how do i deal with a mean bff?

Question

Ok well she's REALLY mean, rude, SPOILED, and beats me up all the time and doesn't even care how I feel!!! It's not like i can dumb her off somewhere cause we are in the same classes & everything. We're both "bff" and she says that i cant keep her all to myself, but what am i suppost to do while she hangs out w/ everyone else when SHE WONT LET ME DO THAT?! urgh i need to know how to deal with her...and dont tell me to talk it out with her and share my feelings cause trust me, that wont work. ^ ^;;

Answer 1

You need to tell this girl to back off, then ignore her. This is high school drama, it will be over in a few years!

You don't need people like that in your life.

Answer 2

This girl is not your best friend. You might call each other that, but it's a lie, because she doesn't treat like a friend. A friend would care how you feel and would NEVER physically harm you.
Tell this girl the friendship isn't working out, and you can stay "friendly" but still pursue other people as friends. So stay nice with her, but focus your energy and time on finding a new BFF. You don't need her permission.

Answer 3

Dear beaten up,
It sounds like your "bff" really isn't your BFF at all. If you ask me, she's using you. Stop talking to her all together, sort of as if to give her the silent treatment. I don't believe you will be friends with her after that, but do you really want a friend that acts that way towards you?

Ghetto Girl xoxo♥

Answer 4

Miyoko, you only deal cards. U have relationships with people. Some good, some bad. When you die, u go to heaven or hell. Why are you letting someone beat the hell out of you? Choose life, stay safe. Be Blessed.

Answer 5

That is not a friend at all. Friends don't behave like that to each other. You need to just not hang out with her and tell her that once she grows up you can hang out again. There are millions of people in the world and you don't have to hang out with just her.

Answer 6

u need to a find a new friend and a REAL one at that she is not a friend she is someone that takes advantage of you what you need to do is grow a backbone and hold your ground don't let anyone treat u like that let alone a friend seriously if u tried to talk to her and she wont listen that u need to stop calling her dont take her calls and ignore her and if u can transfer to new classes but find new friends ASAP

Answer 7

Well, if you've tried talking it out with her and that hasn't worked, then you have a few options: 1) continue to be her doormat; or 2) find other friends to hang out with and let her just deal with it; or 3) break off "friendship" with her, because this is not how true friends treat each other.

Answer 8

Since she treats you that way, she has proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that she IS NOT, I repeat, IS NOT your friend. What you really should do is just ignore her from now on. Pretend she doesn't exist. Act like you never knew her, I hope my answer helps you. Good Luck.

Answer 9

Girl she is not your friend no friend would do what she dose and you r right talking,sharing feelings will not work.Just leave her alone for 1 hole school day and if she calls later that day tell her that your no longer friend and don't ever talk 2 me until u apologizes

Answer 10

last time I checked, that is the OPPOSITE definition of a "bff"...personally, the next time I was treated badly by someone who is supposed to be that good of a friend to me, I'd tell her off and tell her to go stuff her friendship where the sun doesn't shine.

All she is doing is lowering your self esteem - you don't need people like that in your life.