Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

That my maid of honor loves my wedding invites soo much (i made them), that she said she'll buy the paper and such for my bridal shower invites and have me make them?

Is it MORE wrong that I WANT to do this?

I love this kind of stuff lol..gives me more things to put in my portfolio for upcoming business :)

2007-12-26 06:42:44 · 9 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

I mean I'm seriously afraid of having relationships because of losing that person...i just dont like the feeling of being vulnerable and being prone to getting hurt. How can i control my fear and finally have a relationship with someone? I actually like this guy and but soooo afraid of having a relationship.

2007-12-26 06:40:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 23 year old woman and I don't do the hair, make-up, purse and shoe thing. I mean I dress nicely, not too provocative, and I make myself up to look good everyday, so I'm not a social slob. But, I like playing HALO and building fires with my husband. I like to play Texas Hold 'Em and wrestle around on the floor. I'm just an iddy-biddy thing and people expect me to be weak and girly but I prefer the rough and tumble ways that men play when they hang out. Am I a weird female or are there others out there like me?

2007-12-26 06:39:57 · 40 answers · asked by Roslin 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 06:39:08 · 6 answers · asked by haneen soubhi 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean as a Christian I do not support gays or lesbians let alone bisexuals, however that is not to say that i hold a grudge against them, in fact I've met some realy nice people who are gay although i see their sexual preference as a problem that they have. As a christians we do not hate those who have a problem, but actually give our hearts to them to help them change. I want to listen to your opinions , thank you.

2007-12-26 06:38:59 · 24 answers · asked by Jorge 3 in Singles & Dating

I am married, 23 weeks pregnant and have a 22 month old step-son. Before I got married I was active in emergency medicine and volinteered on the local fire department. When I got married I quit all of that stuff to stay home and be a wife and mother but now 8 months later I miss working in emergency medicine so bad I can hardly stand it. I dream about it almost every night. I told my husband how I feel and he said that if I miss it that bad I need to be involved in it but I know he doesn't really want me to. I also feel really guilty about wanting to leave my family. I think the womans place is at home taking care of the house and the kids but I have always been really independant and that is harder to let go of than I realized. Am I being selfish by wanting to join the fire department again? This would require me having to leave my family at home during all hours of the day and night.

2007-12-26 06:38:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to make this short and simple: my bf scares the hell out of me when he is on his motorcycle. i think he drives way too fast for conditions and is not always responsible on it. he assures me that he knows what he is doing. knowing what you are doing does not always prevent accidents from happening. how do i explain my fears to him without seeming like i am "nagging" or being lame?

2007-12-26 06:36:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this wat im gonna tell to my girls:''i know u have had sex alot of times but i wanna be the only one now and for the rest of our lives who have had make love to you so wat im trying to say isntead of having sex lets make love'' is tht k or to cursy?

sry for bad spelling

2007-12-26 06:33:30 · 5 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

Right now, i have been in a realtionship for 10 months and i care alot about him, but not to sure if it's love.

2007-12-26 06:33:12 · 7 answers · asked by Lovely 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 06:32:27 · 44 answers · asked by mini mouse.........x 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 sisters (I am a girl..dont mind the avatar) and it seems that they are jealous of me. It is a terrible terrible feeling. I often wondered why they used to exclude me from outings and generally their chat and then a while ago, my mother told me that they are crazy jealous of me. The reasons seem to be that I have a really good job, but it is so unfair as I studied really hard to get this position while neither of them bothered so much. They wanted a social life..boyfriends and all that and I put that on the back shelf to get well qualified. How can I deal with this? Has anyone out there ever experienced this? All I know is that if they do well at anyhthing I am happy for them, I am a caring person but they dont seem to be happy for me when I do well. Why are some people so jealous even of their own siblings? ps it is even infantile..we are not children..we are all over 30 so it is even more hurtful that this carries into adulthood.

2007-12-26 06:31:07 · 8 answers · asked by this is it 1 in Family

This is kind of a follow up to a previous question. So there is this girl i work with who is a nurse and im a paramedic. We have been flirting back and forth at work for about 2 weeks and we also talk and play around alot. i decided i was going to get her a little something for christmas and ask her out at the same time. She ended up asking me before i could ask her. Right before it was time to punch out When i gave her the gift and she opened it i playfuly said "you prob. wont like it" she proceded to blush, smile widely and gave me a hug around my shoulders and neck resting her head againts mine. She then said "hey, we should go out sometime." i then said "yah, we really should" and then she suggested hitting the bar or local starbucks shop later in the week. She had to get back to charting and when i was walking down the hallway to leave she came after me and said thank you & merry christmas with a hug. We said bye but never exchanged #'s. Just freinds or more? Did she ASK ME OUT?

2007-12-26 06:30:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend who I have known for years... 20+ actually is on marriage #3. Her last husband left her to due the fact she couldn't conceive children.. ( lame I know). She met her current husband on Yahoo personals. She found really great evidence of him cheating on her early on. She also moved in with him right off the bat. Of course she kicked him out.. and he was back 2 weeks later with a wedding date set. I asked why would she do that and accept such a crap deal;? She said she just couldn't make it on her own despite the previous alimony and child support. Since then... she has had a baby with hubby#3 and she told me he wasn't thrilled about being a dad. I don't agree with my friend, but it is her life.

2007-12-26 06:29:05 · 20 answers · asked by BeeBee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together almost 5 years now. When we first started having sex, it was amazing and non-stop for about a year. We'd be together all the time (sometimes a few times a day). However, in the past few years his sex drive seems lower, while mine has been higher than ever! He knows I have a higher sex drive and we have discussed it before (about a year ago) but I don't know how to bring it up again. I hate being turned down when I try making advances. It's the worst feeling in the world. But if I don't then I never get satisfied! I workout to stay attractive and I'm all about trying new things. I've tried masturbating, but it just makes the drive higher. Is there something I can take to lower mine - or how do I ask him to take supplements w/o offending him?

Things I think may be contributing his lower libido: his higher levels of stress at work (and even more so now that we got our first house together a few months back) and our age gap - I'm in my 20's and he's in his mid 30's

2007-12-26 06:28:21 · 10 answers · asked by Chels 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it REALLY worth paying for?

Anyone used it and had success?

please note: I already have a man in my life. We're looking more for a woman to join in, or just be friends with - to go out and dance!

2007-12-26 06:26:50 · 13 answers · asked by Andrea 2 in Friends

i am super close to this guy; he is one of my best friends. i am not attracted to him as more than a friend, and he's not either.... we just aren't like that. we are seriously JUST good friends. but he likes this girl, and for some reason, im not too sure why, i just really, really dont want them to work out... she's a nice girl, but i just dont want her to interfere with our closeness or be jealous of he and i and make him stop talking to me or hanging out with me as much... or for him to become closer to her and drift from me... i know its selfish, but i want to stay his best girl friend whether or not he's got a girlfriend. i dont want to date him only because it might screw over our relationship if we ever broke up.... what should i do? i know my question isnt too clear, but... try?? thanks!!!! =]]

2007-12-26 06:26:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wifes Mom is in an assisted living home in Minnesota and her health is fading. We need to get up to Minnesota to help with her because she has no family there with her. We have looked everywhere to find help getting there to no avail. We live in Beaumont, Texas and we are on a limited budget. If you have any ideas please help.

2007-12-26 06:26:06 · 4 answers · asked by Timothy K 1 in Family

MY family told me that if i painted the house i may get a Wii for Christmas.

Well i done it and in ChristMas i got NOTHING, while my lazy 21 yr old brother gets a ticked to go to Colombia, and he didn't do anything to help.

Is this being unfair?

2007-12-26 06:26:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have checked it out browsing over the last few weeks and the people never seem to change and everyone is last active over 3 weeks ago...so not using i guess?!

Also i presume no girls reply if you wink as it implies you arent interested enough to message?!!?(If you had that ability, not being a member and all!!)

2007-12-26 06:24:09 · 6 answers · asked by Deano 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not by any way saying all guys are like that, but I am 20 years old and i am in college, and I thought that the people (guys in particular) would be more mature. From what I have noticed is that everyone wants to hook up with each other. There are very "few" guys who want a relationship. Should I continue to wait or go for older men. I am not trying to be rude to those who are promiscious, but it's just that men don't seem to want a woman who is not sleeping around with different men. I don't get it. Answers from both males and females are welcome.

2007-12-26 06:18:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im looking to deliver some flowers to my neice for her birthday at school...im having a hard time with company names...i know of 1-800 flowers.com and Conroys...is there any other flower compnaies out there that deliver? i live in Orange County, Ca

2007-12-26 06:18:35 · 3 answers · asked by *+*+baby dust*+*+ 2 in Family

He hasn't been the nicest guy on the planet to me lately...

Should I break up with him before his birthday to avoid giving a gift?

2007-12-26 06:18:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so heres the dealio. I love my girlfriend, i have been with numerous women in my life, (100+) at 27 yrs old, and she is 30 and has only been with one man. I have been able to get her to orgasm through both digital and oral stimulation, but for some reason, when she is trying to stimulate me, i cant get and erection. What the heck is up with that? I am a little overweight and am losing it, but i can get an erection with other women, why not the one i love?

2007-12-26 06:18:11 · 2 answers · asked by gymfreak713 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 06:17:12 · 4 answers · asked by Link S 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 12 going on 18. She is starting to get a little rebellious as teenagers do (nothing crazy like boyfriends or partying yet - thank god)

My daughter said that she doesn't like Christopher, her step Dad, because he beats her. I think she may get spanked every now and then but I don't she is being beat.

I picked her up on Christmas day, and she was in tears. She was being mean to her 6 year old half brother and was punished. She talked back to him and was "beat" by him. I asked where and she showed me. I didn't see anything.

I am obviously concerned..... very concerned. But I also know how kids can exagerate things. I told my daughter that I would talk to her Mom about it.

I am not sure how to broach the subject with my ex-wife and not cause problems in our post-divorce reltionship. We get along civily, but the last thing that I want to do is get into some kind of custody fight.

2007-12-26 06:16:06 · 17 answers · asked by bjmarchini 2 in Family

Im a freshman (14 yrs old)...how old is to old when im dateing guys?

2007-12-26 06:15:44 · 17 answers · asked by abby 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm an 18 year old female in love with a 55 year old man. Do you think this will be a problem? He has several children who are older than me. He wants to tell his family about me but wants to make sure it's ok with me first. Do you think his kids will like me? What should I tell him?

2007-12-26 06:14:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean he had to have known what I was thinking...C'Mon I spend more time down the hall cuddled up with his widowed father than I do sleeping with him.



I hate to call the man slow but PLEASE!

2007-12-26 06:14:11 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. My husband hates his 19 year old sister because he thinks she's a brat. He's 23. She just recently eloped with her boyfriend (before we got married) so she doesn't live at home with their parents. Anyway, last Christmas she got some jewelry from their parents and immediately was like, "eew. I'm not wearing this-- it's fake. This is the kind of stuff I wear (she points to her engagement ring)." I've seen home videos where she chewed her Dad out for saying the $500 dollars he gave her was also to be used to buy new school clothes. She went on a train ride a few weeks back and some guy came up to try to talk to her and she flat out told him "Please don't talk to me". That guy and all his friends called her "Princess" throughout the whole train ride. I mean she's really sweet but she just doesn't know how to talk to people without seeming like a stuck-up brat. I can tell she's trying to change but my husband has a resolute opinion of her that I fear may never change.

2007-12-26 06:13:34 · 9 answers · asked by Avelyn 4 in Family

2007-12-26 06:12:32 · 55 answers · asked by smoothirene 1 in Singles & Dating