Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

2007-12-26 08:50:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend more than anything. we live together and will soon be moving for him to go to a different UC and for myself to start nursing school. one day he talks about eloping and the next week hes distant. we both have the same goals and dreams, but i dont want him to be scarred. I always tell him we should just live day by day and whatever happens, happens. I would love to marry him, but is it too much to ask for a little consistancy?

2007-12-26 08:47:51 · 2 answers · asked by julie 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont understand .....well i was sitting in class and out of no where i had an orgasm and it keeps happening

why

2007-12-26 08:47:25 · 20 answers · asked by Jordyn C 1 in Singles & Dating

It starts "Here comes the bride, all dressed in white..." So what are the rest of the words???

2007-12-26 08:46:36 · 4 answers · asked by B. Nor 2 in Weddings

Because you thought you were getting older and it was time?
Because you felt obligated?
Because your family arranged it?
Because he asked and you couldn't say no?
Because you thought it would change you or him/her?
Because you were pregnant?
Because the sex was amazing?
Because you needed health insurance?
Because he/she is wealthy?
Or simply because you knew he/she was the one and you loved him/her?
Because the sex was amazing?

If you're not going to be honest then don't answer.
Oh yea, and if you want to preach go to a church, we don't want to hear it.

2007-12-26 08:44:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like for example, they should be able to cook, have a sense of humour, love kids, be helpful, no smoke/drink and etc

if so, what are they?

if you are married - is your spouse exactly like what you wanted them to be?

2007-12-26 08:43:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 08:43:05 · 12 answers · asked by Lori L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husb and I have been married for going on 3 !/2 years now , Ive left him twice bcuz he cant get a job and keep it and he has anger issues-we do have a child together-we are now split up and have been since August, and ive been dating somone else who swears that he loves me.but hes got his own issues.I starting to miss my husb and think I would like to go back but I dont want things to end up like they did last time- and i dont want to break my boyfriends heart either. I just think that every man has issues you just have to learn to deal w/ them and if thats the case then why dont I just go back to him so my daughter can have her mom and dad. I do still ove him but Sometimes I dont think that im in love w him . I just dont know what im supposed to do ...any advice would be good.

2007-12-26 08:42:23 · 17 answers · asked by Hillary R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

recently ive been getting really tired all the time.
i feel absolutly nackard, lack of energy and lack of enthusiasm for anything i just want to sleep all the time
how can i get out of this?

2007-12-26 08:41:11 · 12 answers · asked by jojopink 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really liked this black guy. I had a blast with him and his friends. Then around lunch the next day we were out at the park. He calls up this one guy and was like hey Im at the park you know what to do. When I asked him what that was he was like nothing. Then this white guy comes along with a bucket of KFC and a gallon of grape juice. He was like thought you people might be hungry. So I start calling him a racists and I was like how dare you bring them such a stero typical meal. Then the black guy who's name is Jeff says to me " What are you saying that because were black we cant eat chicken? Who the hell doesnt like chicken? Your the one being racist!"

I tred to argue that I wasnt but they were like mad at me. Then this white guy is like man you people sure have big lips and noses. So I start yelling at him saying that was mean and is a horrible thing to say. Jeff turns to me and goes so your saying that their something wrong with having a big nose and lips!

2007-12-26 08:41:07 · 18 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to plan a wedding in a small amt of time and have no idea where to start with what colors to choose for the wedding theme. Whats the best advice for that?

2007-12-26 08:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by Steph 2 in Weddings

A good time when out in public? He is used to being a hermit and I am a social butterfly...

2007-12-26 08:37:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just as a small way to help her out. I thought doing those custom stamps might be fun! I found a great photo of two champagne glasses clinking and thought that might be a good one to use. We don't want our photos on the stamps.

There is an option for text on the stamp. If I were going to put text on it, what would I put? Our names and the date we were engaged? Or the date we are to be married? Or is putting text on them a dumb idea? : )

Thanks!!

2007-12-26 08:32:23 · 12 answers · asked by Sharon 5 in Weddings

Suppose that you are a girlfriend/wife who is almost never in the mood to make your man happy. Is it okay for him to bring other young beautiful adult women home?

This question is for adult human females only. Please state your age.

2007-12-26 08:31:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't feel you have to come right out and tell a person, "Hey, I think we should date" or "I want this physical relationship to be monogomous". I feel it possible to be in a relationship without ever having to say out loud, "This is a relationship we are in". Perhaps I am wrong...

2007-12-26 08:30:50 · 6 answers · asked by MsLaLa 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i broke up and we still like each other(or at least i think he still likes me) but we broke up because he likes to flirt with other people. but i only flirt with him. i think i love him!!! but eneryone says i dont no wat love is cuz im only a "child". how do i know if he still likes me? and should i ask him back out? p.s. I LOVE YOU BROSON

2007-12-26 08:30:10 · 1 answers · asked by nikki loves bronson 1 in Singles & Dating

i had one ;gee.s she was out off this world .the cool thing is ;we are doing it again.

2007-12-26 08:29:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So we're in highschool and going to the same college. Now i'm not a popular kid, but I know my way around, and i'm a wrestler and not too shabby lookin... Colloquially, this girl would be "way out of my league". But, we've been friends soph year, which is when we were the closest, but it never got intimate because I was too intimidated, and I still am. She has said im funny, and that we're friends, but I want to be more. we don't really talk anymore, unfortunately, and the only opportunity for me to talk to her would be in class or online. So, thats about it in a nutshell. If you have any advice on what I should do, please share it, as I am sure alot of kids out there have the same problem. Thanks everyone.

2007-12-26 08:27:45 · 5 answers · asked by NCxxYellow 2 in Singles & Dating

i say never .

2007-12-26 08:25:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Mother took care of down syndrome child. Child now 25 yrs old Mother passed away. Father of the child states he can not care for her on any visits only. Expects daughter in law to care for her. (bathroom, feeding etc) since she is a woman as well. Child lives full time at group home. 2 brothers 1 lives out of the Country. Other brother ignores sister if she is visiting. Wife is tired of being taken advantage of as family is looking to make her take over where the mother left off Every holiday.

Who should be doing this?

2007-12-26 08:25:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering....

2007-12-26 08:25:01 · 13 answers · asked by kidfree 4 in Marriage & Divorce

OK IM GOING OVER MY HOMIES HOUSE THIS WEEKEND WUT SHOULD I DO TO KIDA TELL HIM I FEEL SOMETING FOR HIM?

2007-12-26 08:24:58 · 35 answers · asked by GRUMZY 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright… There’s this girl that quite frankly, I believe I love. Can’t stop thinking about her and she is, at this time in my life, one of the few things that can actually make me smile. Its not that I am obsessed or infatuated, it is just more of my incompetence to be able to do what I need to. I am a sophomore in high school and she is a junior. At the beginning of the school year, I had known her for a year and I liked her during the previous year but I made no attempt to get closer. This year that has changed and my interest in her has increased greatly as I got to know her better. I am doing everything in my ability to get to the point where I can ask her out. One major point to bring up is that to this date, I have never been in a relationship of any sorts. Period. After about three months of getting closer to her I asked my best friend (he had been friends with her since they were young) out of desperation, to call her up, ask if she thought I liked her and what she thought of me (he pretended he had no idea). She said she thought I did like her and that at that time she only liked me as a friend. Now, a month later, I had been talking to her pretty much every day. Both in person (on the bus everyday) and on aim. She was opening up much more to me and every once in a while she will bring up the fact that she thinks that she is fat. Now, I know that this is a big load of bull so I always just explain to her why she isn't and I just try and comfort her. Now, in a much broader period of time, I realized that I was talking to her a bit too much. Realizing this, I backed off, trying to give her some space. As a result, I think she doesn’t feel as pressured anymore, and as a result, when I do talk with her, the conversations tend to be much more engaging and just better overall. Unfortunately, I have gone back to my old habits of being too caught up in the moment and freaked out to ever talk to her in person. At this time, I haven’t the faintest idea of what she feels for me, and what is going through her head. The time I spend talking with her, even the time I spend with her when I don’t talk is an adrenaline rush like none other. I feel ecstatic. All of my worries and negative emotions flood away from me in an instant. I don’t know…. I don’t want to be an inconvenience I just really need to talk about it. Any responses would be amazing. Thank you for spending the time to read this…

2007-12-26 08:22:52 · 1 answers · asked by patton 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 08:22:05 · 2 answers · asked by David H 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 30. He dumped me a year ago, I suffered a lot, I wanted him back, tried to fight against my feelings, but NOW, I realized that I am still and only full of rage. he and his family treated me like you treat garbage, they basically throw me out of the door.
I am not in touch with him any longer,we didnt even swapped Xmas wishes. I hate him for how he treated me. I don't know what to do. Every night I dream about how much I'd love to ruin his life and new relationship. I am full of hate and I want to fight that. What could I do? Please help. I feel I am getting crazy. I have no friends and no family to support me.

2007-12-26 08:21:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he also makes my children stand on the wall for hours and they never have any adult supervision. when i call i talk to them for hours and the only time there is an adult around is after someone gets hurt. i feel so bad i want to call cps or go back to court but i dont know where to start or if it will even help if i call cps will they put into foster homes im so confused on what to do please help me

2007-12-26 08:18:43 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm panic stricken. I think, (maybe, possibly?) that this guy isn't the one i'm supposed to settle down with. When we put the deposit down, I was sure he was the one. He's lovely and has always treated me so well, but deep down, I want more from a relationship. I don't like his family (but that's besides the point). Do i live with and marry a guy who i'm averagely happy with, or do i end it all (house, engagement) and hold out for someone who is everything i could possible wish for.......? I've been unsure about this relationship for about 4 months......we've been together for 4 years and engaged for a year. I feel desperately confused, unfulfilled etc. HELP!

2007-12-26 08:18:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 08:17:52 · 27 answers · asked by questions 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister is going through a divorce. He can't handle it, he's attacked her 3 times already, stocking and harrassing her, the last physcial was in front of their 5 yr old son. He said while holding her down on the floor "Do you want (their son) not to have a mommy, I'll kill you"

The divorce was going fine but this past month it has turned violent, they were going to have equal custody...That idea has definitly changed now.


This is scary and she's going through the legal process right now, is this strong enough case to have full custody?

2007-12-26 08:16:41 · 8 answers · asked by WINO86 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 08:15:56 · 24 answers · asked by kH 1 in Singles & Dating