I'm NOT in love with a guy who's older than me, I don't know why I thought about this, I don't know why I said 12 years, either. I just wondered, I guess. So... What do you think??
2007-12-26 04:57:13 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the difference of age should not influnce the process of love ..
2007-12-26 05:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by HelpNeeded 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't date someone 12 years younger then me, as I wouldn't want to go to jail over anyone, and 12 years would put them underage. I also wouldn't date someone who was 18 as I think there lifestyle would conflict with mine and I don't see much that the 2 of us could relate to. However I would date someone who had a similar lifestyle to that of my own no matter what there age was. I've dated a woman that was 9 years older and dated a few that were younger. The age doesn't make the difference the lifestyle, personality, goals etc makes all the difference.
2007-12-26 05:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by labken1817 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly does happen. Although I don't agree with it until the younger of the two (whether that be a guy or a girl!) is over 18. Before that there are legal issues and strange red flags start to raise when a thirty-something is going after a teenager. But really, love and attraction are based on maturity, personality, and similarities...not age.
2007-12-26 05:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jules, E, and Liam :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am dating a girl 12 years younger than me. I enjoy my time with her. We are not in love with each other.
2007-12-26 05:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dated a guy 12 years older then me. It didn't last very long. A couple months maybe. He wanted me to commit to him, he was ready for marriage and blah blah blah...I wasn't. So there is a down fall for dating so much older.
2007-12-26 05:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by JB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 12 years older than I am.
2007-12-26 04:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
honey, boys will date someone 30 years older or younger. my step g-pa (62) is married to a woman who is 40!
2007-12-26 05:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was like 30 and the girl was 18 then I think that's ok.
2007-12-26 04:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as she is over 18 years old, age doesn't matter
2007-12-26 05:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by Karce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my last gf was 10 years apart.....So yes?? Still lots of problems involved as she was in college and I had a real job and that was a problem a lot of a time because she had lots of free time and I did not and she saw it as neglect even though I spent every bit of free time I had with her....So I am not saying no but it is hard......
2007-12-26 05:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by belbiv1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on both of their ages. 50 vs. 38 doesn't seem to be a problem.
21 vs. 9 is illegal, immoral and disgusting.
2007-12-26 05:01:24 · answer #11 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋