I really liked this black guy. I had a blast with him and his friends. Then around lunch the next day we were out at the park. He calls up this one guy and was like hey Im at the park you know what to do. When I asked him what that was he was like nothing. Then this white guy comes along with a bucket of KFC and a gallon of grape juice. He was like thought you people might be hungry. So I start calling him a racists and I was like how dare you bring them such a stero typical meal. Then the black guy who's name is Jeff says to me " What are you saying that because were black we cant eat chicken? Who the hell doesnt like chicken? Your the one being racist!"
I tred to argue that I wasnt but they were like mad at me. Then this white guy is like man you people sure have big lips and noses. So I start yelling at him saying that was mean and is a horrible thing to say. Jeff turns to me and goes so your saying that their something wrong with having a big nose and lips!
2007-12-26 08:41:07 · 18 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then he was like your the one being a biggot get the hell out of here BIt#h! Then they all left and I saw them like 30 min later after I was done crying and I saw them like impersanting me with the white guy and they were laughing so hard. So Im guessing that after he had his fun with me he didnt want anything to do with me so they came up with that plan? Why couldnt he just say that? Wasnt that a double standard questions. Like no matter what I would of said they would of accused me of being racists right?
2007-12-26 08:43:19 · update #1
I don't know how old you or this "Jeff" guy are, but it sounds to me like a common case of immaturity mixed with boredom. He is obviously an immature person who thought it would be funny to pull a mean joke on an unsuspecting person. Unfortunately, you fell for the trap. Jeff obviously called this guy himself & was good enough friends with them that these "racist" comments were ok with him. It probably would have been better for you to keep silent & neutral in that situation. Of course, like I said, this was obviously a mean joke they played on you and he really doesn't deserve your friendship. Just think to yourself, "Silly Rabbit! You fell for a prank." and then let it (& him) go! :) Take care.
2007-12-26 08:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by MsLaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree - he was totally setting you up! Next time, don't try to be noble or stick up - let the other person handle the situation and then, just ask him how he felt about it. It's OK to talk about differences and what may appear to be racist (or not) because how else are different people supposed to find out how others tick? I've got plenty of friends that are "different" (race, gender, religion, orientation) with whom I can have mature conversations like this with - key word here: mature - and having discussions like this is actually very refreshing.
Forghedaboudit!
2007-12-26 08:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Smarty-Marti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a setup. They had it all planed out to begin with. No matter what you would have said they would have turned you into a racist. Stay away from them. You can do a lot better in getting friends.
2007-12-26 08:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Larry E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were set up, honey. He was very cruel to you. That wasn't funny. I'm sorry it happened to you. If he didn't want to hang out with you anymore, he should've just said so rather than hurt you in this way. Put this behind you, and don't judge all black guys by this one man's behaviour. He's a jerk.
2007-12-26 08:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by Twice as Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not very thoughtful.
You shouldn't even mention the word "racist"!
a) chicken man was his friend. how dare you call him a racist
b) he is black, and you do not make him look bad in front of others
c) he now sees you as a woman who is sensitive about race
2007-12-26 08:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am grossed out. Why don't you raise your standards?? Your lingo sounds kind of ghetto (no offense meant). Don't you want to end up with a guy who is nice, intelligent and can provide for you???
2007-12-26 08:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you got set-up in a gag between the two of them. No one argues over KFC chicken...Bojangles, maybe, but never KFC. (I'm kidding, of course). No one argues over chicken, period.
2007-12-26 08:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not everything is a racial issue. Why couldn't they jsut eat their chicken in opeace without you having to bring any racial issues into it? if it offended anyone else then they should speak up. They don't need you to be their voice for them.
2007-12-26 08:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You surely don't need any of these people in your life. They had their fun at your expense.
One can only wonder how long they had planned this.
2007-12-26 08:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by pinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have not heard that expression in years. as we talk they are observed as "ice homes". some are purely beer joints with a juke field. some usher in bands on week-ends. I stay in Houston now yet whilst i grew to become into starting to be up I lived in Humble Texas. (Kingwood now) each and all of the Honky Tonks have been down on the river. there grew to become into yet another super place to flow observed as "Magnolia Gardens". additionally on the river. East of Houston. It grew to become right into a honky tonk. i myself observed Elvis carry obtainable till now he grew to become into "ELVIS". Your Grandpas could remember this. thank you for the thoughts.
2016-10-19 23:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋