What should i do?

Question

Well yesterday i ruined everybodys christmas by starting fights. My mom said the best thing for me to do is move out. Should i? I mean i hate starting fights but i seriously hate the fact the my whole family is not talking to me. Right now im at my uncles should i just live here for now on? Or try to go back home and figure this out. Because i spent my whole Summer over here because of fighting. What should i do?

excuse me? um actually the world revoles around my SISTERS im always the last one in the family... B I T C H

IM 13 .........

Well i get mad easily like when my mom tries to talk to me, when my sister comes by me. I just seriously dont wanna live here anymore but i wana be part of the family

Answer 1

It sounds like you have a problem, realizing that fighting is not going to get you anywhere. Maybe you should move out..if your uncle works for you then..have at it. It sounds like you want the world to revolve around you because you are allowing the jealousy you have for your sisters rule your life. Get over it, sometimes parents don't always see the way they act, maybe it's time you moved out and moved on with your life. It's not that big of deal, if your old enough, then you should have done it already.

It sounds like you have a problem with fighting, why are you using vulgar language when their are young adults that could be reading this? Take comments like that like a lady. Personally, I think that this is a phase, everyone goes through the "I'm all alone" phase. lol.

So, your 13. Talk with your parents about the way you feel, it sounds "uncool" but maybe that's the only way to get to the bottom of your emotions. In the mean time, look for solutions to your anger, keep a journal, write, sing, anything that will keep you from getting angry.

Answer 2

Yes, you need to figure it out.
Sounds like you need to understand some very fine means of getting your points across without being aggressive or acccusatory. It sounds like you are a rage-a-holic.
In other words, your communications skills stink.

The thing is, that unless you get this aspect of your life under control, all other aspects of your life are also going to be in turmoil.

If you are over 18, you can move out of your families' houses. Your uncle will allow you to hang out at his place for only so long before sending you onward.

If you cannot express yourself eloquently you will have trouble holding a job or a relationship with a significant-other.

See if you can find a book called "The Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense", and perhaps Dale Carnegie's "How to Win Friends and Influence People".

Answer 3

Every family has its flaws but this must have been some serious fight for your own family to evict you out of home. I am very sorry for you. Maybe it may be better for you to get out and be on your own, because spending too much time with the same people IS too much for you and you end up falling out and arguing 24/7. On your own, you can do what you want, and let things cool off between you and your family. And then decide when you do and don't see them. But you decide, you can either stay there and try to fix things up or get out and let things cool off, apologise and then just go back when you want to, and see them when you want to.

Answer 4

I'm surprised that someone who would outright call someone a b itch for giving their opinion would be starting fights during holiday celebrations! Perhaps you should take a good long look at your behaviour and make a MATURE decision as to who is in the wrong and decide if it's in EVERYONES best interest that you move out.

Answer 5

your parents don't understand or support u re favoritism towards your sisters...stay with uncle until they give u more what you want as in a loving home!

Answer 6

maybe you should learn how to stop being a jerk to everyone and realize that the world doesnt revolve around you?

Answer 7

how old are u? i think u should try and work things out.