I mean I'm seriously afraid of having relationships because of losing that person...i just dont like the feeling of being vulnerable and being prone to getting hurt. How can i control my fear and finally have a relationship with someone? I actually like this guy and but soooo afraid of having a relationship.
2007-12-26 06:40:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing in this life is for sure. If you don't take chances then you don't get rewards. Your best bet is to date him for a while. Nothing serious. Don't let emotions get involved until you know what kind of guy he is. If he turns out to be the decent sort then let things just happen as they will.
2007-12-26 06:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I examine a e book by skill of sebastian faulkes called human strains a different with regard to the beginning up of psychiatry. the unique pioneers thought that there grow to be something interior the technique of humanising and getting enlarged brains that meant some persons have been paying heavily for the self understanding- i think of the terror of concern has no function, and their clarification the main clever I actual have heard in basic terms an evolutionary blip like dodo's. once you talk approximately that one million in 4 persons at anybody time has a psychological ailment - no longer having the ability to deal with our very own minds -then we might look rather a mistake
2016-10-02 09:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut. I'm talking to a girl who is the same as you. She is afreid that I will break her heart but I am so in love with her that I wouldn't do anything to hurt her. Find out what kind of person he is and trust yourself.
2007-12-26 06:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it.
You will never get over your feel if you don't even try.
You will just dwell in that thought, when in reality that's
not going to help you at all.
If you get hurt then you get hurt.
Sometimes that's how relationship's go, to tell you that
you are not to be with that one person.
2007-12-26 06:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one has fears. Just take it slow. Tell him about your fear. And keep saying: "Better to love and loose, than never love". Which is really, really true. Luck! Oh, and trust your instincts. Your fear may because this guy can't be trusted. Date those you do trust.
2007-12-26 06:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't all you can do is true that person and hope that he wouldn't hurt you it can make you or break you but you have to put yourself out there to find out
2007-12-27 03:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by stunna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the trick is to be less possessive. This seems to work better.
2007-12-26 09:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Perseus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront those demons head on
2007-12-26 08:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋