Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

Can't people change? How long will you lable a person a cheater?

2007-12-26 08:15:52 · 38 answers · asked by Tray 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 6 month pregnant, if that makes a difference...

2007-12-26 08:13:26 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm currently 8 months pregnant w/our 1st babygirl. My hubby and I have been married for 2 years and for some reason I ended up checking my email and my hubby's email was left open....I found that he was a member of a infidelity website called Ashely Madison.com. He has his profile pic on there and everything. I have done everything for this man & I am so disgusted by this. It's like I can't be in the same room with him. I am not working right now and he is the breadwinner. We are both 10 hours away from home, so we have no family here.

He's been distant, but not to a point I've suspected him of cheating. I don't know what to do at this point. I don't want to tell my parents, and I can't rely on anyone....

2007-12-26 08:11:29 · 19 answers · asked by MadameJazzy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He's great I love him, he doesn't ever pressure me. Our wedding is about 2 years away due to school and money, my town is full of teenage girl getting pregnant but yet everyone else is pressuring us. I guess I just don't see what's wrong with waiting if it's what we both want.

2007-12-26 08:10:01 · 50 answers · asked by Sapphire 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married to someone that has been incarcerated for 8 years. We got married in 2006 and I really believe that he is not coming home at all. His sentence is 29 to 89 years and his projected release date is 2086. I want to move on with my life and get married and feel safe with my husband at home. I was told that marriages that have not been consummated was not legal.... I live in Maryland and I would like to know if that is in fact true or can I get this marriage annulled.

2007-12-26 08:09:03 · 4 answers · asked by pggcgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i m a teen & i dont have love in me i think. i never had a crush on anyone. (not boys or girls) i think guys are cute or hot & thats all. i never felt like a need a person. but honestly i really want to experience that & feel love for soemone else! my friends have been liking guys since 5th grade. but i haven't & i m in high skool. when they mention guy stuff i just agree & go along with it.. does any1 else feel like i do or kno wat i can or should do about it??

2007-12-26 08:08:54 · 37 answers · asked by advice giver & needer! 3 in Singles & Dating

Having a girlfriend/boyfriend is alot of fun, but do you think its worth the trouble of disagreements, drama, BREAK UPS! and all the other things that could of been avoided if you never got into a relationship. Being alone is .... lonely, but you don't have to deal with the drama that comes along with a relationship. Its freedom at the cost of being alone. Is falling in love worth it?

2007-12-26 08:08:17 · 12 answers · asked by JOE DIRT 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 08:07:55 · 25 answers · asked by stunston 2 in Singles & Dating

my soon to be ex husband says he is going to get a restraing order again the person i am currently seeing because he is his ex best friend. we have two children and he does not want them around him. Can he really do that?

2007-12-26 08:06:12 · 12 answers · asked by missyc46 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so im pretty shy, and i like this guy [he sits near me in class] but never talks to me or looks at me how can i get his attention? and also my friends are pretty close with him and they say hes a 'player'

2007-12-26 08:01:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We do, sometimes........ Me and my twin sister Chelsea always joke around, my little brother Ted always says when he's scared, "Mom, can I sleep in Tommy's room?" And my sister Joleen and I always tease each other--in a good way, of course...... And I taught my brother to pray, "Father, Son, and Holy Ghost, who's the fastest gets the most. Amen."

2007-12-26 07:53:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We fool around but we've never had sex and we don't plan on it soon so i'm just hoping for some ideas to help us both stay entertained for a couple years.

2007-12-26 07:53:22 · 33 answers · asked by Sapphire 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have his children every other night and every other weekend, so it is split 50/50. His ex does not have a phone, she lives with her bf and he is so jealous that when she uses his phone she dials star 67 so the number shows up private. This is so ridiculous to us, cuz we have no way of contacting the children on days they are with her or if something happened. She also does not have bedrooms for the children, they moved into the house in April and have been working on finishing the basement ever since so they can have rooms, so now they sleep in the living room together. They are 11 yr. old boy and 9 yr. old girl. Is there anything we can do about the phone situation or anything else?

2007-12-26 07:53:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so one weekend my gf keeps tellin me that she has does somethin wrong and that i would hate her if she told me.. so then on monday she sais she had phone sex with another guy and breaks up wit me.... Now she didnt do anything only the other guy did, i still love her and im very depressed.. i want her back and i think she still likes me but she wants me to drop it. what do i do.

2007-12-26 07:52:58 · 5 answers · asked by jkroblez 2 in Singles & Dating

ok this friend of mine...has a awesome boyfriend...never cheated on her...treats her with nothing but respect...she has cheated on him twice...yet he sticks by her...they try to work it out...he has been there for her every single day for the past 8 almost 9 months...through her fathers death...everything...now she says she loves someone...(she says she loves him) that she has met...in total 10 times maybe...she has seen him 3 times in private...and other then that its just talking on msn and facebook...how could that possiably compare to havng a boyfriend who has not only lived with her for the past almost 9 months...but has been by her side through thick and thin? like doesnt that seem retarded to anyone? yes i believe u could FIND ur love online...but to actually say u love someone after being with the person 3 times in private? lol and other then that msn n a couple times they talked on the phone? lol is this not just outragously funny to anyone else?

2007-12-26 07:51:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just occured to me, and I don't know if there is a WAY to discern who they really are... any help?

2007-12-26 07:50:11 · 22 answers · asked by nobopoto 2 in Singles & Dating

I am the caregiver for my 83 year old father who went through a terrible divorce 8 years ago in California. Both parties had fixed incomes during the marriage, but since my father's income was higher, the judge ruled he should pay support until the time either him or his ex-wife passes.
I believe his ex is 81 now and lives in a nursing home and has so for about the last 7 years.
It has come to the point that I must put my father in assisted living facility and can no longer afford to pay the 574 spousal support, because all of his pension must go towards his maintenance now.
My question is, once I stop paying the support what are my legal options if the final divorce decree orders that my father must pay this money until his death.
Right now it is going to take every penny he has plus his savings to put him in a facility. How long should spousal support last when both parties are elderly? and what are my options...

2007-12-26 07:49:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 07:48:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It does me it drives me crazy!!! wh

2007-12-26 07:47:20 · 9 answers · asked by Its MEEEEEE!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

i was really upset yesturday because i rang my boyfriend to wish him a merry christmas and i got upset because i missed him so much and how i wished i was with him, all he did was go nd talk to his dad while i was on the phone sobbing to him and i dont know what to do about it now because he said his family were very important to him as if he didnt have time for me yesturday
help

2007-12-26 07:47:09 · 26 answers · asked by jojopink 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help, my husband and i have been married for 2 years we have kids. I stay at home because he doesnt want me to work, he works full time. I just found out my grandmother has 2 months to live i was going to go down to where she lives to say my goodbyes my husband was going to take a couple days off work to watch the kids while i went down he is now telling me to not go that he is not taking off because it will effect his pay. We arent hurting for money if he took the days off we could still pay out bills and have like $1000.00 left over. What should i do or say to him to help me out.

2007-12-26 07:44:28 · 17 answers · asked by bobbijbrown1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I kissed my ex boyfriend while my husband and I were seperated . Should I come clean??

2007-12-26 07:39:40 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is in a deep depression.He was engaged 5 months ago and his fiance was 4 months pregnant.Suddenly he called off the engagement and asked his fiance to make abortion and they broked up.Soon he started dating another girl but he had erection problems and was unable to have sex with her and he explained his problem with that she is unattractive(she is really).His ex is a very beautiful and sexy girl ,like a model,and may be he compares her to this girl.Now he wants his ex fiance back but he knows she won't back to him and recently she told him to stop pursue her.Now he is in a big depression and lost interest in everything.I would like to help him.Any ideas how i could help him.

2007-12-26 07:39:15 · 17 answers · asked by Natalie B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously this have been my problem for 2 yrs..I am a medical student and will grauduate soon,..........ALL ONLINE GIRLS I MET TILL KNOW werent FAITHFULLL....
I mean I can showw some hacking skills and stuff........if I ripp her email I find TONS OF MEN in her list..........WHat the HELL????

I finally REALIZED IT HAPPENS TO ALL right?? NOT JUST ME?? and SERIOUSLY WILL U MARRY ONE FROM THE NET?

2007-12-26 07:38:05 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing a guy for 2 months. The first month was great - we saw each other a couple of times a week and had lots of fun. Then, he had a little freakout moment and wanted to "think things over" and "slow down", so we cut back to seeing each other once a week. He was stressed and overwhelmed with the holidays and dating someone for the first time in 3 years. (I know!) But kept calling me every couple of days.

We went to each other's company Christmas parties last week, but I haven't heard from him since Thursday. Not so much as a quick phone call or even a "Merry Christmas" text message. I'm so upset! What are guys thinking this time of year?

I'm afraid he'll call after the holidays and suggest we get together. It'll be hard for me to act like everything is okay. Should I hear him out, if/when he calls again? He hasn't said anything about New Year's and I already have other plans.

2007-12-26 07:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by monicanena 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 07:36:01 · 22 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how can guys get so obsessed over a stupid ball game and not even pay attention to u i mean it makes me mad!!!!!! :(

2007-12-26 07:33:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You and only you get what you earn and what is in your name and you get nothing more than that. Whoever gets the kids has to support them and there shall be no spousal support or child support payments, etc. You can have the kids (no visits wanted by the father) but if you can't support the kids, then give them to the father, he will support them, but you will not see them ever again until they are adults.

P.S: You know that the guy really loves you but he is only trying to be fair.

This question is for adult human females only. Please state your age.

2007-12-26 07:31:34 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my best friend have been friends for years. Well a couple of months ago we were out at a club and we ended up making out. Now we are kind of like we want to mess around but we don't want it to ruin our friendship. So we have made plans to get togther once a month and have a good time. Do you think that this will ruin our friendship or make us stronger. By the way we are both married women and nither of us plans to tell what we are doing. We have been friends for 12years.

2007-12-26 07:31:30 · 19 answers · asked by KH 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone seems to think relationships are overrated right now. Do you agree? Please explain yourself.

2007-12-26 07:30:34 · 14 answers · asked by Dan in Real Life 6 in Singles & Dating