i can not elaborate but i have my proof and i want to come out of it unharmed.i am a mom with two teenage kids and i want their feelings spared. serious responses only .
2007-12-26 10:16:00 · 4 answers · asked by CHER 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BUT I DON'T WANT TO HURT HIM.sometimes he is good to me but i can not base a relationship on his being good to me 1 day out of a 30 day month.
2007-12-26 11:23:40 · update #1
we will talk- i am here - and we will talk- you will get out if its the last fu(king thing i do
2007-12-26 11:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Openly and honestly, that is the only way. It is going to get ugly and feelings are going to be hurt, there is no avoiding that. Get him into a room, away from the kids and anyone else, and lay it all out for him. Be direct, give examples, facts, and do it as dispassionately as you can.
One other thing, do not fall for the "once for old times sake" ploy. It is almost always a bad idea. All the best to you.
2007-12-26 19:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what to suggest. Having been in a violent marriage, I went for counseling first to see if tere was anything I could do to save it, instead I found out that I was worth a LOT more than I thought, and deserved better. When I ended up running for my life, I'd already had a place set up as a safe house. And friends helped a lot. If you need to talk, let me know. I'm here.
2007-12-27 07:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this relationship is with their father..... good luck
if not, then you're going to need to just slowly see him less and less, yes they will ask about him sometimes, but you can just say that he is busy or something, or away on business
2007-12-26 18:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋