Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

its not pain.... its like how you feel when you hit your funny bone, except in my chest ( like in my heart). its a tingly feeling and at the same time i also get the funny bone feeling in my elbow.
can someone explain to me why im getting these tingly feelings?

its only when i talk to ONE certain person.. sometimes they say things and i get a pang in my heart...
i dont think its a health issue, i feel like someones playing a tug-o war in my heart.. its really wierd b/c i never felt it until i met this person....
im not in love wit this person.. .were just really close frenz
she says she feels somethin when i start to feel it....
what goin on???? lol
When i get the feeling.. i wan2 to scream laf and cry all at the same time

2007-12-26 10:27:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In movies from that era, every time a girls croch is shown the actress has much more hair than we show now.

Did guys find that much hair attractive at the time?

2007-12-26 10:26:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 10:25:05 · 3 answers · asked by MalteseLover 2 in Weddings

My wife started to go with her sister and her girlfriends to dance without me. She insists she needs more space and she still loves me and wants everything continues in the same way. The thing is she told to me that there is male stripper show & she show me his ad cards & a big poster (naked of course) of this guy, poster was bought. We are married- 17 years and three teens. We are 39 y/o. One of these days I asked for a phone # and she told me take it from her wallet. I found the ad's stripper card together w/my photo. I got the number. As a bad guy I was looking for this number in the cell phone bill and what a surprise: I found at least 8 calls to him in different days, less than a minute of duration and 6 more from house's bill. I asked her what's is happening and she was upset because I checked her calls & says this isn't important & I don't have to be worry. It was something she doesn't know why she did it but she wants to continue going the same place & she asked me let her go.

2007-12-26 10:24:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you look for in a 40 plus women? Are looks still important or does an intelligent, vibrant personality help? Does she need to be over all that baggage by that age? Is a sense of humour the best thing?

2007-12-26 10:23:39 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ Shell ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Last night I had a fight with my girlfriend and today she hasnt phoned and isnt returning my e-mails. Am I being taught a lesson or has she silently ended us.

2007-12-26 10:22:05 · 8 answers · asked by Justdickered 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister is an alcoholic. Her alcoholism has cost her her marriage her job and the custody of her children. I get along great with her kids step mother and I actually prefer the step mother company than my sister's. The problem is that she comes to the family functions and always feels the need to bring up past issues up in front of my other sisters and brothers signifacte others that will embrass us. When we watch movies she cant seem to shut up and when you do call her on her lies she plays the victim. Her children want nothing to do with her. She lies to my parent and takes advantage of their generosity. Fails to pay her bills on time and lets my parents pick up the tab. She is 34 years old. It wasnt until her husband left her in 2006 that we even knew she had a problem with alcohol. We all have gone out of way to help her stay sober but she continues to drink and bring drama to our family. I'm at the point where I have anxiety when I know she is going 2 b around.

2007-12-26 10:20:25 · 6 answers · asked by farawaygrl 1 in Family

Amber Easton is http://www.post-21x.com/gallery/amber_easton_perfect/amber_easton/amber_easton_002.jpg

Esther Baxter is http://www.esther-baxter.info/slides/esther_baxter_130hf.html

who do you think is sexier

2007-12-26 10:20:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend keeps telling me he loves me but can't do anything physical with me because he is gay. I am perfectly happy with this (sort of, I have accepted it and would rather be good friends) but he tells me he loves me all the time. Yesterday we were chatting on MSN and I counted he said it 12 times. We are close and I guess it is a bit like a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship but without the sex. We do cuddle and get close but nothing else. But I am happy being friends, why does he keep telling me he loves me? Is it to reel me in and keep me interested? Is it platonic love? Is it something else? I am so confused.

2007-12-26 10:19:57 · 53 answers · asked by yesyoucancancan 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 10:19:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my fiance with all my heart. we have been togather for almost a year now. well see he checks my myspace and i checked his once, and i found a couple of things. 1. he called the girl amberlicious. 2. he told her he miss's her and some other girls from school. 3. he called her babe and he don't even call me that. 4. he commented one of her pics and said "WOW,amber you look hott,hit me back sometime". well i talked to him about it and i told him that i feel like he has feelings for her and his told me that his feels for her is lust not love but with me its love not lust. and he told me that i don't need to worry about him cheating on me but i do anyway its a natural thing for me. ive been in 3 relationships before him and they all cheated on me and his ex cheated on him. i have never ever cheated in my life and he says he hasn't either but when i talked to him he got angry at me. but he told me that everyone calls people babe and hun but i still have my feelings. am i wrong?

2007-12-26 10:18:58 · 18 answers · asked by Babygiirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is getting a bit sexless. I have talked to him but he keeps saying he does love me but doesn't want sex as often as we used to. Once every two/three months is enough for him. Told him I couldn't put up with that. We don't sit and cuddle up together and we are just like brothers and sisters. Any advice on how can I put a spark back into the relationship??

2007-12-26 10:18:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 10:17:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is just been strange to birth, dating all of these girls that have been insane. He dresses and wears a lot of black and has a few piercings [[ew]]. He also works at Hot Topic. Strange brother and his girlfriend likes the same ugly nasty punk scream hardcore music he likes and she's ugly as ever. I found these pictures on myspace.

http://a204.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/125/l_030142783066606a7d17df325730f20b.jpg

http://a878.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/84/l_f7b5ca2a61bcc212945bb292d125a365.jpg

http://a37.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/95/l_1dbba778a22296384d527665f0b248c4.jpg

She's not cute at all.. definitely ugly too me. Our family enjoys the girls that dress like everybody. We have a high standard to meet to carry our fortunes. My brother and her ruin everything so retarded!

2007-12-26 10:17:31 · 21 answers · asked by Helen 1 in Singles & Dating

I was sitting in my bed room and i heard the door crack open so i just shut the bedroom door right away! I can't call the police because the phone is outside the bedroom and i live in an apartment (ALONE) so i cant jump off the window or something! What do i do?

2007-12-26 10:16:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He didn't touch her, but he did offer pot before. Not the first time, last time offered alcohol to see her boobs. We have been blissfully married for 2 yrs, together for 9. I found this out 3 days before Christmas and now I hate the very sight of him. He denies it, says it was a joke. My daughter doesn't believe that and is currently with her big brother about an hour away while school is out for the holidays.

Do I HAVE TO get marriage counseling before filing divorce or is this enough to end it now? He is trying to act like it's no big deal but we are all horrified by this. I'm so upset, I just want him to leave but I don't think he will - if I call the cops and tell them what he did will they arrest him?

Somebody please help me.
God bless.

2007-12-26 10:16:21 · 20 answers · asked by despondent in TX 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i can not elaborate but i have my proof and i want to come out of it unharmed.i am a mom with two teenage kids and i want their feelings spared. serious responses only .

2007-12-26 10:16:00 · 4 answers · asked by CHER 6 in Singles & Dating

Man, am I itching in the groin area!

2007-12-26 10:12:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help

2007-12-26 10:11:53 · 3 answers · asked by ashley b 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i got married may 2005 ..we didnt have the money to get professional pictures done... but we just got the idea to go to jcpennys and have them taken in my wedding dress and his tux since now we have the money... i know its been two years...but i can get it all to look the same as before...hair and all... i just never got to have the wedding portraits done...just ones off of a disposable cameras and digital ...is it a dumb idea?

2007-12-26 10:10:06 · 19 answers · asked by ~Ashley~ 5 in Weddings

ok so my freind and i both like the same person, and she said that she has been to his house one time, and she was looking for the bathroom and she accidently opened the door to his room and she said he was wearing nothing but boxers and he was playing his guitarr.....and she said sorry and was gonna leave but he told her to come in and he put on a shirt and started talking to her and she asked him if he could teach her to play something on the guitar and he did.

and ok seriousely i know her and him very well and everytime i go to church i keep asking her whey they wont talk...i mean shes seen him half naked by her little story and she keeps saying no hes 'too shy"

so anyway i know she is definatly lying because she wants me to stay away from him, but the other day i remembered it was his birthday and i wishe him a happy b-day and just as i turned around he hugged me and said merry chirstmas.

well anyway...i know her story is fake, but i wanna know for sure so should i?

2007-12-26 10:09:20 · 5 answers · asked by Mnm's 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 10:08:24 · 12 answers · asked by bettyb 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

And I ask from a legal sense ONLY. If your church or belief system (religion) wont allow it, that is their buisness. Why shouldn't gays be allowed to LEGALLY marry?

2007-12-26 10:08:17 · 11 answers · asked by Julio P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what do u reply if someone asks u "how's it going"? i've been here in the US for almost 2 yrs now and I still don't know how to reply to that question.lol..
thanks. im so ignorant

2007-12-26 10:07:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We were still very much in love and planning our future after we retired in 3 yrs. How can I move forward knowing that he was taken from me by careless mistakes of others. We had so much to look forward to together. We had grandchildren due anytime and loving children. Why did this happen to us? My heart is broken and I am not able to find any peace. It has been 7 months. Does anyone know how I can learn to accept this? And forgive those who caused this?

2007-12-26 10:05:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we were together about 5 years

2007-12-26 10:05:21 · 7 answers · asked by allen h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 10:04:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am saving money to move out i have had a bad few years and no i haven't lived on my own due to finical situation. i am saving up the money and praying after today that i will have enough in may or june. this is the reason i am trying to improve myself and all. i do put a little make up like eye-shadow and lipstick on. my mom says in a cunning voice thats not enough i need to put foundation and etc on since i am seen in public. or that my hair isn't up to what she consider standard. what am i suppose to do or how do i respond to her every time. every-time i try to say something she like i don't need to hear the selfishness or attitude that you about to do and i am really not a selfish brat and i know that in my heart and by the lord. and i have asked isn't it my choice with my hair and make up and what i want to do? am i not right with that? please help

2007-12-26 10:02:53 · 2 answers · asked by bettyb 5 in Family

I've known my neighbour for 20 years who i thought was a friend. She moved into the rented flat above my husband and i (we own ours) about two years ago and ever since she has made so much much noise, we want to move.

Every week she seems to have a new boyfriend and my husband and i have to listen to her antics, we're talking major bed squeaking. At first we thought it was funny but now i have a 7 month old son and it keeps waking him up. I have told her many times that we can hear her and could she do something about it, she always says sorry but she never actually does anything about it.

The thing is, it's bad enough that she's waking us up but she also has a 3 three year old boy and if we can hear her then he must be able to as well and i don't think it's right.

I don't know what else to do, i don't want to lose a friend but then i don't think she is being a very good friend to me. We want to move house and we have tried to juggle our finances but we can't afford it.....

2007-12-26 10:00:10 · 16 answers · asked by Lee Lee 5 in Friends

I asked a while back, and counseling was the best logical answer. well now we are trying that and of course he really does not want to be there, and is not shy in saying that. I'm kind of scared cause I can't afford to be on my own with kids yet. considering he depleted my savings account for his hunting trip. he has said that he pretty much wants me home 24/7 to be there for him and the kids! NO FRIENDS ALLOWED!!!!!!! what is up with that. the counselor has not told me everything he has told my husband in private session, but in so many words it is all my fault. any other suggestions????

2007-12-26 09:59:51 · 6 answers · asked by lilyjo 2 in Marriage & Divorce