Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

Last year I dated this girl, Ana, it was this great connection. The relationship was a bombshell relat. Fun, excitement, amazing sex, understanding, trust, everything. But it failed. She was confused and was new to the (gay)dating scene. (you get alot of attention when ur pretty and new) We continued to see each other here and there like a love hate relationship. We talked about our sit and we agreed to work it out cause we care a few times but it all ended badly. Her throwing our friendship out the door. Ever since we dated her friend and I remained close. I got feelings for her bestf (mary) i told her and she was like no you dont. So i put them away and forgot about them perhaps she was right. Months later mary pursues me in the worst of ways. I'm all confused cause I'm still hung up on ana but it came to apoint where i had to get over her. so i started dating mary. 4 months down the road we've broken up twice. For starters i cant get ana out of my head, i never could. .........

2007-12-26 05:43:27 · 9 answers · asked by FireCunt 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 05:42:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you know that youre the best with sexual things when it comes to your boyfriend and the people in his past? That he doesnt wish you were better or notice things they did that you dont? If he says he has never compared does that mean he really doesnt or that he just doesnt want to tell you they were better?

2007-12-26 05:40:52 · 3 answers · asked by Laura 4 in Singles & Dating

I understand married/taken men check out other women, but why can't they control it when their signifcant other is around? Why are women OK with a guy glancing at other women when you're with your man? Can't guys control that at least? I just think it's disrespectful.
I know if I'm with a guy I'm into, I control how much I look at hot guys because I wouldn't want him to feel insecure. I don't mean to sound

By the way I believe the followng (common) answers have no merit and I would like to see different answers besides these:
- it's in men's nature
- women do it too
- all men look (yeah, well why can't they look when their girl ISN'T around?!)
- a guy can have the best meal at the restaurant but still look at the menu
- "oh, i'm fine with it because it's ME he's going home with"
etc.

Women, why are you ok with this?
Men, why do you do it *in front of* your girlfriend/wife?


It just seems like men are never satisfied with what they've got.

2007-12-26 05:39:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and ye i know this sounds childish but i just hate my lazy *** step-dad he never helps around the house and treats me like his servant he cant even get his own fat *** of a chair so please give me some ideas to make my mom throw him and his snotty 18 yr old daughter out of our house i want to get rid of him for good

2007-12-26 05:39:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Because in those terms, I never know if a girl will like me for who I really am, and not for how popular I am, how much money I have, or how do I show presense for her friends.

2007-12-26 05:37:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It might sound sad but I want some totally objective advice
Ive recently moved in with my fiance. We're both 20 and have been together over 3 years. It might sound young but we know what we want. Or I thought we did at least.

We've always been happy, and like everybody else had the odd big argument here and there over the years.

Recently, since moving in, it's all arguments, all the time. My theory is that the financial stress of our first home is making everything seem worse than it is. Another is that she simply wasnt ready for the financial commitment and blames me for it.

She says I've become grumpy and impossible to be around and I'm not nice to her anymore. Funny thing is I feel the same towards her at the moment.

I could see things going wrong and I tried to make an effort, but she ended it. On Christmas Eve. She's stopped wearing her ring and wants me to move out.

Part of me wants to just leave, no matter how hard it will be to sell up and have to start..

2007-12-26 05:36:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She originally first cheated with a female co-worker in 2004, Now with a guy who is also a member of the 12-step fellowship she belongs to! And really she'd claim that he was just a friend only to have read a text message one morning about "We should call in sick to work.. LOL" Any thoughts why she could be so dam cold.........?

2007-12-26 05:35:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like these two guys for awhile but no matter what i act like a friend even though i dont give in when they want to. and they both called me sweetie. they dont know each other but i find it a little odd because i havent talked to to them for a lil while and one usually calls me butt head and now hes calling me sweetie and the other one usually just sticks to my name and now hes calling me sweetie. does this mean theyre interested?

2007-12-26 05:34:36 · 12 answers · asked by huh? 1 in Singles & Dating

Has a guy ever been having sex with a girl and when they are ejaculating nothing comes out?

2007-12-26 05:33:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 05:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by smoothirene 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 05:31:52 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this boy that i like but i didnt want him to noe that lyk him but my friend went up to him and told him that i wanted to go wit him but he said no then his frend told me that he wouldve went wit me and now one of our mutual friends is telln me that he likes me. HHHEEELLLPPP MMMEEE.

2007-12-26 05:30:29 · 4 answers · asked by baby_gurl2_0 1 in Singles & Dating

i am fallin really hard for some guy and everytime i think about him i keep havin orgasms and even hearing his voice on the phone how can i stop

2007-12-26 05:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 2.5 years. We have had a great marriage so far. I stay at home and take care of things around the house but I also had a small online job that I would make about $600/month or so. When we first got engaged, he knew I wanted to be a stay at home wife/mom but I was making the extra money at home just to help out a bit. Now, I am 4 months pregnant and suddenly my online job seems to be fading and Im down to making less than half of the money as I was doing before. I always paid for the groceries, and my own bills (small credit card bills, put gas in my car, ect.) and now Im getting worried that I will not be able to help out anymore. He makes decent money and he SAYS that I dont HAVE to work, but now he says that he always wanted me to work (even though he said otherwise in the begining). I feel like I am disappointing him. I am desperately looking for jobs now and Im very depressed about it. Its like all of a sudden now, hes not happy and I know why

2007-12-26 05:26:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 05:25:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I barely have money left over after paying bills?
ok i make about 2200 a month. my fiancee makes around $800 a mth.she gets child support from her kids dad at 325 a month. the kids are 4 and 2. right now its so hard for me and my fiancee to budget money. part of me is wondering if the bills are too high or we just need to cut down on stuff. right now we have rent- 825. car payment- $360. car insurance- $226. cable- $75 $103- cell phone plan- 1400 minutes for 89.99. $10- text messaging both lines. $4.00- roadside assistance. $325 student loan- its in default. trying to get it out. gas for car-$400. yes about 100 a week. and lets not forget laundry and groceries. the reason my gas is so high is because the 4 year goes to school goes to school out of our district. he was already registered before we moved. also i live about 30 minutes from my job. and its a lot of stop and go traffic in philly.

2007-12-26 05:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by dgmotley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well she's REALLY mean, rude, SPOILED, and beats me up all the time and doesn't even care how I feel!!! It's not like i can dumb her off somewhere cause we are in the same classes & everything. We're both "bff" and she says that i cant keep her all to myself, but what am i suppost to do while she hangs out w/ everyone else when SHE WONT LET ME DO THAT?! urgh i need to know how to deal with her...and dont tell me to talk it out with her and share my feelings cause trust me, that wont work. ^ ^;;

2007-12-26 05:21:09 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my husband slapped my leg (hard) while we were playing a game with guests to get my attention. I can't get past this. It was very humiliating. I don't know what to do. I'm giving him the silent treatment because he thinks he said he's sorry and I should be able to get over it.

2007-12-26 05:20:50 · 22 answers · asked by kazer4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i got my boy friend this really expencive gift for christmas....i love him with all my heart but............he didnt get me any thing.WHAT DO I DO?????HELP.

2007-12-26 05:20:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 05:19:37 · 9 answers · asked by chashe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does this mean that sometimes you have to really 'fight' to get the person you love to fall in love with you? Or that there will be times when you feel like you should give up but something (love) involuntarily keeps you determined? Opinions please!!

2007-12-26 05:19:12 · 2 answers · asked by person 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not saying I did that.

I'm not saying I didn't, either.

2007-12-26 05:17:06 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex husband gave up his parental right when my daughter was 3 years of age Iremarrried and my husband addopted her at age 7, she is now 21 , can the ex-husband, come back into her life now leagally

2007-12-26 05:14:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay i was with a guy for about 5 months and he started messing around with other girls that were my friends so we are over now(we kinda dumped each other). Then i dated this guy for abotu 4 months and he was concieted so i dumped him.Then i dated this other guy for like a month and he dumped me bcuz i didnt walk up to him in school bcuz his friends were jerks and told me to get on my knees and **** so i didnt go to his locker. I need advice on what to look for in a guy and how to keep a guy. PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-12-26 05:13:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She complains that she never gets to see us, and that my parents always get to see us. It's obvious why they do, they live in the same town. My mother is my babysitter. She tries to go against our wishes when we let her have the baby for the weekend, and she fed her rice cereal before I could. I wanted to be the one to feed her first, but she doesn't care. She made a big deal about getting her ears pierced, but my mom wanted to get them pierced too. After all this is my mothers first grandchild, while my m-i-l has two already. My mom just let her do it, so I wouldn't have to deal with her crying about it. I'm a passive person so talk ing to her about it won't do any good, I'll end up letting her do whatever she wants. My husband knows how I feel, and he does talk to her, in fact he demands that she listen to us. She doesn't listen to him either. I'm afraid that we are going to have to threaten her with never letting her have the baby again. It's not fair to keep her granddaughter away

2007-12-26 05:09:23 · 17 answers · asked by dala_o_2003 2 in Family

Me- FREEZING cold! Not even a blanket w/ thermols will help
Him- Hot so he goes and turns OFF the heater!

Anyone else have this problem? what a gentelman, huh!
(I dont really hate him, I am just venting. Brrrrrr)

2007-12-26 05:07:30 · 18 answers · asked by none-ya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex who I have been split for for 5 years and we have a 9 year old son together has just asked me to have dna done?there is no question at all that he is not jis and I have nothing to hide but I know he is upto something he also wants parental responsability?and to be put on the birth certificate ! he cheated on me thaths why I left him and he has recently married a girl from praugue and all of a sudden all this can anyone shed any light this is like the biggest slap in the face I have ever had !!im 100 per cent sure hes his he is like his twin aswell! would anyone know w hat he may be upto he is also a high earner could it be tax?

2007-12-26 04:57:33 · 2 answers · asked by Country Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm NOT in love with a guy who's older than me, I don't know why I thought about this, I don't know why I said 12 years, either. I just wondered, I guess. So... What do you think??

2007-12-26 04:57:13 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and I am pretty sure he likes me too but we r always joking with eachother over how obvious it is we like eachother. His best friend tells me he wants to ask me out but I think he is too shy to go through with it. How do I subtly tell him that I would say yes if he did or what are my other options?

2007-12-26 04:53:53 · 9 answers · asked by dstar 2 in Singles & Dating