Why and what is going on?

Question

my girlfriend, she's the one who text me: I love u when we started dating. She never say it infront of me. it has been 2 years now she text that to me like 20 times for the past 2 years and write it on paper when she left 4 scholl b4 i get in, now i realize i should break up with her i feel like she's hiding something.we live in together, i told her if she has somewhere she can go, she said i;ve always have somewhere to go. but she seems like she does not wanna go away, Wha you guys think. Am i wrong or she never loves me. I always tell there it's not wrong if she doesn't love just tell me. But now she is in the house on the couch without asking if she has done something or if there is something that we can work out. i've not spoken to her 4 like 3days. it does not bother her at all. i just don wanna throw her out What is the tricks to make her run now i need my privacy. i don't wanna bring a girl cause im not ready for that yet and new girl wouldn't like that either. Help.

Answer 1

just point blank ask her if she loves you to her face . if she wont answer , then dump her ho ****

Answer 2

It is really difficult to figure out exactly what is going on because this post is a bit muddled. It is not clear why you are living together, if you have doubts about her - whose place are you even living in, yours, hers, or a place you got together? Sounds like your place. Sounds to me as though she is not terrifically communicative; not sure if she is depressed or not, though that is a real possibility. If you are interested in trying to work it out, I think you would need to try joint counseling, if she is willing to go with you. I think you need to be up front with her, though, if you just want her out and want to end it - just tell her that it is not working out, that it is sad that you don't talk, but it is not workable, and that you need your space back. It would be ideal if you could give her at least a couple of weeks notice. The thing is, unless you are going to change the locks, and unless you trust her not to trash the place or steal all your stuff, you don't want to give her too much advance notice. Glad you are not trying to drive her away by being gross; that would be wrong.