Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

2007-12-26 10:53:23 · 14 answers · asked by snow white 1 in Singles & Dating

I am thinking if I hang out with my boyfriend tonight I'm going to give oral. I haven't done anything with him yet...but I'm just wondering if this makes them more 'whipped' or whatever? (that's not the reason I'm doing it) I'm just wondering what the guys point of view is because it's usually the girls that get more attatched from what it seems..but I'm not sure because I haven't really done this before..I also don't want the opposite effect and have him pull away..so I just want your thoughts on that! thanks

2007-12-26 10:52:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are Angels real? Many people would say Yes because it says so in the bible etc.

I am almost 100% convinced my Fiancee is one! Why, because everything I have read about them with the way they are with always helping people, having the right answer for everything, being so honest, truthful and loving and reading my mind (good and bad). That's just for starters!

When I jokingly asked her if she was one, she just smiled and said she couldn't say! The sort of look she gave me was "yes, but you're not supposed to know"!

I am a normal level headed guy with a good job and a Police trained background. So I am no nutter but I wanted to get your thoughts on this!

Are Angels real and how can you find out for sure?

2007-12-26 10:50:37 · 31 answers · asked by SL 1 in Family

There's a boy in one of my classes, he's a senior and I'm a freshman. Anyway, he's super nice, giving me hugs and playing with me when the lesson hasn't started or has finished early (like poking and coming up and tickling me). Sometimes he flirts with me, but other times he's rude and obnoxious. He's not the most attractive person in the world, but neither am I.

So...is he into me? And if so, why? He's a senior. If he's not into me, than why does he act like it?

2007-12-26 10:48:30 · 1 answers · asked by janeyyet 2 in Singles & Dating

and he lives far away so I want to have something near me always as a constant reminder of him, so my question is would it be wrong to name one of my pups after him :-??

Not his real name of course but his nickname...If I could have more kids and I had a boy I think I would honor my friend that way but since I can't I thought the next best thing would be my pups since I see them as my little ones...so would it be ok or is that a no no :-/

2007-12-26 10:48:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Am I at fault. I can't use birth control bc my family has a strong history of heart attack and stroke. I though all married couples used condoms. Why is he angry?

2007-12-26 10:46:24 · 37 answers · asked by lesh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does a brother say to them? I am so frustrated right now!
Any advise is welcome!

2007-12-26 10:43:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend said yes

2007-12-26 10:42:03 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went to the grocery store 2 weeks ago and bought a christmas tree. the box on the outside said that lights came with it, and they did. here is my dilema iv'e waited over 2 weeks now and the tree wont grow. when i first got it it measured to be 6 ft and i just measured it yesterday on christmas and it was still 6 ft. i dont understand what the problem is. my kids spit at it and i shoot it with a water hose at least once a day, yet still no success. this has caused a big strain on my marraige, my wife doesnt think its very manly that i cant grow a tree and my daughter gets picked on at school because her friends dads tree grows. could it be i have a rudolf type tree. you know the one that is always picked on but in the very end it leads all trees on its way toward tree heaven? advice?


signed, a true person hurt that his christmas tree wont grow

2007-12-26 10:40:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am seeing this girl. who I like alot. She likes me as well. We have been hanging out all the time, we kiss eachother and everything, she even wants to move to Cali with me. But she has a boyfriend of 4 years. She said she is going to leave him soon so we can be together full time. But it hasn't happened yet, since to 2 weeks we been seeing eachother. She said she didn't want to do it right now cause of Christmas and it would be pretty messed up of her. But I can't stand it when she leaves everynight to sleep in bed with another man. I know she is cheating on him with me, but they have been having problems and its just about over. Is she going to leave him for me or is she just leading me on?

2007-12-26 10:40:29 · 5 answers · asked by unglory2006 2 in Singles & Dating

i spoke to the bride to be - and she advised she definitely doesnt want anyone wearing WHITE and would prefer people not to wear black but the men in suits will be wearing black suits so she said if women already have black dresses and dont want to buy anything else then she doesn't care she isn't fussed on the black rule just the white. i only have a black formal dress, obviously if i can find something else i will buy it but at the moment (i am picky) not looking good and got 4 weeks to go. firstly, can anyone show me any links with some dresses of what women can wear "formal" to a wedding and also are traditionally known as "cocktail" dresses good enough to wear to a formal wedding?

2007-12-26 10:38:50 · 10 answers · asked by **Jemma** 2 in Weddings

okay feel kind of weird asking this ? but i don't know to do cause i can't tell my sisters or freinds this cause it to personal feel like their look down on me & such please help me =/

well alwayz i been dating this guy for about 2 months now i really like him & we done lets say a lot of stuff but not (sex) u know new years is coming up and u know he wants me to have sex with him i told him i not ready for that and i kind of want to safe that for marriage & stuff or yea we are both virgins he says he wants to me to be his first he like come on but i am scared he is like no one will ever know but i will u know sex changes everything right i feel like we are moving to fast we like not even a couple yet did & oh yea he never had girlfriend before but his longest relationship was 10 months & if i do choose to have sex i want to be in love with the person idk if wants to get inside my pants or what? or is he really into me?

2007-12-26 10:38:34 · 52 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 10:38:32 · 15 answers · asked by franj 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 10:38:05 · 13 answers · asked by linus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We used to like each other now he has a gf and he's told me it would be fun to sleep together, that he wants to kiss me& all this other stuff, he calls me babe,baby,sexy,pretty, and when we email each other he always writes xxxxx.He always says he cant wait to see me.But then there are times when he tells me he likes me a lot still more than his gf and that he's going to dump her ...but he never has yet. Is he using me or does he actually still like me?

2007-12-26 10:35:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do men prefer class or just a**?

Need help decoding the male mind...

2007-12-26 10:35:31 · 21 answers · asked by reverendlovejoy75 3 in Singles & Dating

Is NY a 50/50 dispersement of property or if one seeks councile w/out knowledge of forthcomming proceeding screwed?

2007-12-26 10:34:19 · 3 answers · asked by RICHARD C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend (potential boyfriend) and I see eachother 2-3 times a week. It has been this way for roughly 7 months. Everytime it gets better and better because we are both growing more comfortable. Theres always lots of flirting and cudding and long deep talks. Everything about our current friendly relationship is going great. We both really enjoy eachothers company. It just seems like we are more of a couple than friends, which is what I want. We have discussed our situation on numerous occasions, and the only reason he will not commit is because he thinks I am too young for him. I am very mature for my age. I graduated from cosmetology school and currently have a full time job at a salon. I am 18 and he is 26. To me age is not an issue but he cant seem to not be hung up on it. Am I just kidding myself about the age difference being an issue or can this turn into a relationship?

2007-12-26 10:34:14 · 7 answers · asked by Ann 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 10:33:10 · 9 answers · asked by snow white 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He sent me a text the other day that said, I've been stalking you longer than you've been stalking me. What does he mean? I haven't heard anything from him since.

2007-12-26 10:33:09 · 15 answers · asked by beach girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I got married in sept. this year. Since my husband is from Spain and I am Californian, he went to Spain for a 1 month to visit his family. Now, he knew I did not want him to leave me for our first Christmas but he did anyway. Now I am hurt, I am full of resentment and worst of all I have been having very sad holidays. I even feel that I hate him. My heart is broken and I feel like I want him to feel what I am feeling. I am just deeply depressed because he did not take me as his priority. I do not know how to deal with this anymore, my cheerful spirit is dead right now and need some healing. The more I hear him the deeper this gets...

2007-12-26 10:32:33 · 15 answers · asked by kdvg2000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

"Hypothetically," lets say your husband worked with a girl. Right? And you've caught your husband in multiple lies when it comes to this "girl." You've never had any evidence that suggests physical cheating, but just random pointless lies. You've confronted him with his lies, and he becomes defensive, calls you controlling, and continues to lie as you continue to catch him. As a wife, what would you do? Would you do everything you could to keep this girl away from your husband? And... would you agree that the only reason people lie is when there's something to cover up? Why lie if he's doing nothing wrong? What is your opinion... If you were this wife, what would you do??

2007-12-26 10:31:46 · 22 answers · asked by Stefanie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex husband went into rehab right after Thanksgiving for cocaine. We have joint custody of our 5 year old son. He gave power of attorney to his mother. She is not complying with the divorce papers. Took my name off of the pick up list at school, and will not return any of my calls. What are my rights? I I get him can I keep him until his father returns ? My son lives with his father, and visits me on the weekends, but I have not seen him since Thanksgiving.

Please help I'm going crazy without him !! I live in Fl

2007-12-26 10:31:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

SIMPLE ! Just ask and try your luck

Hey guys can I have some stars :)

2007-12-26 10:31:40 · 12 answers · asked by Arunza 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend of two years have come across this topic of celibacy and i told him you can have a history of being sexually active, but then you choose to wait til marriage to be sexually active again. He thinks celibate means no sex ever until marriage.

2007-12-26 10:30:52 · 28 answers · asked by Kayyla K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What made you stay?

2007-12-26 10:29:52 · 18 answers · asked by Ice Princess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy online 2 days ago. We've been texting back and forth ever since and talking on the phone. We're supposed to meet tomorrow. Is it weird that he calls a few times a day? He even asked me what i'm doing new years. I said, um we havent met yet, how do you know you'll even like me? He said that we seem to be on the same page and he feels he will like me, etc. Should i be leery? i'm 29, he's 33.

2007-12-26 10:29:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you do if propose to the love of your life after more than a year of dating and she says she is not ready for commitment and you should try and date other people.?

2007-12-26 10:28:23 · 21 answers · asked by saintbright247 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it was really pretty bad from the beginning, but I hung in there against all odds.... all the details would take forever but I did the absolute best I could with this lying, drinking, asexual, cheap, aggressive, violent, drug-using biggest bastard that ever walked the earth.

now on top of it I find out he's seeing someone, and he's lucky to be overseas so I can't kick his sorry a** into next year... we'd been separated for over a year too, and I was pretty much waiting for an excuse to end it all.

now I have my excuse, you say... and I feel like I can finally move on, it'll be a Happy New Year indeed! and all I need right now are tips for those moments when I think of the 0,5 seconds when we actually had something good going, before the sh*t hit the fan.

thanks everyone, i just need a little holiday cheer, i think it'll be easy for you! right!?

2007-12-26 10:27:27 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently asked my partner to leave because I was unhappy in our relationship. I have become involved with someone else and have found some comfort and hapiness. My only problem is my finances. I need to make a decision on whether to let my credit cards go or not. I have found myself in a bind. The main problem here is not that I have found myself over my head, but I do not want to be depressed because of this. I don't feel good about it, it is due to my own irresponsible behavior, but I cannot keep up.

2007-12-26 10:27:22 · 4 answers · asked by MARIE S 4 in Marriage & Divorce