if u slept with a guy for the first time, and he turned out to be really really "open" during sex, like he would do a lot of nasty stuff that most couples wouldnt do. (not like dominatrix but like shoving your face in pillows or grabbing your hair)
would that be a turn on or turn off?
2007-12-26 12:29:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
off because I like romantically normal guy.
2007-12-26 12:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was trying to do things the first time you had sex, imagine in the future when he feels you trust him more? He might want to do that suffocation thing when he will strangle you to the point of passing out. Most guys wait until they think you love them or trust them, then they start seeing how far you will go........do yourself a favor and move on.
2007-12-26 12:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by romanov1918 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy, if its just casual sex that would turn me off in half a heart beat but it it is someone i have a deeper connection to, like a close freind that happens to go a little farther then yeah, i would be turned on because it is different if your with someone you know would never intentionally hurt you
2007-12-26 12:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by tamara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person. If you like it rough then it would probably turn you on if your more of a romantic then it maybe a big turn off. I think it comes down to personal preference.
2007-12-26 12:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by luckyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on if i was drunk or not.
probably turned on if i have been with the guy for years..... but not so sure if it was the first time.
if you get down and dirty right from the start.... there's not a lot left to try later in the relationship. it will only have to get weirder, kinkier and most likely rougher.
2007-12-26 12:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by pickle_tkl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is did you find it a turn off? or are you feeling guilty for rather enjoying it? Probabaly something you've desired for sometime, aint it? be truethful.
2007-12-26 12:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by Inuk-man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i would run for my life. Cant believe it is a turn on for many people. This guy is a sex maniac and a sadist.
2007-12-27 03:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sal SR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person, different people like different stuff! There are some really freky people and some conservative people!
2007-12-26 12:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by Tracy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suffocation is a turn off
2007-12-26 12:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up! That is abusive behavior...run. I certainly hope it turns you off. He wasn't "open" he was a nut case.
2007-12-26 12:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋