Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

Well yesterday i ruined everybodys christmas by starting fights. My mom said the best thing for me to do is move out. Should i? I mean i hate starting fights but i seriously hate the fact the my whole family is not talking to me. Right now im at my uncles should i just live here for now on? Or try to go back home and figure this out. Because i spent my whole Summer over here because of fighting. What should i do?

2007-12-26 07:02:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

TODAY???????

i am going to my aunt's, and uncle's house, i havent been there for over 4 years after my grandpa past away.

2007-12-26 07:01:12 · 9 answers · asked by holy moses 3 in Friends

Ive been married for 9years and found out my husbands been cheating.It started within the 1st month of our marriage.

2007-12-26 07:00:37 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating a man, 22 years my senior. The relationship is perfect, the communication is excellent only we have to be hush about everything because of social inacceptance. Do you think it wrong to pursue things further even if we don't have a future just because I cannot bear to lose him now?

2007-12-26 06:59:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It's his house so there is no way that he is leaving.

This question is for adult human females only. Please state your age.

2007-12-26 06:59:46 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heared that my wife has cheated on me 3 times. With 3 differant guys. the first one was her last ex. I dont truely believe that one. But the other 2???? The second one i called her house to talk to her. they were having a party that night. The person that piced up the phone was my wifes friend at the time, and said she was at the park with some guy. The people in the background said the same thing. And finally the third. Her most serious ex. She went to court one morning wile i watched her daughter. She got home about 1hr after she said she would be home. The next day her friend the same one from above told me that her and the ex fooled around after court. I was upset so i asked the ex. His words were "well kissing is not all we did" with a laughing tone. My wife nor myself can prove wether she did or did not cheat. Should i believe her at her word???

2007-12-26 06:58:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 6 years, we have a 3 year old daughter that he never pays any attention to. When he is home with us he just sits around watching TV, sleeping, or talking about being bored. He has went to the doctor and was told he is suffering from depression, he has medication but he will not take it. He can go for days without speaking to me and when he does talk most of the time he is complaining about something. I have put up with it as long as I can. Is there anything else I can do or should I just take our daughter and leave him.

2007-12-26 06:57:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So do you think that gay marriage should be allowed? If no, why????

2007-12-26 06:56:32 · 26 answers · asked by 100% ME 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I called and left a msg of holiday greetings to the guy I've been seeing for 4 months as I never heard from him since Friday. It makes me sad that he didn't include me in his holiday plans. Should I tell him I don't want to keep seeing him or just don't return the call (in case he calls) and move on. I don't owe him an explanation, right?

2007-12-26 06:56:16 · 29 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Singles & Dating

everyone she loves her little sister. She has always been jealous of me. Family says that we have hated each other for 555 years. I am 54! I am thinking about not talking to anyone in the family anymore and just let her have it. She makes it too hard for me.

2007-12-26 06:55:55 · 10 answers · asked by carol f 1 in Family

everyone she loves her little sister. She has always been jealous of me. Family says that we have hated each other for 555 years. I am 54! I am thinking about not talking to anyone in the family anymore and just let her have it. She makes it too hard for me.

2007-12-26 06:54:57 · 5 answers · asked by carol f 1 in Family

2007-12-26 06:53:43 · 37 answers · asked by JABTHE KING 1 in Singles & Dating

I want an honest answer. I want to know if a man will not ask a woman out because she is over weight. My girlfriends and I have been having an ongoing debate about this topic and I want honest answers from men....do you descriminate about having lasting relationships with big woman...only straight men reply!

2007-12-26 06:53:42 · 21 answers · asked by dnycuzer 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf said she wanted me to kiss her stomach....is that romantic? has anyone done that before?

2007-12-26 06:52:27 · 23 answers · asked by nightowl3213 2 in Singles & Dating

It may arise in the course of your well paid and secure job.What descision would you take.

2007-12-26 06:52:09 · 7 answers · asked by realdolby 5 in Friends

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2007-12-26 06:51:59 · 68 answers · asked by Love You so much! 2 in Weddings

I have a psycho-ex and have just found out that he has been researching all of my posts on here. I am really creeped out and want to know how someone can research an individual's posts on here if your privacy settings are set so that no one can read your past questions and answers. What can be done to prevent this? And hello Psycho-Jerk if you are still monitoring me.

2007-12-26 06:51:55 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend, or sorrry my fiance proposed yesterday infront of my whole family, 18 people, i am so happy!!! n i love my ring!
after you got engaged, how far back did u set ur date? and did u pick a special day, like the day u started dating, or jus any ol day?

2007-12-26 06:51:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

but she is not helping me and says she would prefer the wedding when it is more convientent for her and when i talk to her about looking for dresses she doesnt say much and I feel its like pulling teeth to get to do her part.I have a friend who is excited and more than willing to help me. My mother however says I have to have the family member or it will cause problems. what do I do??

2007-12-26 06:51:39 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4 in Weddings

My parents are going through a divorce and its deffinatly taken a toll on me. Ive thought about dying but I would deffinatly never go through with it. My mom tried counsiling with me but I cant stand to talk about personal stuff with a stranger? I dont know what to do. I recently got my grades up to all A's except for Math because that teacher deffinatly hates me. I recently studied for the biggest test of the year for 3 hours a day a week before the test and got a 44 on it. And other people didnt study at all and got A pluses. I am figity alot and flinch at the weirdest times. Whats wrong with me?

2007-12-26 06:51:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-26 06:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Singles & Dating

friends
i belong to traditional north indian family. My bhabhi was complaining about my mother to my bro at night ....every body overheard them ...her language was disrespectful......opposi... to what she behaves in person....she is trying to pick arguments with me in subtle way and not as eager to serve food to me etc.....still appears respectful ...but i guess within few months she will start mild or subtle idiotic arguments with me or mom.
she wanted to give gift to her brother ....but could not due to my bro saying ...no funds now ...etc. She does not get higher lifestyle she desires. Her IQ is bit low(very poor in studies) ...and belong to comparatively weaker family than us.
we encourage her to continue her studies, though she is reluctant.
suggest ways to maintain peace for my family.

2007-12-26 06:49:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How can I tell my wife I want to quit my job and become an internet smut peddler?

2007-12-26 06:49:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 06:47:23 · 11 answers · asked by kristina h 1 in Weddings

2007-12-26 06:47:12 · 37 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I Luv a girl.She is 31 & me 24. I want marry with her. but her father doesn't agree about this. he saying to her that if she will marry to me he will sucide. the problem is i am from hindu(Saini) family and she is from Hindu(Solanki) family. that is why her father saying that "hamari naak neeechi ho jayegi puri cast main" but her younger brother is ready for this. and i know she loves me lot. And she cries all the time when we talk to each other reply pls.

Can I take help from any WOMEN ASSOCIATION.
plz any one help me.

2007-12-26 06:46:09 · 18 answers · asked by Kaavya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

thanks and guys plz don't tell me to lose weigh or get pretty I just let my natural beauty show I don't cover up with make up like a doll.

2007-12-26 06:45:54 · 62 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys, If the relationship wasn't good have you ever stayed just so you keep getting laid? I've noticed it's usually the girl that does the breaking up.

2007-12-26 06:45:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Basically, my bf and I are part of this group of mates, so it's a bit like a gang. My bf does cannabis occasionally, as do a few others in the group, but there's one guy who's really into the heavy stuff. Thing is now, ok, my sister's just been staying at her boyfriend's - who's part of this group as well - and he's decided he's not going because somebody's grassed up on the group and said they're gonna be doing really heavy stuff, and now the police are waiting to catch them. So on New Year's Eve the gang are going off into the woods to basically have this party, and some them will be smoking a bit of weed, nothing too much, but this guy who's into drugs seriously is gonna bring his mates along and they're gonna do some really havy stuff. My boyfriend says he won't try any of it though. But I don't want my boyfriend to get hurt! My sister said not to tell him about the police being there because that means it'll scare away the guys who need to be caught. Should I tell him about it?!

2007-12-26 06:44:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never really gotten along with my parents. They were both verbally/mentally abusive and I feel that they've only ever supported me financially. My dad would leave and not come back for days at a time and he eventually had a child with another women. Neither of my parents know that I know. When I was 10(6th grade) , i got involved in Martial arts. My instructor is one of the most amazing people I've ever met.( He's 14 years older than me). After a while, he became like a "dad" to me. He'd never had a good relationship with his parents either and he was the only one that I could talk to about mine. I could talk to him about anything, and he was there for me when noone else was. I could ask him anything and he'd answer truthfully. He was the person that would hug me and tell me that everything would be okay when I had a problem.
I've known him for 5 1/2 years. But I've always wondered if it was okay to allow him to take the place of my "dad" because my bio one wasn't there for me

2007-12-26 06:42:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family