Last year I dated this girl, Ana, it was this great connection. The relationship was a bombshell relat. Fun, excitement, amazing sex, understanding, trust, everything. But it failed. She was confused and was new to the (gay)dating scene. (you get alot of attention when ur pretty and new) We continued to see each other here and there like a love hate relationship. We talked about our sit and we agreed to work it out cause we care a few times but it all ended badly. Her throwing our friendship out the door. Ever since we dated her friend and I remained close. I got feelings for her bestf (mary) i told her and she was like no you dont. So i put them away and forgot about them perhaps she was right. Months later mary pursues me in the worst of ways. I'm all confused cause I'm still hung up on ana but it came to apoint where i had to get over her. so i started dating mary. 4 months down the road we've broken up twice. For starters i cant get ana out of my head, i never could. .........
2007-12-26 05:43:27 · 9 answers · asked by FireCunt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ana that is. Before our first break up a month ago, ana confessed at a bar one night, that she thinks about me when she hears songs on her ipod, and that she sees an argument with mary in the future and sees something in the future with us, but we'd have to wait til much later because the mary and me thing had to blow over. I mean i dont know. I care about both of them. But the relat. between me and mary does not compare to the relationship me and ana had. I'm just so confused I'm single now. I'm known to be passive about things and i'm wondering whether or not to pursue ana again. or to just let things blow over and figure it out later and wait to see if i still feel the same or what i feel.?
2007-12-26 05:48:32 · update #1
so, because "mary" pursues you, you automatically start a relationship? I see this so many times in the gay community. Honey just because someone pursues you , doesn't mean they are relationship matireal. And if "mary" was best friends with "Ana", they are likely birds of a feather, neither able to maintain a relationship. For such people, the grass is always greener elsewhere. I suggest that you need to mature a great deal more than you have before you go looking for a lasting relationship...you keep making the same mistake over and over again, sure sign of immaturity.
2007-12-26 05:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a cardinal mistake. You should never come between friends. Also if you are thinking of someone else, then why date another person, especially her friend which will only make you think of ana. Also by doing this, you ruined all aspects of all friendships and it was a selfish thing to do. You are best getting away from all of them and moving on. In the future don't date friends.
2007-12-26 05:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that was one interesting story to read. Well if i were you i would lay off dating for awhile to get things off my mind and straighten things out and then when i'm ready go back out and date other people.
2007-12-26 05:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by BaYb3 MoKa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont date her friend!
it is so simple!
maybe you are in love with Ana
give it some time. maybe Ana is but cant say it because you are dating her friend and i am sure she knows it. give it some time and ask her out agin and tell her your fellings truly!
2007-12-26 05:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you are outback. You are going to be by urself and you might as well face it. You screwed up.
2007-12-26 05:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 23:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by ludlum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay the hell away from both of them, before you end up hurting someone. like yourself
2007-12-26 05:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by Miss_Frightening 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely NOTHING!! You are a complete JERK for doing that! Why would she want you back when you dated her best friend????
2007-12-26 05:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
firecunt... scary.
2007-12-26 05:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋