Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

2007-12-26 11:52:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so, there's this girl that is all over me all the time, and she won't leave me alone. She always wants to hug me, and I always let her. She won't leave me alone. She says she's not interested in me, but she is always looking for hugs and stuff.

Once, she almost tried to get a kiss from me, but I didn't let it happen because I am really not interested in her. She is a good friend, but she is just totally taking advantage of our friendship by trying to take it up a knotch. I don't really know what to do. Any suggestions, please?

2007-12-26 11:52:01 · 7 answers · asked by Jay 4 in Friends

2007-12-26 11:51:56 · 6 answers · asked by lana s 2 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking of leaving the guy I like a picture comment on Myspace and telling him he has an amazing smile. I think he knows I like him because the other night I was talking to our mutual friend at youth group and he called the guy I like over and said, "She's been dying to talk to you." So would telling him he has an amazing smile creep him out and make him think I'm obsessed, or would he like it? Would an adjective besides "amazing" be better?

2007-12-26 11:51:35 · 24 answers · asked by †StrongAsDeath† 3 in Singles & Dating

I am her ?

She is my ?

2007-12-26 11:51:13 · 4 answers · asked by Chimera's Song 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i got tore up out of a sound sleep with bruises on my back ,legs ,and wrists and i got my nose bit deep enough to leave scars.that was my gift from my santa.

2007-12-26 11:50:55 · 7 answers · asked by CHER 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

please help

2007-12-26 11:49:21 · 16 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

any help would be great. thanks

2007-12-26 11:49:01 · 20 answers · asked by xo hersheys xo 2 in Singles & Dating

we are getting a divorce and my husband has a good job but doesn't pay child support for his two girl. he just refuse to paid on his own.. do you think the court will make him pay because he children lived with me . we have been separated for 1 years and half.

2007-12-26 11:48:28 · 10 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl has a very low self esteem.her b.f is only 25.does she really looked old ? does she has the right 2 feel embarassed to be with a younger b.f?

http://s253.photobucket.com/albums/hh62/inyakibabe/?action=view¤t=IMG_0005.jpg

2007-12-26 11:47:40 · 25 answers · asked by Lhizz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can anyone help. We love each other and I just need opinions on this subject. At 41 can I still get pregnaunt?

2007-12-26 11:44:27 · 38 answers · asked by j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 11:44:18 · 13 answers · asked by cindycandy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What will happen if a person doesn't disclose accurate info in the disclosure docs? After I disclosed my info to my ex on 10/11/07, it took him until 11/26/07 to finally provide me with his info, however, he is withholding info bcuz the check stubs he submitted, which were dated for pay periods of 10/12 & 10/26 was for Job “A”, but I just found out that approx. 1 week b4 he served me his disclosure, he started working @ Job “B”, but he didn’t include any info pertaining 2 that on the worksheet. So either he has 2 jobs & is trying to withhold info on the 2nd, or he quit Job “A” & started Job “B” but did not disclose it bcuz he gets more $$.

My question is, can't he get in trouble for witholding this info? Bcuz, he's purposely lying or disclosing false/incomplete info. I didn’t ask for alimony. All I want him to do is pay 1/2 on debt acquired from the time we married to the time we physically separated, which was 75% his debt anyway & he doesn’t want to pay anything.

2007-12-26 11:43:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im half indian so my family decided to arrange a marriage with this wonderful guy from india. everything went well and we started seeing each other. I asked him if he was serious with me and since then i havent heard from him. what i dont understand is that if he wasnt serious and didnt want marriage y did he get into the arranged marriage thing in the 1st place? he is 38 y.o. and im 20 y.o.. i just dont understand y he doesnt want me. im pretty (everyone tells me that) and im very nice. he even said i was very beutiful and he played with my long hair all the time.. i really dont know what to do. i was really hoping to marry him. y did he reject me? bc of him i spent xmas sick in bed crying. i had high fever and almost went to emergency. y would an old man refuse to marry a young girl?

2007-12-26 11:41:55 · 16 answers · asked by prettyinpink i 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 11:41:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have decided to have our wedding during the Holiday season next year. We would like to have a Decemeber wedding? As an outsider and taking into consideration that this would be during the Holidays---which date would you feel most accomodating?

Sat. December 5th
Sat. December 13th
Sat. December 27th

Our first & second choices are the 13th & 27th. Our only hesitations are; would people be irritated with a wedding so close to Christmas. Or on the other hand---would it be too much to ask to have it between Christmas & New Years?

PS- We decided to do it during the Holidays for several reasons:
a) we both can get a lot of time off of work ( I get 2 weeks normally)
b) we won't have to worry about decorating a church!
c) venues are HALF the price in the winter here

Please let me know your thoughts!

2007-12-26 11:40:07 · 23 answers · asked by ladyluck27 1 in Weddings

A rebellious question; I agree. I live in Tamilnadu, India, that was once upon a time a great country with enviable culture and civilization. The related incident had happened on this Christmas Day. After the festival lunch, the husband had left over so many items in the plates. In the past the wife refused to eat it and the husband was passive about it. But this time the In-laws present there felt offended when the wife refused to eat leftovers and the husband too joined in the fray. They said that it is in the Indian tradition for a wife to eat such things and faulted her for it. But firmly she stood her ground in spite of the unpleasantness it created. While I complement her for her being firm against provocation I am eager to know your views about this obsolete and vomit-inducing practice. Why not the husbands practice eating the garbage item before insisting on wife to do the same and faithfully stand by Indian tradition? Snake Charmers’ land? I say ‘Yes’. You fume? Yes, you should!

2007-12-26 11:39:45 · 19 answers · asked by Nimit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is getting married and i'm giving her money as a gift...the only problem is i'm not sure how much to give her. i'm a college student on a budget. we were good friends in high school but don't really stay in touch anymore....

2007-12-26 11:39:30 · 17 answers · asked by lillejetaime 1 in Weddings

2007-12-26 11:37:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he's been gone for over a year, can I file for abandonment? what's the process, how long does it take?

I don't want any of his crap and he certainly isn't going to get anything from me, but knowing how it takes him forever to get simple things done, a legal battle would just take forever and mucho $$$ and I just want this done YESTERDAY.

p.s. the marriage was never consummated either, I'm working on the annullment too.

2007-12-26 11:32:57 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what happened? what did you two say? how long have you been together?

2007-12-26 11:32:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 11:32:13 · 30 answers · asked by JoSh 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked a question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AowycGFNFjSqd4Ys4u7OeZojzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20071226154825AAOjJnV

and this answer (He must have a "cold" personality..or perhaps he serves his revenge cold) has me question why someone would have a name like Gazpacho

2007-12-26 11:31:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Most recently two. One i dated for five years and the other i dated for two years act like they can't live without me but they don't want me back and they dont want me with anyone else? i don;t discuss my current situations with them but they call about once a week and if i dont answer or call back for a while the call and leave messages asking why i dont talk to them or why am i mad at them because i didnt call back soon enough. the one i dated for two years also has caused problems with other dates. such as telling me lies about them and visa versa. what the hell can i do? i've had offers to move to another state because the situations are so bad. do i need too leave? whats wrong with these girls that dont want me but dont want me too have anyone else?

2007-12-26 11:31:14 · 14 answers · asked by dragonfly 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is almost 17 and she lost her mom to cancer just over 3 weeks ago now...since it's Christmas time, would it be better to keep her busy and try to help her forget (she says she likes my house better and she doesn't really want to be at home with her family) or let her deal with it at home? please help!

2007-12-26 11:31:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a crush on my husbands best friend. I have had it for about 5 years. I say it's a crush because it comes and goes. How do i keep it from developing into more if he is always around? I try to not hang with him and my husband and i make excuses not to but my husband always wants me to tag along. Lately i've been thinking about my crush constantly and im afraid that im starting to like him. What do i do?

2007-12-26 11:25:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry to anyone whos already seen this.. i just posted it in the marriages and divorce section but thought it would be wise to post here aswell.

Im 25 years old (male) and engaged to my fianceee who iv been with for around two years but as we get closer to the big day theres something thats really bothering me
Baisically between the ages of 14-17 when i was at boarding school i fooled around (for want of a better word) with one of the guys i shared a room with. Since then nothing like this has ever happened but iv never told anybody about this and so much of me wants to get it off my shoulders and tell her to start married life honestly and everything but on the other hand so much of me dosent want to say any anything for fear of what her reaction might be. Do you think that i should say anything or is it something we could go for the rest of our lives without her ever needing to know?
Thanks in advance

2007-12-26 11:24:37 · 37 answers · asked by unileedslad 1 in Weddings

sometimes i feel like crying, crappy, miserable, lonely and lost (strangely)
Why can't i be head strong freaking all the time??? it frustrating.

2007-12-26 11:23:50 · 6 answers · asked by Betsy Boop 4 in Singles & Dating

I just found out 3 months ago.our daughter is 7 months old

2007-12-26 11:23:00 · 3 answers · asked by madashell 1 in Singles & Dating

WELL I BROKE UP WITH MY BOYFRIEND. I STARTED DATING SOMEBODY ELSE I GOT PREGNANT BY HIM AND NOW IM BACK WITH MY EX BUT HE THINKS THAT THE BABY I HAD IS HIS. NOW THE REAL DAD OF MY BABY KNOWS ITS HIS AND HE IS HARRASING ME AND PRESSURING ME TO LET HIM SEE THE BABY BUT THE BABY DOESNT HAVE HIS NAME LEGALLY THE BABY IS UNDER MY HUSBANDS LAST NAME AND MINE. CAN HE DO SOMETHING TO ME. OR FORCE ME TO DO ANYTHING. CAN HE DO ANYTHING TO ME LIKE A LAWSUIT OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT. MAYBE TAKE ME TO COURT

2007-12-26 11:22:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce