i am medium height blonde, green eyes, quite skinny, average boobs.
i have a great sense of humour, quite clever, quite sensitive and not very shy!
the thing that holds me back with boys is that my inner labia stick out y about an inch and i am really scared a boy would think i was gross or deformed or somthing!!!!!!!
how abnormal is it, and should it be holding my confidence down?
please answer
2007-12-26 09:07:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They would not be disgusted. I would not be shy about it. Any guy that sees you there, should like you for other reasons already.
If it bothers you i would consult a plastic surgeon, i believe they can fix that very quickly, and relatively safely. Minimal pain.
Might cost about $5000 or so.
2007-12-26 09:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about that you are crazy. No guy is going to care. I you are too outgoing though that may scare some guys off. It would be their loss though. You also be the kind of person an average guy would be scared to approach. Most men have confidance issues. Again their loss. I can't honestly tell you anything that sounds wrong though. Don't know you. Just get over your so called "problem" and move on.
2007-12-26 09:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by fattya63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's actually right in range of normal, your labia lips sticking out an inch. Nothing unusual at all. Guys find prominent labia HOT. Really, REALLY hot.
So stop worrying about it, and just live your life.
2007-12-26 09:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, the technical term for it is "Labia Minora"
I don't think it would turn me off. Other guys may have different preference.
Let me assure you, you need to find someone who loves you for the person you are, not what you Labiae look like!
Good luck and Happy New Year!
2007-12-26 09:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all in your head that's quite normal in fact most women who have larger Labia's are more sensitive due the increased surface area for the nerves so enjoy it
2007-12-26 09:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are websites that are all about women with long labia so you're not abnormal and obviously there are guys looking for the ultimate in labia dangle. "Don't let your lips hold you back flaunt them wantonly and men will flock to gaze at their perfection..."or so the site goes...blastmage666@aol.com Pics appreciated.
2007-12-26 09:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not deformed. Most boys would not even know what you are talking about. Talk to your doctor about your concerns with this. Other wise it seems you got alot going for you now, so don't worry about anything..ok
2007-12-26 09:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mike S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There, is absolutly nothing wrong with you! Some people just look a little different then others. (even down there) Don't let something like this bring down your confidence when it is nothing to be worried about.
2007-12-26 09:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by fresh mex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy that won't date you just for that is a prick. Guys that just go for looks need to be shot. I would date you, you seem like a very nice girl. Any guy that won't date you because of that you shouldn't want to date. Just wait until you find a guy who will see you for who you really are not what you look like.
2007-12-26 09:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by SCVroker7253 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please. A guy would feel happy that he's even seeing your vagina. He's not gonna be like, "Ew, your labia is too big" and get turned off. Men love that. P-y is p-y, as long as it's clean and not overused and diseased they don't care.
2007-12-26 09:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋