ok i got my boy friend this really expencive gift for christmas....i love him with all my heart but............he didnt get me any thing.WHAT DO I DO?????HELP.
2007-12-26 05:20:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U WOULD THINK IF HE LOVED ME HE WOULD GET ME SOMETHING
2007-12-26 05:27:01 · update #1
AND YES HE DOES CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS!!!
2007-12-26 05:28:21 · update #2
You get gifts because you love a person and want to share something with them. Not to get one back. Maybe he has no money right now, maybe he didn't get it in time, maybe he has something else planned. Who knows why. Did he not say anything? If everything else in the relationship is solid, then I wouldn't read too much into it. As they say "tis better to give than to receive."
2007-12-26 05:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Q-mama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it to him anyway. i mean it's not a car or house or something like that is it. plus i thought its about the heart anyway? were you trying to give him an expensive gift to receive an expensive gift? maybe he doesn't have enough money to buy you anything, maybe he feels bad about it, or maybe he just doesn't feel the same about you as you feel about him. there could be a lot of reasons why this happen, maybe it didn't even cross his mind. guys don't think as girls when it comes to a gift heck i've spent all day looking for the right gift to give my wife then get frustrated and leave with only a card, because i didn't know what to get her. its hard for us sometimes with this "gift thing". to some of us guys gifts are no big deal regardless if its expensive or not. this i am sure of if he feels the same way you feel about him he's probably feeling kind of bad because he didn't get you an expensive gift. he'll make it up to you. i hope you feel better about him not giving you a gift, but I'm sure he had a good reason. it's very confusung buying gifts for girls, and i'm sure i'm not the only guy who feels this way. sorry for the babbling hope i helped.
2007-12-26 13:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by aquila1014 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't celebrate Christmas?? Not everyone does, you know.
How about talking to him about this if it bothers you so much?
Also, I agree with what others have said. I think you're missing the point of Christmas and gift-giving altogether. Do you celebrate Christmas only for the gifts you receive? Do you give gifts only for the gifts you receive? Answer that first.
2007-12-26 13:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didn't get u nothing ? omg ur joking.i hate to say this but it might be because he forgot or he just didn't care.buz if a boy really did care about u then he would have been choosing a gift for u like at less a week before christmas.or maybe he couldn't find the prefect gift?
2007-12-26 13:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know just give it to him and stay distant a little just to see if he purposely didn't give you something. Maybe this person is planning on please don't get mad but breaking it off with you?Any other holiday I think it would not matter but Christmas is the gift holiday maybe your birthday should also be important.
2007-12-26 13:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Noel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there really is nothing you can do. think about it for a while though, did he not give you something cause he couldn't afford anything at the time, or did he just not feel like giving you something? where there other situations that didn't allow him to give you a gift? answer these questions and then think long and hard about your relationship.
2007-12-26 13:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by blessedmarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, some guys (inc me) just don't do presents.
I like to think i look after my missus throughout the year so why is it such a big deal.
I know it isn't totally fair, but I just don't like going downtown when the shops are so busy, and we have always spent so much money on the kids that it just is too hard.
Excuses I know, but that's my story and I'm sticking with it.
2007-12-26 13:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by tayhay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG. If he hasnt at least apologised, I would be so angry! I dont care if you love him or not thats really insensitive and shows he doesnt appreciate you. I would let him know how upset you are and then let him know he has to make this up to you. I hope you have a birthday or something soon because he needs to do some serious grovelling!!!!
2007-12-26 13:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by munchkin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didnt get you anything for Christmas? Not even a card? There isnt anything you can do. You gave him a gift, but you could tell him you expected SOMETHING to show you that he cares about you. ANYTHING!
2007-12-26 13:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you only give gifts in order to receive something in return? My friend, that is completely the wrong way to look at gift giving.
2007-12-26 13:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋