Seriously this have been my problem for 2 yrs..I am a medical student and will grauduate soon,..........ALL ONLINE GIRLS I MET TILL KNOW werent FAITHFULLL....
I mean I can showw some hacking skills and stuff........if I ripp her email I find TONS OF MEN in her list..........WHat the HELL????
I finally REALIZED IT HAPPENS TO ALL right?? NOT JUST ME?? and SERIOUSLY WILL U MARRY ONE FROM THE NET?
2007-12-26 07:38:05 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were an actual medical student I worry about your future patients. Your spelling is atrocious.
2007-12-26 07:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Geminat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did marry someone off the Internet, Been with him for 5 years, married for almost three. And there has never been an issue of cheating or being unfaithful
I think the question you have to ask, is what do you consider faithful? Just because she has other guys on her email list doesn't mean she is unfaithful. It sounds to me like you have trust issues, and if this is the case, then should you really be looking online? Where things are never quite as they seem?
Why dont you ask her if she feels this is an exclusive thing. It could be just miscommunication. If she sees it as just having more pen pals, and you want something more serious then you need to move on. But hacking into her email is not going to help you in the long run, it makes you look even worse, for not trusting her.
2007-12-26 07:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by Danika T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The net as you have found out is an easy way to fool potential partners with untrue profiles etc. Myself and 2 other co workers however did find great guys 2 of which lived local to us and we were able to meet in person and date for awhile, the other one moved to my state to be with her online boyfriend and all three of us married the guys and are happy. As soon as a relationship was established with my boyfriend , I took all my profiles off the dating sites. I also met a guy that was in a different state who gave me the runaround . So yes it can happen to anyone but there are good people on those sites. Hacking into someones email is not cool though!!!!! Long distance online dating doesn't work and until a loocal commitment is made anyone is free to check out other options, even you.
2007-12-26 07:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by catehokte1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all boils down to truth,honesty and openess. And for a reply to an above answer.Online dating is not stupid! It's all how the two people do it.Online relationship is the hardest anyone will ever due. I been there and done that,she came to usa,we met in the real world and it was the best time of my life for 6 weeks and now we're back to online and it sucks.But we are the same people online and offline and thats a key too! Good luck cause there is somebody for everyone! WEeeeeeeeeeeeee
2007-12-26 07:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Oh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know 2 ladies they tried and met and failed.
I think it's better to do things the old way.But
the Computer has messed things up in the
love life of many young lovers.NO it's not just
you,but many people.
NO i woulden't marry a contact from the NET.
2007-12-26 07:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first why would you hack their email. That is invasion of privacy
Now if she has some guys on her list, then that is not necessarily a bad thing. It's called innocent flirting.
Now, you have to build communication with her, to know her and eventually meet her in reality.
Many girls on net are not faithful indeed so don't be blind and try to know her thoroughly.
You have to meet her personally before you marry her. That makes sense.
2007-12-26 07:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by Theta40 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband on the net. We have been together for 5 going on 6 years i would have never found him if it were not for the internet. Just remember if the girls are like that on the computer they are probably like that in real life too.
2007-12-26 07:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met someone off the net like 4 months ago and he has been livin with me for the past 2 months and we are very happy and already talkin about gettin married. so i think if it works out for you then yes you have to get to know the person b4 you know if you want to be with them or not. i know just about everything about this person in just a short time but we communicate alot and talk about everything
2007-12-28 11:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by sarah p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an idiot. Your a medical student? Seriously? What, a CNA? Come on. Only the truly ugly, or the ones with repugnent personalities or true shut ins use the "net" for dating exclusively. Date someone in REAL life, buddy.
2007-12-26 07:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I would marry someone off the internet. Why not? They are people just like you and me. I am dating someone now that I met online. He is a better match than anyone I have ever met the normal way.
2007-12-26 07:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you expect the relationship to GO SOMEWHERE, you take it off net...you call her, you send her letters, you visit her. If you don't treat her like you would a real gf irl, then of course she'll take preference over guys that are close to her. I had a bf for a year and I met him offline and we're both faithful. It just depends on the person.
2007-12-26 07:41:45 · answer #11 · answered by Ketty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋