Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

mine is very similar to me,the closest i could get

2007-12-26 09:27:14 · 14 answers · asked by little miss lovely 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

was in this relationship for 7 years now have a child together through the relationship I was really pushing for it I accepted all the BS he gave and was not being apperciated at all. 1 year ago on x-mas I found out he was sort of cheating just telling a coworker how he wanted to be with her and they would talk on the phone and text for hours I just thought it was a problem on the phone bill never thought he was cheating but he was. now the tables have turned Im no longer in love with him!!! I want to just be friends and date other people but I believe since he is shy he hasn't meet anyone else so he is really beginning to stress me out by calling 1000 x a day saying he loves me and we should be together but im done with him im just no longer attracted and in love with him. how should I deal with him he is really stressing me out .ps. we have a child together but I believe we can raise her well and not be a couple

2007-12-26 09:24:45 · 17 answers · asked by me y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got another one..

We only have known each other 3 months.. he started telling me he loves me in the second month of dating.. 3 days ago he brought up marriage "one day" and having a family with me..


Is this how meth addicts (drug addicts) act? they move fast like that?

is it because he wants me (someone) always around for him/on his side if he gets into bigg trouble?

I asked the dude he lives with (alan.. his father figure) if he is so easy/quick to tell his past girlfriends that he loved them.. and he told me "no.. actually he hasent ever told a girl that.. that is must be true"

any ideas?

like i previously stated.. I myself have NEVER done a drug in my 22 years.. so I am VERY naive to the whole "drug world" I don't even know the difference between what drug is what (from lookin at it).. this is a whole new world/problem for me.

any advice/help is apprectiated.

I apprectiate all of the answers on my previous question. thanks a bunch!
19 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.
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18 minutes ago

Its just so so so hard to just "dump him" and don't look back.. because when he is not using the drug.. he is an awesome guy!.. a completely different person.. The person I met 3 months ago.. He treats me like a queen.. so loving and warm towards me. I know it should be so easy to walk away and "forget about him" but.. there are feeling established even after 3 months..

aghhh.. I am so upset.. so hurt. I am crying as I type this.
16 minutes ago

Also.. when he tells me he hasen't been using and I am suspicious.. what can I look for to prove to me that he is indeed using and trying to hide it from me/lying to me.. Like i said.. I am clueless on this topic.

thanks again so so so much all of you. I am so sorry I have typed a book on both of my questions.

2007-12-26 09:24:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That's all I am looking for.... Im thinkin g 7 with me.... 7 with her and alternating weekends but what is everyone elses take on the situation??+

2007-12-26 09:23:33 · 2 answers · asked by conserned father 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, they are not wearing t-shirts that say "hey I am a jerk" or "hey I am a nice guy"...

So, how do you decipher in the early stagws of meeting someone... questions you ask, etc to get a feel if someone is just playing nice or actually is nice?

2007-12-26 09:22:40 · 27 answers · asked by astutewoman 6 in Singles & Dating

what is your dream wedding dress? (include links and pix)

2007-12-26 09:22:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My friend has a serious weight issue for a long time now. She is obese. Recently, in my opinion, the situation got worse. My friend is starting to look sick and unhealthy. My friend also drinks a lot. She is unmotivated to exercise she rarely exercises. She eats unhealthy foods as well.. (fatty foods)She goes to the bar about four to five times a week. My mom who used to be a nurse, made a comment to me that my friend looks really sick. And, my mom thinks the situation will get worse if someone does not talk to her about her problem. Her parents do not seem to care she is 29 years old. Someone already said she had a problem but, she grew defensive. I want to say something, but, I'm afraid she will grow defensive as well. I'm not sure it will help either. What do you do in this type of situation?

2007-12-26 09:20:09 · 5 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Friends

we have been pretty good friends for about 4 years now. her parents wouldnt let her go on a date until she's 16 and she is turning 16 in april. she has agreed to go on a date with me, but i dont know what to do! i like this girl and i dont know if she likes me or not, and i dont know how to talk to her either. i dont think she has any idea i like her, and i dont want to just tell her and have that ruin a good friendship if she doesnt feel the same way. i need ideas on what to do for a first date, but i also need suggestions on how to find out if she might like me.

2007-12-26 09:18:16 · 5 answers · asked by Bob 2 in Singles & Dating

During the begining of this winter break, I got bitten by a possibly rabid pitbull on my leg. I called my boyfriend that night to tell him the news, and thought I should get some emotional support... He didn't give me crap. Like he never cared. So, I didn't call/texted him back for a day and a half. On Christmas night, he texted me asking me "Are you mad at me?" and like always, I lied and said no. He was all "I miss you and I want you to call me" so I did. I told him all the **** that's happening, how I'm scared for my life... and yeah. He said he's going to find out if we can hang out because he "misses me so much." Well, I called him today and guess what? He's at the mall with friends. The nerve! So he said he'll call me back, but I didn't heard from him in an hour. Then later he texted me saying "I'm sorry I didn't texted I love you". I stared at the phone in shock and screamed in my pillow, lol. There's a party friday at my friend's and I don't know what to do. He'll be there. =(

2007-12-26 09:17:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats something nice I could get for a guy I know for under 10 -15 bucks???

2007-12-26 09:15:08 · 8 answers · asked by BrunetteBabe 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister had a baby recently from a guy who was her fiance.We was getting ready for the wedding when he suddenly called off the engagement and left my sister.And not only that. He asked her to go for abortion when she was almost 5 months pregnant,because he said he doesn't want the baby and he is not ready to be a father.And he said he doesn't want to know anything about the baby if she decide to leave it.Now when the baby is born he start pursues her and pretend to see the baby.She is in a relationship with wonderfull guy who put his name on the name of the father on the birth certificate.My sister and her partner don't want the child to know his reall father.Could someone tells me what they can do in this case,what are their rights?

2007-12-26 09:14:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you've been with a lot of people before meeting your SO should you be totally honest and hope that it doesn't change their opinion of you, or is it okay to lie and save yourself? (I don't mean anything like incurable STDs or children, but maybe your number is pretty high)

2007-12-26 09:12:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

lots say its cause women are being used as a sexual objects..
What about the poor man being attacked by 10 women...

2007-12-26 09:12:15 · 8 answers · asked by Speedstar 5 in Singles & Dating

Im already married, but having an affair with a man who is single, he doesnt know Im married, we have been dating for 6months and we love each other. we meet every weekends and sometimes on weekdays bcos we are 2 hours away.

I think he has been suspicious for a long time, bcos I never let him get into my hourse, I never let him meet any of my friends, I never let him in my workplace, he has my mobile but not my home phone, I refused to stay overnight for the last 3 months. I refused to move in with him when I was on the holiday. he complained about it all the time, and he joked about me having another man, I think he really have doubts.

he is a very intelligent man, I just wonder since he has all the doubts, why didnt he try to find out himself? he knows where my workplace is and where my house is. I just never let him in.

2007-12-26 09:11:17 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 09:10:40 · 11 answers · asked by blackjaguar1979 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 09:10:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my girlfriend, she's the one who text me: I love u when we started dating. She never say it infront of me. it has been 2 years now she text that to me like 20 times for the past 2 years and write it on paper when she left 4 scholl b4 i get in, now i realize i should break up with her i feel like she's hiding something.we live in together, i told her if she has somewhere she can go, she said i;ve always have somewhere to go. but she seems like she does not wanna go away, Wha you guys think. Am i wrong or she never loves me. I always tell there it's not wrong if she doesn't love just tell me. But now she is in the house on the couch without asking if she has done something or if there is something that we can work out. i've not spoken to her 4 like 3days. it does not bother her at all. i just don wanna throw her out What is the tricks to make her run now i need my privacy. i don't wanna bring a girl cause im not ready for that yet and new girl wouldn't like that either. Help.

2007-12-26 09:08:30 · 2 answers · asked by LOCAL79 2 in Singles & Dating

i am medium height blonde, green eyes, quite skinny, average boobs.
i have a great sense of humour, quite clever, quite sensitive and not very shy!

the thing that holds me back with boys is that my inner labia stick out y about an inch and i am really scared a boy would think i was gross or deformed or somthing!!!!!!!
how abnormal is it, and should it be holding my confidence down?

please answer

2007-12-26 09:07:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i messaged this guy i like on face book and we have class together, and we talk, and we share the same group of friends in that class. but the thing is the class we have together is coming to an end. so i am on break now, so i decided to message him on facebook. we talked for a while. and i left a message. he hadn't answered yet, though he has been online. now i feel very anxious and very sad that he hasn't messaged me back and i feel guilty like i did something wrong....please someone advise em what to do. the last time i messaged him was like 2 days ago. i don't wanna be clingy and message him again. but should i at least poke him or something??or would that come off as being annoying?

please answer seriously. i am very uncertain what i should do =\

2007-12-26 09:06:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been with eight (or so she told me) men. Used to make out with chicks and has been eaten out by two different chicks. Got screwed on a pool table and f-ed the CEO of the company she used to work for..just want second opinion.

2007-12-26 09:03:16 · 10 answers · asked by Nicki G 2 in Singles & Dating

I have made it extremely clear to them via a letter that I do not want contact them until they seek counseling for their dysfunctional and abusive behavior. However, they continue to use my brother as a messenger. I am to the point of cutting him off as well because he doesn't feel the same way I do. They left me a gift with him. Do I just reject it all together? The gift a pathetic attempt to control me AGAIN. Do I just ignore it or how should I handle their latest game?

2007-12-26 09:02:11 · 10 answers · asked by K H 1 in Family

I've been talking to this dude who i've know from around the way but really didn't start talking until last summer. We lost touch for a year and just got back in touch for a minute. We really missed each other like crazy and we couldn't get in touch. When we first started talking he told me he was looking for a relationship. Cool i can respect that but i know he want to be intimate with me. He;s tried. i told him at the time i was practicing abstinence. And he was respecting that. Now, a year later we've got back in touch and he still talks about wanting to be single and how we are friends. Of course he still wants some booty! He thinks that it is inevitable since we are both insanely attracted to one another and that day will soon come. But thats not my issue. i like him so much that i am willing to get in a relationship with him which i have been avoiding for a few years. i even let him spend time with my 3 yr old son and i let no dude around my so unless i really like him. He says..

2007-12-26 09:01:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf is white & am black, since we've been together she has had problems of getting time to hang out with me. Her grandma is so strict on her. I mostly I have to ask her when she can can out with me coz she doesn't have time for me. Moreover she gives me more epty promises of when she will come see me n I would be expecting her and she does not show up. She often lies to me on even the simplest things. I just found out that she's been using birth control n she hasen't told me that. Whatever she tells me I have to think twice. She has also stole my debit card n called me the "N" word when she is upset. She did't get me anything for my bday n kept on lying to me that the gifts were on transit but I haven't seen them. She doesn't trust me on anything which is her's from her car to her computer I almost failed to turn in a paper while she had a computer n wouldn't lend me to use for my home work. I have been with her for 18 mo n I have never spent a holiday with her.

2007-12-26 08:59:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im getting married next year and both my bridesmaids are the same age. I have seen some dresses on the net I like but their in American sizes smal, medium, large etc. Both girls are teens and wear clothes aged 14-15 years but how does this work in American sizes or what would these be in the normal size 8, 10, 12 etc. HELP please!!

2007-12-26 08:58:15 · 6 answers · asked by charliemanvill 2 in Weddings

2007-12-26 08:56:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do like a hot half naked girl like very short mini skirts or a hot self confident girl who wears a t shirt and some jeans

2007-12-26 08:56:21 · 13 answers · asked by kitty cat 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-26 08:56:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son planned his wedding 1 yr. in advance. now my sisters daughter has announced she is getting married 2 weeks before my son's big day. if thats not bad enough...they are hosting the reception out of town. Can anyone located the etiqette invoved with this mess.

2007-12-26 08:55:14 · 12 answers · asked by Kenneth L 1 in Weddings

I have been married 2 x's..and yes I have found the 3rd,finally..but he has never been married,he wants a wedding,I have already done that twice,and don't feel right about it,ok the first was a real wedding,the 2nd it was just him and I,like at the JOP,out of respect for him,should I have another wedding,or not..go ahead and do your criticizing,I don't care,I just want honest,true answers.

2007-12-26 08:54:49 · 13 answers · asked by dimples1221 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I have only been dating for about a month. He didn't get me anything for my birthday or christmas...not even a little token. However, he bought himself several new items (digital camera, etc). He also blew me off on Christmas eve after promising to spend it with me, but changed his plans to spend christmas day with me. My family thinks this is very rude of him and wants me to break up with him...is that a bit extreme? Should I give him a chance?

2007-12-26 08:52:47 · 39 answers · asked by mrswood397 1 in Singles & Dating