hello i am 19 years old and my mom is leaving me because i got into a fight with her boyfriend she is leaving with him and i don't have nowhere to stay or a job i don't have nothing, i leave in San Francisco who do u guys think could help me????
2007-12-26 12:25:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're 19 years old. You're an adult, and your mother is no longer responsible for you. You need to seriously think of getting a job. If your mother left with her boyfriend, the house stays. You could try living there until you get enough money to leave.
2007-12-26 13:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the age of nineteen, you are legally an adult. Your Mom is no longer responsible for you. You need to get counseling for your anger and alcohol issues. Then you can find a job to support yourself.
You have made some bad choices in your early adulthood, I hope that you can straighten yourself out.
Good Luck.
2007-12-26 20:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. I'm sorry.
Well I don't really know what to say, do you have any older siblings you could live with?
I'd contact child protection or some other form of householding agency and ask them what you should do. I've never been in a situation like yours but thats what I would do. If she leaves you just because of a guy, that's really really shallow. I'd do something right away.
2007-12-26 20:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your stuck in a dilly of a pickle (sounds corny) but it sounds like your mom doesn't care about her children and is desparate to be with someone. try finding a job to support yourself if she's leaving. but try to convince her not to leave and that you need and love her. say to her, "if you love me why are you leaving me?" this would make her think. apologize to him. if not, let her go and get a job and place to stay, like a relative.
2007-12-26 20:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Respect Is What It Is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a local church. You're considered an adult now and it's time for your mother to live her life and you to move on. I told my children ahead of time, that unless they were going to college when the graduated from high school, they would have to get it together and move out on their own. I raised them and they always said they were grown. . . well, welcome to the real world. Good Luck!
2007-12-26 20:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sucks
2007-12-26 20:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Emilyy ♫ (: 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋