i m a teen & i dont have love in me i think. i never had a crush on anyone. (not boys or girls) i think guys are cute or hot & thats all. i never felt like a need a person. but honestly i really want to experience that & feel love for soemone else! my friends have been liking guys since 5th grade. but i haven't & i m in high skool. when they mention guy stuff i just agree & go along with it.. does any1 else feel like i do or kno wat i can or should do about it??
2007-12-26 08:08:54 · 37 answers · asked by advice giver & needer! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's ok! you're heart is just one of those who is waiting for that actual special person. it's perfectly normal. or maybe you just need to see some new types of guys. so go out and get social. it could also help if you talked to guys a lot more because that's how crushes are really built.
besides, we're not gonna feel love for a while now.
best of luck in finding the right guy!
2007-12-26 08:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kaytay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you love your mom or dad, or a pet, or a sibling? Do you have any friends that you love?
If you love anyone at all, even if it's not romantic, then you do have the capacity to "fall in love" - it's basically like loving a family member but with sexual attraction thrown in!
Try reading some romance novels and see if it gets you in the mood for love.
If you really feel like this is affecting your life in a negative way, then you might want to talk to a therapist about it.
2007-12-26 08:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Shana B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a big problem with me, but it happens to me occasionally. The thing is, your friends have changed their likings, and focused on guys, and, well, if you want to feel loved you probably have to change yourself, not a lot, just change yourself enough to see another perspective of guys. Guys will become completely interesting to you, as girls are to guys. Don't fret, not everyone starts liking boys and girls at the same time. Take it slow, and just know, just because you're not interested in guys, don't mean that guys don't feel interested about you. You never know. [:
2007-12-26 08:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should really worry about it, I believe that there is true love, and you will feel it when you meet the right person.
You have love in you, if you love your family and friends, and care about other people. Then you do have love in you. I think that it will come to you, or you can try to find it.
Be more open to guys, and see how they are around you. And, see if you like one of them. Believe me, it will happen for you.
2007-12-26 08:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear I never shared your problem but this day and age that is not a bad thing ! What with all the S.T.D."s out there. Concentrate on your goals in life ! Study you will be a step ahead of the crowd. The lord must have other things in your future planned !
2007-12-26 08:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl let me juss say tht your hella lucky. i mean with "like" (cus there's no such thing is love in my opinion) comes pain. and sometimes the person you feel for may not like you back. being single is more simple, i mean flirt nd stuff but never get wit any1. nd if you want to like someone cus most of it is just all in the hormones, but if you want to like someone most of the time you can. cus thinking someone is cute is a lot different then the feeling you get when you know someone inside and out. all i can say is that your blessed and tht you didnt have to feel the pain.
hope it helped =] (i kno it was all babble)
2007-12-26 08:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Alayna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not a feeling, it's an action. What most of us feel when we are tweens or teens is lust because our hormones are kicking in. Actually, you are one of the lucky ones because "love" and lust can be very confusing. Just be patient. When true love comes along you'll know it. In the meantime, caring about your family and friends is the greatest love there is. When you care enough about someone to sacrifice your self, your time or your things you love them.
2007-12-26 08:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by misty fog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kinda answered your own question. you are a teen.
there is no time line set up for when this should happen to you, some people dont find that first big "love" until their 30's and 40's!!
so what if your friends are going thru this, it does not mean that you are lacking, just that you havent found the right person yet.
2007-12-26 08:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by neonatheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about this because then you will let it get in your head. I will happen when you meet someone who does it for you, for now just work on being the best person you can be and let nature take it's course. If all your friends were crackheads would you want to be one? Everyone is different.
2007-12-26 08:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. Your friends aren't feeling love either, they're feeling infatuation and love of love. Real love isn't something you get in a look or even a few dates. It takes a long time to truly know someone and fully accept them and want them in your life. Get to know and accept yourself - sounds like you're already doing that. When you love yourself, love will come along. Don't rush it.
2007-12-26 08:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋