It's his house so there is no way that he is leaving.
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2007-12-26 06:59:46 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. if you love someone, you dont want nobody else therefore you do not cheat.
besides, those who cheat will more than likley cheat again and there is no relationship without trust. Once trust is gone (and it will be after one cheats), its done.
if the girl doesn't leave... she must have low self esteem
23 y/o
2007-12-26 07:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by blah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 23... my boyfriend and I (who live together) have worked through tons of things... we've been through hell and back together. He knows, though, that if he ever cheated on me, our relationship would end immediately. I know he would leave me as well if I cheated on him... but that's not why we're faithful. It's because we love each other too much to hurt the other person that way...
So the answer to your question is "yes" because that's one of the few things I couldn't justify. There's no reason for cheating... absolutely none. I understand that everyone makes mistakes, but they also have to live with the consequences...
How would you feel if she cheated on you? Would you stay with her? The fact that the guy says he "really loves me" isn't going to change the outcome. True love always puts the other person first... if you were putting her first, you definitely would not have been with someone else knowing how much it would hurt her.
I'm not saying you're an awful person or "once a cheater, always a cheater" (even though nine times out of ten, it's true!) I'm just saying that no matter how much you say you love her, she has no obligation to stay with you. You hurt her in one of the worst ways a partner can hurt their partner. Even if you try to work things out, I guarantee she won't forgive and forget easily... it will always be on her mind. She'll constantly wonder where you are and what you're doing... she probably won't trust you for a really long time.
If you really love her... and I mean REALLY love her... you'll understand that she deserves someone who doesn't hurt her the way you did.
2007-12-26 07:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO YOU DON'T, YOU STAY, DON'T GO ANY WHERE. You stay and co-exist right there in his house. And hold your head up. If you have put time in this relationship and are not willing to leave than don't.He messed up not you.And I'm going through the same thing and I'm not going any where. You put your time and money into this relationship and in his home no,no, don't leave.There is nothing wrong with staying, but on your rules never let him know he has the upper hand.And I know it hurts cause I'm in pain now You verve it will happen to you. well it did and it happen to me as well. Right before this Christmas, hum some present hum. Leave when you are ready and able to handle the move and there after. Cause you know the old saying ther is always more Big Fish in the blue or brown seas. So only you know what you have to do .But it always good, to get some ideas from someone else. So think long and hard as what you will do girl, cause it ain't easy. GOOD LUCK!
2007-12-26 07:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by The Fresh One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a human female of 34 years of age:). Why did he do it... if he was intoxicated when he did "it" and did it just once, it will hurt but you can get passed it if you want, if he is worth anything to you. We are all humans and make mistakes. If he had a love affair and has feelings for the person he cheated on you with, you probably need to leave.
2007-12-26 07:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by Y B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. "Sorry" really isn't just going to cut it. Because, the female will not be able to trust you again, for a very long time.
Considering it's his house, then yes she would have no choice but to leave. But cheating on someone that you love, isn't right. And, just saying sorry probably won't solve it all.
2007-12-26 07:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by brittany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone who loves me, wouldn't cheat on me (that's the act of a selfish person who cares more about their own desires and pleasures than anything else).
Chances are VERY slim he'd get a 2nd chance (very, very slim) because trust would be damaged, if not destroyed.
Cheating doesn't happen by accident...and if the house was his, then I'd go. I'd never live with anyone anyway unless I knew I could afford to be on my own if needed. One should always be prepared.
I'm 43...and I've been cheated on.
2007-12-26 07:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think everyone deserves a second chance. Depends on her past and what situations she's been through. If he really loves her, why did he cheat in the first place? That's something that will run through her mind for a while.
2007-12-26 07:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello :)
I'm 18 and I've been with my boyfriend (who is 22) for over a year now. We have an apartment together and we love each other very much.
If he ever cheated on me, I don't know what I would do -- it's hard to say. I don't know if I could ever get over it. 70% of me says that I would leave him while 30% says I couldn't.
2007-12-26 07:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Blonde&Intelligent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would leave his sorry A**. If he really loved me he wouldnt have cheated on me to begin with. And Im old enough to know better.
2007-12-26 07:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really depends on the situation....cheating makes the relationship so rocky! I dont understand people who do that. It is so not worth it! If you want to be with someone else...break up with the other first!
Well, to really answer your question.....If i were married, i would really consider the whole scenario....if only dating, then i would definitely break up!
I'm 21
2007-12-26 07:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by miams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋