something for christmas.I figured if he loved me so much he would at least try and buy me a gift with the hopes of seeing me so he could give it to me. he says i have confused him and did not want to see him so thats why he did not buy me anything. even though i do know the true meaning of christmas, do you think i should have gotten something from him since he has been expressing soo much, he loves me and does not want 2 let me go?
2007-12-26 00:11:59 · 25 answers · asked by My two cents 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He could possibly be broke.. I know i had to spend 2000.00 to move into my new place the first of december so I wasnt able to get anyone anything even though I really wanted too.
2007-12-26 00:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships, like any thing on this earth, needs work and attention. There is no way two individuals in this life, can have a serious relationship, and expect it to work unless they both put forth the effort to keep it alive.
From what I can understand, your relationship is dwindling away due to the fact that you both have stop putting forth the effort to keep it going, to keep it....'alive' for lack of better terms. You need to sit down and have a serious conversation with your man, and explain to him that his behavior is bothering you and is unacceptable. If you do not communicate -now-, and straighten out the kinks you have going on between you and him, do not think it is going to get any better when you are married and living under the same roof, or worse with children. Frankly, I am not sure why he would ask you to marry him if one, your relationship is hot and cold, off and on all the time, and two, if he seems to enjoy the company of other people, females, to be exact, and then lying to you about what he is doing.
Talk. Lay the bulls*** on the table, and let him know how you feel. consider this past Christmas experience as the world's largest wake up call to you both.
2007-12-26 08:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tapanga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep it short. Basically I would tell you not to dump him because you don't put so much worth on him buying you a gift do you? I mean its hard for us guys to buy gifts for you gals. You spent christmas with him i think that shows how much he likes you otherwise he wouldn't have invited u to be with his family. Give it some time and see if it changes!
2007-12-26 08:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by David J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a loving and caring guy. From what you've said he does care for you and he is serious about you. The break-ups and problems that occured sound like they happened from confusion. One moment you thought he wasn't serious about you, the next he thought you wern't serious about him. Show him your serious about him, even if its through something other then a gift and i guarantee he will start spoiling you like crazy. Goodluck and i hope everything works out well! =)
2007-12-26 08:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas is the time of giving. When you give, you should not expect to get something in return. So if i were you, i would forget that i didnt get something from my bf on Christmas day. Instead I would examine myself if i still love him & if he is sincere enough in his words that he loves me. If i dont love him anymore, i will tell him in all honesty the changes in my feelings & part ways with him after that.
2007-12-26 08:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by marmalade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate, Dont dump him for not getting a gift from him.. Find other reasons like the other things you said..
Dumping someone for not getting a gift is so low..
2007-12-26 08:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's treating you badly. He will never treat you better. Dump him or get used to more of the same for the rest of your life.
2007-12-26 08:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by Q 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love shud b kept behind religion.
2007-12-26 08:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by sushanta.dasgupta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not even married and he ignores Christmas? He'd do this to your children. Run, don't walk, away from him.
2007-12-26 08:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by pinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the true question.. did you get a present for him? Ya dump em.
2007-12-26 08:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by Nick is cool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋