Is it really okay for a girl to ask a guy out?

Answer 1

Absolutely, although you might try flirting first to see if he gets the hint and asks you out, just in the rare case he prefers to do the asking.

Answer 2

Yes it's fine. If a girl likes a guy, then they can ask the guy out. A lot of people will think that the guy always has to make the first moves. And, that's not always the case.

Don't pass up the opportunities in life. You never know when and if you will get them back, so if this is your situation, ask the guy out. The worst that could happen is him saying no.

Think how guys feel about it though, the worst thing a girl can say to them is no. So is there really a huge difference?

Answer 3

It's okay for a girl to ask a guy out for a one time treat. I know I'm what's called," old-fashion", by today's standards, but I think the guy should ask the girl out. I also think it's up to a guy to take a relationship to the next level and he should also make the marriage proposal and not vice-versa.

Women are more pushy and more agressive than men, and men can't stand any pressure. Men will say, "yes", to a date or marriage proposal and don't mean it, just to get the pressure off them. If a girl ask a guy out and he says, "yes", there's always a question in the back of your mind, "Does he really want to be out with me?" If a guy ask a girl out, then you know he really wants to go out with her. There was never so much confusion and breaks-ups in dating, relationships, and marriages until women started asking men out, taking relationships to the next level, and proposing to them. The minute these men accepts a women's invitation, they're immediately trying to think of a way out. Of course there's no realistic way out, so they go along with it, and it starts bringing about hurt feelings, men looking the other way, them not being attentive, and all the confusion that goes along with it. Where as, when a woman says yes to a guy's invitation, more than likely she really means it, and will give it her best. The only exception I feel to this, is when it's a ladies choice affair.

Answer 4

Of course
afterall its usually the guy whos more scared to ask the girl--well thats what they say anyway. Apparently boys like a girl with confidence-so yes it is okay =D

Answer 5

It's okay, but only if you have tickets to a concert or show or something. Otherwise, why ask some guy to take you out? I'd rather know for sure he wants to go with me by waiting to be asked.

Answer 6

OMG yes!!! Some guys are affraid to. Some really like it when girls do that. Sometimes, a guy really likes a girl, but doesn't know if she likes him, and so he doesn't ask her out, in fear of looking "dumb". It is a good idea. I have done it before, too. It's perfectly fine.

Answer 7

Yeah most guys usually want a girl to ask him out since hes the one that is usually doing it!! just make sure he has feelings for you first theres nothing worse then getting the pain of rejection!!

Answer 8

Absolutely! A year ago, I asked a guy out (as friends) to a game night. A few months later, we were dating, and we're together now. If I hadn't taken that first step, we might not be where we are now. Go for it! You never gain anything if you never try.

Answer 9

Of course! ^.^
I was the one to ask my current boyfriend out and he was perfectly okay with it. Actually, he was glad I did, 'cause he was too shy to despite wanting to. Guys get nervous too, you know. He might want to, but like my boyfriend, be too fearful of rejection to say anything.

Remeber: If you're the one to ask out a guy, you better offer to pay for whatever you do! Treat others how you'd you to be treated!

Good luck with whoever he is! <3

Answer 10

There's no right or wrong answer here, but more often than not, a relationship is more successful when the guy asks the girl out.