2007-12-26 05:42:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, jealousy leads to controlling, which often is associated with abusiveness. Men who can't let a woman out of their sight are often abusers. Men like these, under the pretext of "love," try to inhabit every molecule of air around the women they target. You may be picking up on signs of an abusive personality, which include isolating the victim and constantly checking up on her. His darker side will eventually emerge, to include monopolizing your time and removing your ability to make decisions, effectively cutting you off from everything. He will also try to create a sense of becoming "indebted" to him, and he will soon call in that marker to further manipulate you into doing his will.
2007-12-26 05:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A jealous guy is the one who dislikes any fun things that the person of interest does, without him being around.
For instance, you want to go to a party/trip/fun outing...you name it and he feels resentment to you because he wasn't there (for whatever reason, even if it was his choice)
A controlling guy is the one who will prohibit you to have fun without him, or in general do anything HE doesn't approve of, whether is for fun, necessity or whatever.
From the 2 types the first is preferable, since he "feels" jealousy but does not act on it.
The later is physically affecting your life
In general, both types are to stay away from, since a jealous person can easily become controlling.
2007-12-26 13:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Vergina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being jealous and controlling all stem from insecurity.
For whatever reason, this guy is demonstrating to you, that he doesn't trust you. What that usually means though is when a guy can't trust you, its because he himself can't be trusted and he feels everyone else is just like him. Remember assholes don't know they are assholes and dickweeds don't know they are dickweeds. There really is no difference in being controlling or being jealous. The controlling part is just the actual act that ones does when they are jealous.
2007-12-26 13:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous you get a little perturbed when say she chooses to go out with her friends instead of you, when you both asked.
Controlling is you never get to go out with your friends.
Abusive is just controlling that has reached a maximum. Where the jealous feelings you have, you take out in form of physical on your partner.
One leads to another, but just a little bit of jealousy shows you care and are afraid of that person hurting you, it's just a matter of controlling whether that turns into deep love or physical abuse.
2007-12-26 13:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Controlling is part of jealousy but jealousy can also be insecurity or a fragile ego. Actions speak louder than words. If he is controlling, that's bad as it can lead to abuse.
2007-12-26 13:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Controlling may not always be a result of jealousy.
Jealous men will not let you interact with any other men.
Controlling..well, they'll just be bossy and not let you do anything without their permission...
2007-12-26 13:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i agree. i was in a "controlling" relationship and it was not good
2007-12-26 13:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋