I am in a truly bad situation and have no idea what to do. I am married for 10 months now, but this is so hard. I left my ex-boyfriend of 4 years before I got married, only bcs. he stalled about marrying me and I thought he would never do it, telling me to wait etc. I knew he wasnt with another girl, he said he wanted to wait. So, I dumped him, met a friend from my past and we were married about 6 months later. I thought I would be able to forget my ex and be happy, but neither has ocurred. I know I still love my ex and he still loves me and he really is the love of my life.
If I knew that I could divorce my husband and go back to my ex w/o any problems, then I would. However, I know that maybe we would feel different, maybe he wouldnt want, I wouldnt, etc. My situation is "stable," but I am not 100% happy and miss my ex too much.
I just dont know if I can risk a divorce bcs if it doesnt work out with my ex, then I will be all alone and that would be worse. What would you do?
2007-12-26
07:21:31
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roxana.lopez30
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Marriage & Divorce