After three years I gave him an ultimatum, he promised he would ask within two years. That deadline is rapidly approaching and he claims he doesn't remember ever promising the two year thing. I find being apart heartbreaking but he doesn't seem that bothered (partly because I'm the one putting in the effort - we're in a LDR). I love him, but I hate that he's not in the same place as me.
I don't want to leave him.. everytime I threaten to I realise it destroys our relationship.. but what do i do? He has a house and a mortgage hundreds of miles away from me, which is he isn't prepared to put me on until we're living together, I'm not happy to give up my career to move in with him until I have commitment. There is no middle ground career wise. What to do?? :(
2007-12-26
09:48:58
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