Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

well thats what happend to me the letter came in the post with the hotels name on the envelope addressed to my husband so i opened it.i got a shock as i read it and it said the time date and area on it also for a room for 2 people.so i waited for my husband to get home from work i asked him about the letter he said he had booked the room for his mate because he had met a woman and he had no I.D and that he still lives with his mum. i said that is a bit weired and i dont believe you because the date on the letter is the same as when my husband said that he was going to devon u.k.to get a car and that is a 12 hour drive there and back from where i live in england so.i also phoned him 3 times at different times that night to see how he was and all the time he took his time to answer his mobile phone and i couldnt hear the car it was very quiet.he got back to his garage quick within 12 hours.he says he has not been with another woman it was a favour for his mate who he wont let me talk to.

2007-12-26 12:35:52 · 24 answers · asked by Summer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been married for 4 yrs now wife has son 12 from previous marrage and is a stay at home mom.i work 5 sometimes 6 days a week. i pay all the bills & is the only income source so she doent have to worry about it. when i come home i have to cook about 98 % of the meals plus uasually clean up afterwards as well then i get to relax for maybe 2 to 3 hrs till its bed time, which i go to bed alone as she stays up till whenever and sleeps in till whenever.some nites shes just goes out, & comes home after i've gone to bed so i really dont know when she gets home. she gets $300 child saport from ex & i was giving her $400 more till lately for spending money & that wasnt enough.i opened a new checking account for the bills after i couldnt control the spending w/out her on account & left old account for her. ofcourse since then our sex life has been non- exsistant & she calls the shots on when that will be. so what should a husbands & wifes responabiltys be when she is a stay at home mom??

2007-12-26 12:35:24 · 17 answers · asked by wayne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 12:35:04 · 7 answers · asked by erin 1 in Singles & Dating

What do guys truly look for in a girl?

And be honest with me.

2007-12-26 12:34:17 · 13 answers · asked by Dareian S 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiance has a bit of temper, and what i dont understand is why he plays video games that make him yell screem cuss, and through stuff. why? guys why does he do this??? its to the point the dog wont come in when he plays and the nieghbor thinks we are fighting! is there anything i can do?

2007-12-26 12:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs T. 2009 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently i found hidden emails and hidden text messages of my wife and this so called brother like friend talking nasty to each other . I'll drag and drop some of the messages then can some buddy tell me why a wife of 10 years could be so cruel.

jeff hi beth is he home?---Beth yes he is sleep though---jeff oh good lets play do you miss me beth---beth oh yes i miss your every touch and moment together----jeff i know you do beth and thats why he will not let you live in washington--cause we could f--k---beth i know we would all the time---jeff yes we could and i could lick your little kitty---Beth oh your getting me all turned on---jeff i know i am unlike your husban----beth yeah i know you can to and have been for 8 yrs of my marige and he has no clue that every time me and you hung out we was f--king----jeff true cause he thinks we are just old best friends---beth yup and he will never know i truly love you---jeff yeah same here my wife will never know either . can any one relate?

2007-12-26 12:32:14 · 12 answers · asked by wayne s 1 in Singles & Dating

this might be a little off the wall...lol...me and a friend are having a discusion.
if a guy usually "finishes" within 5 minutes of intercourse does this usually mean he's enjoying it. in other words...it's good...lol
if he's not liking it does it usually take longer because he has to put more effort into it to ***.

2007-12-26 12:31:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 17 year old son is very secretive and evasive and defiant. He seems to want no accountability for his actions. Several times in the past we've had to "save him" from situations he's created himself. My husband is very strict and insists on asking probing questions - which means he usually ends up finding my son in some deceit, which infuriates my son (and my husband). Right now my son is very defiant. I know that over the next couple of days this could come to blows between them. My husband is ready to throw him out if he doesn't back down, and my son is so defiant and headstrong that he won't back down. As a mother in the middle what can I do. I should support my husband (my husband never feels I support him enough though I am not a pushover mother) but I'm afraid to let my son do what he wants while he has so much rage (I don't want to enable him but I'm afraid for him). Any advice please?

2007-12-26 12:30:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if u slept with a guy for the first time, and he turned out to be really really "open" during sex, like he would do a lot of nasty stuff that most couples wouldnt do. (not like dominatrix but like shoving your face in pillows or grabbing your hair)

would that be a turn on or turn off?

2007-12-26 12:29:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 12:28:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-26 12:28:30 · 6 answers · asked by Shooter McGavin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hello i am 19 years old and my mom is leaving me because i got into a fight with her boyfriend she is leaving with him and i don't have nowhere to stay or a job i don't have nothing, i leave in San Francisco who do u guys think could help me????

2007-12-26 12:25:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was scared but fell in love and he was great....then he cheated on me. i forgave him because everyone makes mistakes....but it happened again. i'll always love him but i want to find someone that is in love with me and wants to be with me and spend time together. why is that so hard?

2007-12-26 12:24:41 · 20 answers · asked by Kaulana 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 12:24:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I envy them because they always get whatever they want,easily.

2007-12-26 12:23:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-26 12:23:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do i do if im getting ready to have sex and i go before i even get naked?

2007-12-26 12:22:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so here is my situation...There are two guys in my life right now. One is the sweetest kindest guy who likes just talking on the phone and going out for lunch and just spending time with me. The other one is a total jerk who only calls me when he wants to have sex. But for some reason, whenever I am with the nice guy, all I can think about is the mean one, hoping he will call me. What is wrong with me that I would rather be wtih a guy who is blatently using me over a guy who respects me?

2007-12-26 12:21:08 · 39 answers · asked by Jane A 3 in Singles & Dating

Every time I schedule outdoor photos, it rains. My wedding is less than 2 months away. HELP!

2007-12-26 12:19:42 · 4 answers · asked by sdkyzer 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend told me he was dumping me on Christmas evening! What sort of guy would you say he is to do that?

2007-12-26 12:18:26 · 20 answers · asked by 2bzy 6 in Singles & Dating

And how many of you KNOW the difference ? And Do you Believe there is a difference ?

2007-12-26 12:16:07 · 25 answers · asked by hghostinme 6 in Singles & Dating

Would you like a girl who is 15 and is a second degree black belt in martial arts?? Or would that scare you away!! Please answer truthfully!! Thanks!! : )

2007-12-26 12:15:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been going to clubs the last few weeks to try and "hook up" but it seems like no guys are interested. I'm only 16 but I easily look like I'm 20 and I've been trying to lose my virginity before I get with an older man I know. I'm desperate!

Is it the way I look am I too ugly?

Here's some pics of me.
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2007-12-26 12:15:45 · 15 answers · asked by sixninetoofine 1 in Singles & Dating

I know there are alot of questions like this asked, so here goes: me & my bf have been together for a year and a few months, and it's only now that the relationship is rocky. We don't have fights or anything, and unlike most, we still have deep conversations; it's just the small talk we can't manage. A few months ago, when we were having the biggest problems, I caught him flirting with another girl and found out he had been flirting with her for a month before. I forgave him, and we said decided to try and work it out. Now, while we still have meaningful conversations, it just feels like things are becoming stagnant. To everyone else we come off as a great couple, but together we just..I don't know. I want to keep trying and so does he, but I'm just wondering if we're holding onto something that should just be broken off? Or if I'm just being too critical and the relationship is just going through a growing phase? Please help!!!!

2007-12-26 12:15:24 · 1 answers · asked by Lost & Wandering 2 in Singles & Dating

I have only been with my boyfriend for two months and I want him to be the one. We do love eachother and I can truly see him as marriage material and it scares me because I don't want my feelings to be crushed. I feel like I have fallen way too fast. We live 2.5 hours away from eachother and the relationship is sometimes stressful. What can I do? I want to slow my feelings down just in case things don't work out and so I don't feel so stressed out to make things work.

2007-12-26 12:14:45 · 11 answers · asked by Tiffany H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 12:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by rr.milf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the first time you make out with a guy, or french a guy, if you've never kissed someone before.is it easy? like, will you be really bad because you've had no practice? or will it be okay if you just like, follow the guys lead? im wondering because i need help! ive never kissed a guy! im 15, not too young. if i make out with a guy, will it come easy even though its the first time?
mature answers please!!!

2007-12-26 12:13:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 12:13:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some say you shouldn't be involved in a serious romantic relationtionships before 25 ...its messes people up emotionally and they have a different prepective in future relations. insecurites, trust issues. whatever it may be. What are your thoughts? some people mature early, some a bit later and some never.

2007-12-26 12:13:08 · 13 answers · asked by Betsy Boop 4 in Singles & Dating

There's a boy in one of my classes, he's a senior (nearly 18) and I'm a freshman (14 1/2). Anyway, he's super nice, giving me hugs and playing with me when the lesson hasn't started or has finished early (like poking and coming up and tickling me). Sometimes he flirts with me, but other times he's rude and obnoxious. He's not the most attractive person in the world, but neither am I.

So...is he into me? And if so, why? He's a senior. If he's not into me, than why does he act like it?

2007-12-26 12:11:32 · 2 answers · asked by janeyyet 2 in Other - Family & Relationships