We used to like each other now he has a gf and he's told me it would be fun to sleep together, that he wants to kiss me& all this other stuff, he calls me babe,baby,sexy,pretty, and when we email each other he always writes xxxxx.He always says he cant wait to see me.But then there are times when he tells me he likes me a lot still more than his gf and that he's going to dump her ...but he never has yet. Is he using me or does he actually still like me?
2007-12-26 10:35:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and i forgot to add that she asked him out, he didnt ask her. Thanks :D
2007-12-26 10:37:09 · update #1
Yes, he is using you. You should just move on. He is not going to leave her and if he does he will do the same to you. Getting involved with guys who are already involved is a bad idea no matter how much they claim to like you. If he really liked you he would have left his girl already. You deserve better there are plenty of single guys who would love to have.
2007-12-26 10:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be martyr. If that guy respect you he wont get involve with another girl. He maybe likes you, but not serious about you, because if he does he will be faithful to you. Avoid him to avoid yourself into more heartaches in the future. There are a lot fishes in the ocean. If he comes back to you make sure he is totally committed to you before you accept him for a new start. Be wise and do not let your emotions control you. " Control your life or someone else will".
2007-12-26 18:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but this guy seems like a jerk, he's playing you and he is playing his girlfriend.
If he really was interested in you, why hasn't he dumped the gf?????
and why do you want to pursue a guy who is "interested" in somebody else while he has a gf???
Sorry not a good guy!
2007-12-26 18:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Nikky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think he's using you, then he probably is...every girl wants to think they have a handle on a situation and that they know what they're doing, but if you like him and he has a girlfriend then he's not treating you right. would u want to go out with a guy who talks behind his girlfriends back to another girl?
2007-12-26 18:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by longislndgrl114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes using you. Tell him to come back when, and if, he dumps his gf.
2007-12-26 18:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dave B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably is using you and for him to talk to you like that while he has a girlfriend says a lot about what kind of guy he is. He is definitely not worth it.
2007-12-26 18:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one....he sounds like a lil player. if he is doing that to he's gf....meaning flirting behind her back....it's more likely he'll do it to u if u end up with him.kinda common sense.dont waste ur time on a guy like that.
2007-12-26 18:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he is using you big time. Please STOP.
Have self respect for yourself. He is probably sleeping around with other girls too! What if he has STD's????
You could do better. Just let him go and tell him off.
2007-12-26 18:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Alora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants you for sex.I would stop talking to him.
If he really wanted to seperate from his girlfriend to be with you, he would've done it by now.
2007-12-26 18:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by Megan B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for a booty call, that's all.
2007-12-26 18:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Angus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋